I know people post this all the time, the importance of eye contact, but honestly my eye contact tonight almost singlehandedly turned my entire night around.

I was on a tinder first date that was a lot of fun, but honestly hit or miss if she was into me like that. Then I turned on the charm, stopped talking and just gazed into one of her eyes every once in awhile. Long story short, by the time we were making out, we stopped and stared at each other and she said "what you do with your eyes...it's like your eyes are trying to talk to me, I just don't know the words."

She knew, subconsciously at least, that my eyes were saying I liked her. It was a DEEP, wide eyed stare into one eye at a time that just lit her face up. I wrote up a full field report on this because I was so happy with my performance, but this is the synopsis just because of how important that one aspect of my demeanor was. Just keep practicing eye contact with everyone you talk to and eventually it will just become so natural and authentic!!