Hey,

I had a GF, I didn't treat her well, after 5 years she ended it, i thought I'm fine with it but after 3 months I had some sort of break down and tried to get her back (gave absolutely everything here) but I failed, she has a new one now and it's over. I told her, when it's gone, it's gone for good and she had to let it go as I do as well.

Some days ago I had to get some of my last stuff from her place (after no contact for 20 days), I asked to just put it on the floor outside her apartment, but she didn't want, needed 10 mins, wanted to bring it to my place bla bla bla. I pressured her to hand my stuff over immediately because I don't have time, finally she came out, I got it, thx, bye bye.

She then texted me, why are you so mean to me, I try to treat you as good as I can, I was looking forward to meeting you (I guess she wanted to have a chat with me), I listen to your music every day, I try to not contact you but it is hard for me, you don't treat me well (again), I need to go to the doctor because I'm physically and psychically suffering from the break up (while she is f*cking the next dude already, about whom she told me that she wants to get rid of me asap to enjoy her thing with him without any further disturbance), I'm an egoist and I just don't care about her (yes I don't) and more shit.

I of course ignore all of this as anything else coming from her but wtf is that shit? Seriously... I know that girls try to keep you on stand bye even though they are already with the next guy but this seems kinda extreme to me...

My problem is, she still owes me money and she has our 2 cats that I love. So on the one hand I want to minimize time I have to invest in her (optimally I close the money topic and then just say when I'm picking up the cats to have them with me for some days) on the other hand I want to keep her so to say on stand bye that I can keep access to my cats and get my money back...