I'm worried that my escalations are coming off as needy. I used to not escalate nearly enough. Now I'm pretty obvious about it. I do a good amount of appropriate kino and I generally make the sure the woman knows where I'm coming from, that I'm attracted to her and don't just want to be her friend.

But I'm worried that this is coming off as too needy. I used to have a problem with coming off as too aloof and that wasn't good either.

DAE experience this problem?