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| 0 | Hinge DateThat's a touch much. When she didn't respond for 3 days I didn't care. I didn't invest anything into it. I didn't repeat message her or even concern myself with her. But I did get a response today asking to hangout. I'm not asking on reddit on what to do because I'm desperate and overly invested in getting a date with her, merely to ask what others would do in this situation. I was considering ignoring move on and spin other plates (which I'm doing) but if I'm moving on then there's nothing to l… | /r/seduction | 15/10/22 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Help needed to climb my Mt EverestI'm one of Fritzl's bunker babies, that's all. | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Question about Social DynamicsLook, I want to be open-minded but WTF! I agree the mutual interest thing disarms some of the tension but it's a bar, it's like the one place where people can and usually go just to meet people as a mutual interest! And by that logic you mentioned at the bottom it means I either have to find some underhanded duplicitous way of initiating a conversation, or literally only ever say "hey hows it going" if it's followed by "I want to fuck you that's why I'm saying a generic greeting to you". We … | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 04:55 PM |
| 7 | Tips for picking up mature womenFeel like clarifying what you mean by that | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Suggestions for books on how women covertly communicate?Saw the ted talk. Listened to the audio book. Didn't really grab me. | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 12:30 PM |
| 11 | Tips for picking up mature womenIndicator of Interest. Basically them giving you indirect communication that they are interested/intrigued by you | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 12:15 PM |
| 47 | Tips for picking up mature womenFind ones that hit the gym. They're usually really fit and have a higher sexual appetite because of the increase in testosterone. I literally said hi to a 43 year old and commented on her gym clothes and she fired off IOI's like crazy. And very little of that hostility that younger hot girls give off, especially in the gym. | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Playful FlirtingSome people really like Russell Brand. Personally i find him annoying as fcuk. | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 01:42 PM |
| 3 | Those pesky initial defensive walls that come up when approaching girls on the streetDefinitely but the way he is trying to strawman and demonise my approach without knowing anything about it is cheap and tacky and reeks of his own insecurities. A cold approach to me is going up to someone with or without any prior signals. Initiating a conversation, perhaps making a joke, perhaps dropping a small flirt in there and if you feel a positive response ask for her number. It's the seduction subreddit and like you said a cold approach is going up to a woman without any signals and a… | /r/seduction | 08/12/21 10:24 PM |
| 3 | Those pesky initial defensive walls that come up when approaching girls on the streetI didn't say anything about hitting on them. Just talking to them for a moment, and going from there. Sometimes you stop and say hi and see if they stop too, other times you might end up walking next to someone because you both ended up matching speed and you're going in the same direction. | /r/seduction | 08/12/21 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Those pesky initial defensive walls that come up when approaching girls on the street😆 | /r/seduction | 08/12/21 07:58 PM |
| 3 | Those pesky initial defensive walls that come up when approaching girls on the streetNo matter the location, pease dont go up to girls and say "hey hot stuff give me your number and we'll go out". I dont approach like that but it seems to me thats how you think people approach women. | /r/seduction | 08/12/21 07:43 PM |
| 2 | How would you define a "bad" boy?Yup. I just gotta break through this deep rooted social anxiety and limiting self belief about myself. Be a little more accepting that its ok to be this way even if society makes people feel like it's not | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 07:24 PM |
| 2 | How would you define a "bad" boy?But hey, you really wanna know? I came out pretty damn aggressively dom (96%), master (90%), owner (83%). | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 07:15 PM |
| 2 | How would you define a "bad" boy?Thats true. And those that turn away probably arent right for me, and those that gravitate towards it more likely are. | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 07:11 PM |
| 1 | How would you define a "bad" boy?Not really. I just don't feel the need to share tjat with you. I posted my results on my tinder, probably too aggressive for viable results but i wouldnt csll that too shy to share my kinks. | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 07:06 PM |
| 1 | How would you define a "bad" boy?Gratifying | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 06:50 PM |
| 5 | How would you define a "bad" boy?I definitely still have sone residual nice guy vibes that make me weird for wanting to talk about sex in the past, or kept me from broaching the subject. I havent quite shaken away from who i was and who i want to be yet but im working on it. Progress, not perfection. | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Calling out a girl who plays games?And if she is in a toxic relationship, then I'd be a hero. Truth be told, i have been a bit conflicted about what i should do, but you just convinced me i should definitely do it. Thank you! | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 06:20 PM |
| 0 | Calling out a girl who plays games?I'm not trying to take some other guy's girl. Just have my fun with her and move on. | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 06:10 PM |
| -3 | Calling out a girl who plays games?Well your family tree is a 2x4 | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 05:51 PM |
| -5 | Calling out a girl who plays games?I am aware I am conflicted about how I should respond. I'm not a sociopath - of course I have a little bit of care about how it plays out, mainly because she's young, sexy and it would be lovely have my balls licked by her. He mentioned: "where the calling out. I don't see any names or pics"... which has nothing to do with what I said in my comment. I said should I call her out about playing the I won't give him the "seen" message icon even though I definitely saw the message. I definitely fed h… | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 05:27 PM |
| -5 | Calling out a girl who plays games?Oh gosh, you seem to have a few emotional issue. I'm gonna give you some space. You know it is possible to be curious about how to handle a situation, but also not care too much. Progress, not perfection. I'm sorry you have so much resentment against others who are at different stage in their emotional and sexual journey. | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Calling out a girl who plays games?Oh yeah, that thought definitely crossed my mind, that she'd do the same to me... ...Well I would like to sleep with her. And if she's unhappy with her bf then I'd also like to help her figure out what she wants beyond her bf and me. | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 02:56 PM |
| 1 | How would you define a "bad" boy?People keep saying a bad boy doesn't care... well... I don't know. I've never seen a lot of "bad boys" who aren't slim and muscular with white teeth and gelled hair. It seems they care a lot about how others see them. | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 09:39 AM |
| 4 | How would you define a "bad" boy?Thanks for that. The results came out pretty much how i expected, so no surprise there, but it helped me accept myself a bit more. | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 02:17 AM |
| 3 | How would you define a "bad" boy?Sounds interesting. What/where? | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 01:38 AM |
| 8 | How would you define a "bad" boy?Still, better than Eric Cartman | /r/seduction | 27/11/21 12:17 AM |
| 29 | How would you define a "bad" boy?I love women who embrace their sexuality and kinks. It just seems every girl I ever try and broach that subject with is the most frigid virgin on the planet. I swear if I didn't have bad luck, I'd have no luck at all... | /r/seduction | 26/11/21 10:58 PM |
| 3 | Can't get this random girl out of my headSweat and breathe profusely in her face? | /r/seduction | 19/04/21 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Can't get this random girl out of my headCouldn't agree more :) | /r/seduction | 19/04/21 03:15 PM |
| 0 | PUA delusionsAdded to my reading list. Thanks :) | /r/seduction | 21/02/21 10:06 PM |
| 1 | PUA delusionsThe Psychology of Persuasion sounds like some evil nefarious mind manipulation shit but it's really not. It's mostly just analysing the how and why of advertising and psychology, and why it works. but it in no way is going to turn you into a sociopathic monster. Personally, I can't wait to read it again! | /r/seduction | 21/02/21 09:52 PM |
| 2 | How do you find the energy to try again?That's why I don't like r/seduction. Moderators like you that feel they should be commentators instead of just moderating. And in that previous thread I wasn't blaming anyone. I simply asked the question if women in the UK and US are more demanding of their expectations of their dating counterparts and how other people felt about that. Isn't this meant to a space where people can discuss variations thoughts, feelings, methods etc with the minimal amount of judgment. Sure doesn't feel like it. … | /r/seduction | 21/02/21 08:36 PM |
| -1 | English & US women vs pretty much everywhere elseI didn't blame anyone for anything. Calm down, good sir. I asked a question. If that's too much for your mental capacities too handle maybe you should step back for a bit. | /r/seduction | 21/02/21 08:30 PM |
| 5 | PUA delusionsPUA literature, classes, etc is mainly BS but it can help those that really have no clue where to start. Listening to the audio book of The Game was one of my first introductions to learning how to approach. It literally gave me some openers to try. Obviously it didnt work too well but without it I'd be much worse off and have far higher levels of stress and anxiety about walking up to a girl in the street and initating a conversation with her. Buy a book or two, watch a few youtube videos maybe… | /r/seduction | 21/02/21 07:44 PM |
| 1 | You will meet many women in your life, and the only women that should ever matter to you are the ones who would prefer that you do exactly as you pleased.If doing as you please means treating others poorly, you should re-evaluate your life choices and how you got there. | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 09:22 AM |
| 5 | You will meet many women in your life, and the only women that should ever matter to you are the ones who would prefer that you do exactly as you pleased.What's the alternative? They stay and you get married even though youre not ready yet? | /r/seduction | 03/02/21 01:02 AM |
| 2 | How often do you give physical compliments?Physical compliments is pretty much the only thing I know how to do... now if i could just figure out how to actually approach and talk to people... | /r/seduction | 10/01/21 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Should you be scanning your environment for possible IOI's from strangers before you approach?Not really. Generally you'd have to withdraw interest before that point...but, it can help you take back some emotional and mental control by keeping calm, saying goodbye and leaving on your terms. And its also more about knowing before the approach that whatever happens you can say those magic words and walk away as a gentleman. | /r/seduction | 23/12/20 11:30 PM |
| 10 | Should you be scanning your environment for possible IOI's from strangers before you approach?Kind of you should. In social settings women definitely communicate first. They don't approach and say Hi. That's the "Man's" job. They send out non-verbals. A flick of the hair, a glance and a quick turn away, ask for a napkin (sometimes they are just asking for a napkin BTW), etc... And even if you missed their non-verbal, still go up and say Hi. Just make sure you say more than just Hi. It can be a question, a joke, a statement, an admission of something. Whatever. Once you finish speaking. S… | /r/seduction | 23/12/20 12:17 AM |
| 1 | I want to get better at sexIt's a trap! I have no friends. (ooh...self burn, those are rare) | /r/seduction | 22/12/20 11:10 PM |
| 3 | I want to get better at sexI hate receiving oral. I love giving it though. My favourite is when I’m lying on my back and he’s thrusting his cock down my throat while I or he rubs my clit. This is my wife I haven't met yet. Say, how do you feel about threesomes? Asking for a friend... | /r/seduction | 22/12/20 10:12 PM |
| 3 | Point of View of a Woman: Why Most of this Doesn’t WorkDuly noted. You didn't actually say why, whatever these posts say, don't work, you just reinforced your belief you wouldn't fall prey to it. All you are doing is projecting your sense of superiority over other women who would fall for it. Or on men and women who do need to learn how to manipulate others because they spent their lives being manipulated. Its not about revenge, its about learning how to recognise it and on occasion, if necessary, use it against others. Take a step back and really c… | /r/seduction | 21/12/20 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Why does being inexperienced make you feel so nervous and hesitant with women?My recommendation is for you to suggest it to OP. Not sure why you didn't start there. I thrive on constructive feedback, but did critiquing others suggestion help? | /r/seduction | 21/12/20 06:03 AM |
| 1 | Why does being inexperienced make you feel so nervous and hesitant with women?All the same, I genuinely believe he is mostly aware of this. But he may not have mastered the act of recognizing these elements and understanding why. Again, that comes with experience. exposure therapy and a handy joke. | /r/seduction | 21/12/20 02:44 AM |
| 3 | Why does being inexperienced make you feel so nervous and hesitant with women?I'm going skydiving this year. I really can't have any worst case scenarios there :) | /r/seduction | 20/12/20 11:31 PM |
| 3 | Why does being inexperienced make you feel so nervous and hesitant with women?Bear in mind some girls may see it as a bit weak, but generally like your courage of honesty, Other girls drip. | /r/seduction | 20/12/20 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Why does being inexperienced make you feel so nervous and hesitant with women?I have a few bowls like that at my place. Nothing the philosophy of Kintsugi can't fix. A few scars of my own too. | /r/seduction | 20/12/20 09:10 PM |
| 3 | Why does being inexperienced make you feel so nervous and hesitant with women?Personally I believe getting better at something does build confidence, no matter what its subject is. I agree he may or may not have the same level of mental resilience as others, but who does? I know mine's messed up. I would say he's at least sufficiently self-aware since he's on a subreddit like this. So I'm hopeful he agrees failure is just a natural part of victory. I suspect CB Therapy could offer him various toolsets to break down each emotional component of his nervousness around women … | /r/seduction | 20/12/20 08:12 PM |
| 5 | Why does being inexperienced make you feel so nervous and hesitant with women?Everyone should definitely do that, that's wonderful. Some people are still searching for those. I know I am. What are some of your values. What values give you your inner courage? | /r/seduction | 20/12/20 07:37 PM |
| 4 | Why does being inexperienced make you feel so nervous and hesitant with women?You do realise you've inadvertently created the absolute battle cry of this subreddit. For this whole community, in fact, right?!? | /r/seduction | 20/12/20 07:18 PM |
| 3 | Why does being inexperienced make you feel so nervous and hesitant with women?I'm genuinely curious, what did you do? How did you discover what's authentic to you? | /r/seduction | 20/12/20 07:08 PM |
| 6 | Why does being inexperienced make you feel so nervous and hesitant with women?All i was merely suggesting is this fella is struggling to identify what is truly authentic to him when it comes to talking to people he finds attractive. So try everything slowly until he finds something comfortable. | /r/seduction | 20/12/20 06:55 PM |
| 3 | Why does being inexperienced make you feel so nervous and hesitant with women?Just because you didn't read this years ago, doesn't your experiences still count as education? There's a surplus of new start opportunities for everyone. | /r/seduction | 20/12/20 06:47 PM |
| 14 | Why does being inexperienced make you feel so nervous and hesitant with women?Both the same to me. | /r/seduction | 20/12/20 06:45 PM |
| 5 | Why does being inexperienced make you feel so nervous and hesitant with women?Why do you think that is? Are you able to be specific with the nervousness you feel? Is it a fear of failure, a fear of embarrassment, a fear of judgment? A combination of all of them, or something else entirely? Ask yourself, would you experience the same level of nervousness if you approached a girl you don't find attractive? What if it was a man? What if the person was blind? | /r/seduction | 20/12/20 03:14 PM |
| 22 | Why does being inexperienced make you feel so nervous and hesitant with women?Marry a girl who wants threesomes. | /r/seduction | 20/12/20 03:12 PM |
| 19 | Why does being inexperienced make you feel so nervous and hesitant with women?And more than likely you always will be. Welcome to being human. It sucks. You're gonna love it! I've flown more than a 100 times, and I still get a little nervous when I experience turbulence. The difference is I got more nervous the first few dozen times. | /r/seduction | 20/12/20 02:59 PM |
| 23 | Why does being inexperienced make you feel so nervous and hesitant with women?Well.... heroine will never reject you. | /r/seduction | 20/12/20 02:42 PM |
| 72 | Why does being inexperienced make you feel so nervous and hesitant with women?And when you're rejected (which will happen) remember to focus on the positive, release the negative and most importantly - HEROINE | /r/seduction | 20/12/20 02:26 PM |
| 582 | Why does being inexperienced make you feel so nervous and hesitant with women?How does one gain experience? Say you're not very good at kicking a ball. Would you get better at kicking a ball by not kicking a ball, or by kicking a ball? So... Venture forth and try. Try pick up lines. Try "Hi I'm [name]". Try being mysterious. Try being direct. Try pretending you have all the answers. Try telling the woman she makes you shy and nervous. Try loud and high energy, try being soft spoken and low energy. Try a drunk night in a bar. Try a sober night in a bar. Try coffee shops, b… | /r/seduction | 20/12/20 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Is it okay to hit on workers?IT'S OK TO DO WHATEVER YOU WANT. As long as you're not hurting others. | /r/seduction | 20/12/20 01:14 PM |
| 0 | Mission 1: I approached 5 women and asked them for time.Excuse me, what it'll cost me to get the time?.... I beg your pardon, I mean, what it'll cost me to get YOUR time. | /r/seduction | 19/12/20 08:00 PM |
| 4 | My ex broke up with me saying that I texted him too much. I decided to write a program to analyze our text and using hard data to show him wrongHe didn't break up with you because you text too much, he broke up with you because you do stuff like this. | /r/seduction | 08/12/20 12:06 PM |
| 2 | What is the online community cited in The Game?http://www.pickupguide.com/layguide/index.html | /r/seduction | 01/12/20 06:00 PM |
| 10 | I (17m) get erections from just TALKING to girlsYou're 17. This is normal. If it happens, just excuse yourself and walk away until it goes away. | /r/seduction | 30/11/20 09:04 AM |
| 1 | How do I ask out this girl at the gym?Talk to her. Ask what her plans are this weekend (whenever you wanna take her out) and just smile, maintain eye contact and ask her out. She won't feel uncomfortable. If you're someone who has self doubt, nerves and anxiety, dont let the negative voice in your head dictate how the interaction will go. | /r/seduction | 30/11/20 08:59 AM |
| 2 | How do I get out of my own wayI just think you should do what makes you happy and gives you a sense of reward, satisfaction and fulfilment. You can't ask anything else of yourself. | /r/seduction | 28/11/20 11:08 AM |
| 1 | How do I get out of my own wayAre those things you listed something that you feel will make you the best possible version of yourself? If you don't, then theres no need to do it. Then you're making yourself literally feel like a lesser version of yourself because other people, especially on here, hammer on about how this is how to improve as a person. I exercise. I shave. I try and practice game and social skills. No girlfriend here. Do what makes you feel confident and happy. Thats it. No need to follow other people's formu… | /r/seduction | 28/11/20 09:50 AM |
| 2 | Anyone here try getting professional photos taken for Tinder/dating apps?Tinder is the place girls go to pretend they're looking for a relationship (and you have to play along) but usually just want to hook up with someone with abs. | /r/seduction | 25/11/20 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Fat vs thinMaybe it's just my lucky sweater. | /r/seduction | 16/11/20 06:28 PM |
| 4 | How do I become more "high energy" and "fun"? I have a serious disposition and need help bringing the energy up without turning into a clown.Go too big, and then cut it in half. And from there you just need to fine tune the energy | /r/seduction | 16/11/20 05:11 PM |
| 0 | Is it moral for me (22M) to have sex with a single mom (31F) ?And dude, don't post pics of girls you are considering having sex with on the internet. Unless the girl said it was ok that's an immoral thing to do. | /r/seduction | 05/11/20 11:23 AM |
| 0 | Is it moral for me (22M) to have sex with a single mom (31F) ?It's not immoral in any capacity to have sex as long as both parties are consenting to it. | /r/seduction | 05/11/20 11:22 AM |
| 1 | How to make a girl stop and give you her attention?I appreciate the words, I really do. But I'm a little torn now...because on one hand I approached a girl a few nights ago and asked the time. Then I transitioned to asking about her top (it was an amazing top on her btw) and then we spoke a little bit....but the entire time I didn't like having to ask about the time and then "spontaneously" commenting on her top because it was inauthentic of me. I'm sure she also knew that asking for the time was BS as I literally had a watch on my hand, but why… | /r/seduction | 03/11/20 08:26 PM |
| 1 | What do you do in texting conversation when you’re the one asking questions only and the other is just answering?That's normal. Girls prefer the guy to lead the conversation. She'll talk a lot if you hit her with a question that really tickles her emotions but for the most part girls hate being alone even for a few minutes so they usually find someone to talk to, doesnt really matter about what. If youve been asking a lot of questions and getting fatigued. You could say: Your turn. Ask me anything. And if she doesnt have anything to ask it shows she doesnt care all that much about you over her need to be v… | /r/seduction | 03/11/20 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Stop being so serious!I am a genuinely super funny guy. I almost had a girl in tears on my last date... But any first encounter/approach I seem to lose so much of my ability to come across funny and aloof, and its like my brain locks up with comedy, humour and jokes and I have no clue why. | /r/seduction | 30/10/20 01:27 PM |
| 3 | What if the Difference was 15KGNo matter your size, women respond to words above all else. | /r/seduction | 26/10/20 05:55 PM |
| 2 | How do I overcome low self esteemIve had sex with lots of girls, partied half my life away, made lots of friends, pushed twice as many away, and developed social anxiety and chronic loneliness. Im 35 and still find it terrifying to approach strangers. My advice if you're 20 is dont reject the opportunities that come your way. Youll regret it in the future and it will catch up quick. Besides, from the sound of things you fucking rule, dude. You've certainly overcome so much in your life already. So focus on your success more. Im… | /r/seduction | 19/10/20 09:37 AM |
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