Fat vs thin

2020-11-16T23:41:55+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

OrzhovPalatine · 2020-11-16T17:22:25+00:00

Sigh....

Women are not buying the same thing we are, sell them what they're buying, not what you're buying.

A girl is attracted to your "vibe" and how you make them feel. Your looks only let you cut the line and fuck up a few extra times but ultimately you have to talk her into going with you.

A girl could fall for a fat funny guy who's interesting to talk to. A handsome unfunny guy who's not interesting to talk to is useless to her.

I assume this is because when I'm fat/out of shape I come across as less intense/intimidating.

Fat out of shape dudes are indeed seen as less intimidating and also not a threat. Some women also understand fat guys are excellent time hoes.

Which has its advantages if you're a smooth talking fat guy cause she isnt expecting you to do that.

bbman12 · 2020-11-16T19:33:46+00:00

Girls are not attracted to fat men. It was in your head.

Girls like or well built men. Its basic biology

NunyaBidnizz68 · 2020-11-16T18:28:35+00:00

Maybe it's just my lucky sweater.

ShyDatingftw · 2020-11-16T17:21:11+00:00

I think girls would prefer fat over skinny. But I think girls would prefer some muscle over both of those.

TheBackstreetNet · 2020-11-16T17:29:54+00:00

I think this is all on you, man. It is well known that there's a woman for every type of guy. But these are just your insecurities talking. If you're happy with the way you look now rather than the way you used to look, then don't worry about it!

I'm skinny like a stick and pretty short, but that has rarely gotten in the way in my past. I've met enough women who were sexually attracted to me to just not care about my body proportions.

You know there are girls out there that like your exact body type so rather than getting all worked up about the girls who don't like you, go find the ones who do! And best of luck, sir!

Title	Fat vs thin
Author	NunyaBidnizz68
Upvotes	4
Comments	12
Date	November 16, 2020 5:09 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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