I need a change. To be completely honest, I feel like I've always been a "natural". Seems like I get a new girl to sleep with every month or so, a couple tinder girls every day. My problem is, I can't seem to turn anything into a relationship. Even though I am now loosely dating 2 women currently, I just can't seem to ever get a girl that pursue. Every girl I date, have sex with, seems to come after me first. My problem is any time I pursue a woman, I fail. Even if they express attraction in the beginning. I don't feel like I'm boring. I make friends constantly, and have a job that requires me to constantly build and maintain friendships/relationships. I just cant understand why I can't just create a relationship instead of falling into meaningless sleeping around. I can give more info if needed, but I'm at a loss at this point. I feel like I have read all the books, watched all the videos, but nothing seems to help.

tldr: want a real relationship, but always only end up with sex, then girls lose interest, despite the fact I feel like I make friends super easily.