Ended up having a not so good encounter with opening my first 3 set

MuchAdoAboutNada · 2014-05-21T22:20:53+00:00

As previously stated, your opener was weak. You came across as a burden. Invite them to you.

Cold girls are difficult. I'd say that if she isn't receptive and doesn't like you then stop trying to win her over. Instead include her in the general conversation. Don't make the conversation about her, just include her a bit.

Hope this helps :)

2014-05-21T22:57:21+00:00

"Hey, wait wait. Who are you guys? You look like fun people."

Introduce yourself, acknowledge you'll forget their names (if your memory is shit like mine is), and ask them what they're up to or who they know there. Make conversation. Keep it light, try making a couple jokes, be open about what you're doing there, etc.

If they're being cold all you have to say is "I feel like I'm intruding on you girls, would you like me to go?" React appropriately.

USTS2011 · 2014-05-21T21:53:07+00:00

hey would you guys like some company doesn't sound like a very good opener and makes it seem like you are desperate to be around someone and then just followed them like a puppy to wherever they were going. Invite girls into your world, don't force your way into theirs. Instead of hey where are you going, can I come along... introduce yourself, get to know them a little and invite them to what YOU are doing and what YOU want to do

nycprowl · 2014-05-22T19:24:53+00:00

While not the greatest opener, it's a numbers game. Those chicks just weren't receptive. You can't control others reactions to you, you have no idea what's going on in their heads.

Maybe the cold girl gets anxiety or is generally an unpleasant person, maybe she just got off the phone with her mother who is hounding her about something, or she is irritable because she's hungry.

The point is, don't get hung up on this.

NooF147 · 2014-05-21T21:28:40+00:00

Ive lurked hard for a year and started my game for about a month, this was almost sort of a "leap of faith" moment for me. I didn't let the encounter discourage me so it's chill

Title	Ended up having a not so good encounter with opening my first 3 set
Author	NooF147
Upvotes	4
Comments	7
Date	May 21, 2014 9:25 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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