I really can't stand it because it's such a vicious mentality to have.

I really can't stand it because it works!

I really can't stand it because it works and it makes me lose respect for the girls that are influenced by it.

I really can't stand it because others use it and get what they want.

I really can't stand it because I can't figure out how to use it or be the kind of horrid person that can use it

I really can't stand it because I can't figure out how to use a milder, teasing variation of it.