OK, so I'm a still a newblet at this so if someone could explain in seddit terms what exactly transpired last evening I would appreciate it.

So, me and the guys went to On the Border last night. No biggie, just looking for some enchiladas and some cerveza. We sat down and the waitress walked up. Super cute. Probably an HB7 or HB8. She handed us our menus and walked off, and the guys started talking. "Wow, she's cute. I hope she's 18 lols." "Yea, I wanna get on HER border lololol." Just lame shit, but in my head I was thinking, "She's mine."

The girl walks up and asks us what we're ordering and right off the bat I said, "You're very pretty. I'll bet you get that a lot." She giggled and got nice and red and said thank you, smiling the whole time. We order and she's gone again.

So the rest of the night is just me trying to break the ice with her and getting her comfortable with me flirting with her. I know I've only got her attention for a few precious seconds each time she comes around because she's got a big section to serve, so I try and work it as much as possible.

"Wow guys look, she's back again. She just can't stay away from me, huh?"

"Hey, I'll tip you extra if you ignore that table and hang out with us."

I invite her to the party we're having this weekend, but she's going to a wedding so she can't come. I give her shit about that but don't sweat it.

The food comes around and that's when I hit my stride. It's golden from here. She asks, "Does everything look alright?" And I said, "Yeah everything's good, it's just missing one thing," I pause. "Just need your phone number. Then we're all good." She laughs again and she says, "Wow. That was pretty smooth." So it's like that until we pay, and then I hand her my phone under my debit card and just tell her, "Just give me back everything when you're done with it." She laughs again and says "I'll just write on a piece of paper for you." I tell her that works for me.

So she comes back and rips a piece of paper out of her pad and tells me I should feel lucky because she never does this, and hands me her number. Success.

Later that night we text. Names are changed.

Me: Hey Lucy! Nice talkin to you tonight. I'm hank. I hope your friends wedding is worth all the fun you're missing out on ;)

Her: Hey! Sorry just got off work and yeah I'm sorry I wish I could come! Did u say it was this Saturday or next?

Me: Haha no worries. Its this saturday

Her: Dang.. Well we will just have to hang out another time then :)

Me: For sure. You busy next monday? I usually go and get coffee

Her: Umm I might work but I'm not sure I need to look at the schedule. But I'm always off on tuesdays and Thursday's... Well except for tonight, I picked up lol

Me: Oh cool well next week we can figure it out. I assume my #'s in your speed dial so you can get a hold of me easy right?

Her: It's like you know me or something. Lol yes I saved your number so I'll have no problem contacting you. See you soon :)

Me: Haha sweet. G'nite :)

This is exciting for me because this is the first time I said fuck it and just let my words loose. I know I won't always have success but this gave me an extra boost. So guys, how'd I do?