I went out last night and had a blast but something really puzzling happened. I haven't been "active" in pickup for around 8 months or so now because of personal reasons but yesterday I was in the mood and decided to go for it. I went out on the dance floor and chatted up around 10-15 women over the course of the night but never really picked a target to stick with. I would hit it off with a girl and then get distracted and end up talking to another girl, etc. There was 2 girls in particular that were very receptive, lots of kino, IOI's, and so on. First girl I just got a number and sent her home, didn't really think much of it.
With the second girl we talked for a little bit and I decided to give her a ride home from the club, and we had an interesting conversation for the 30 minute ride. When we got to her apartment parking lot we started talking some more (at this point were holding hands or my hand is on her leg), for around 10-15 more minutes until she says something. She says "I don't like the way you talk" and tries to explain to me that I talk with a lot of "authority" and "confidence" and that she doesn't like that (at the same time my hand is on her leg). I guess you could call it over confidence, but I told her "thats fine" with no other reaction and told her "it's 5 am, you should go to sleep", then said my goodbye's.
I have a feeling she still likes me, but maybe it's the fact that I waited to long to escalate kino (wasn't really planning on sleeping with her right there and then) or the fact that she thinks I am a "player" because I would just go and talk to other girls throughout the night.
Also, to put this into context all these women are Eastern European, so the club scene was a bit different along with the culture.
TL:DR; Hit it off with 2 girls, number close one, give the other a ride home but she says "I talk with too much authority" aka too much confidence and that is why she doesn't like me.
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