I just wanted to mention how important eye contact is for creating fake intimacy!
I for some reason can not create real intimacy with women or men, so I rely on my eyes to do that by holding eye contact with a woman that I'm interested in, which to me is super easy but people tell me that it makes me much more trustable, to the point that woman tell me everything in their life from their hate for their parents, to how they hate their jobs and what they're doing on a particular weekend.
I then lie and somehow relate to what they said, like "I also hate my mom because of the same reason", and to them we have made a connection, but I feel absolutely nothing, just emptiness.
This is my way of creating intimacy, and I hope I can help people here.
P.s: No one has ever said I have made too much eye contact or have a creepy stare!
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