Escalation! How do you guys do it?

I_am_not_funny_ · 2014-09-14T07:01:11+00:00

Escalation isn't as much what you say as much as it is what you do.

With my most recent hookup I started the night by sitting next to her in my cousins truck and he likes to wingman for me so he took corners sharp and made sure she had to lean into me, I kept my legs spread out far to make sure ours were touching, these things are considered the accidental kino touches, I always start with these.

Then I just talked with her over a drink and had rigorous eye contact, when I caught her staring I'd give her a little smirk.

Then she was trying to get to the washroom later on I'd grab her hips and pull her back, teasing her while building sexual tension.

Then randomly give her a huge hug, lead her into my room, threw her on my bed and started making out with her.

Have you read De'carlos escalation guide?

teksimian · 2014-09-14T17:53:49+00:00

i yawn, stretch, put my arm around her and then talk about how my shirt and pants are chaffing me.

gigitygigitygoo · 2014-09-14T12:35:57+00:00

There's tons of info in the sidebar but essentially it starts from the moment you're together. Constant physical touching is necessary for escalation otherwise any physical advance out of the blue will come as a surprise and quite possibly backfire.

Sitting together on a couch, hold her hand and maybe give it a massage, rub her leg starting with the knee and move upwards...there's no need to say anything to do either of these so don't feel like you have to provide a reason for touching her in this matter.

Put your arm around her and don't make it awkward, just make sure it isn't uncomfortable for her. Grab the back of her neck and lightly rub it for a while then turn her head towards yours and kiss her. From here you just proceed with what feels natural.

2014-09-14T16:38:25+00:00

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/29ul48/simple_kino_guide/

Title	Escalation! How do you guys do it?
Author	ubdiverbrksbord
Upvotes	13
Comments	6
Date	September 14, 2014 4:49 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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