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[–]SigLambdaIota 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Waited too long. In my experience women have a very short attention span. Especially pretty ones. If they are interested and you don't make a move/escalate quickly enough she will loose interest and move on to the next guy in line. So waiting a day or two before texting is absurd. You need to keep the spark alive somehow up until sex. After that you can take a more relaxed approach
[–]Gillagoon 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I doubt I waited too long. We have class together twice a week, and plus finals are coming
[–]SigLambdaIota 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You didn't have the number. You sent the message over Facebook which she checked later (girls don't check Facebook messages as often since they get a lot of those, I lived with 4 girls). A lot could've happened thill then. Women change their minds ridiculously quick. She might've been into you that night cz of ovulation/recent dump by a Chad/ etc. with the next one try to at least sending a meme or some way of contact once a day. My 2 cents
[–]brian242 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She's not interested in you. Shut the fuck up and move on.
[–]kalolilo 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
When a woman gives you lots of iois, she is expecting you to take the lead, be fun, alpha, take her on a date, make her feel comfortable and fuck her brains out.
You didn't do this, so in her head she thinks: "Well I did all the work a woman has to do and showed him that I'm clearly into him, but he's not even man enough to take action. "
[–]NJA42421 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Im pretty new to seddit but it sounds like she backed out for whatever reason. Be cordial and maybe she will contact you later but to me it sounds like you need to move to another
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