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[–]TheXXL 10 years ago [recovered] (8 children) | Copy Link
Met a girl on Tinder.
Met up
Solid flowing conversation
Sexual topics
I bring her to my place and give her an excuse to come up.
sounds ok til now...
She asks to leave in 5 minutes with the premise that she only came up to see the place.
now it's getting interesting...
She is a 22 y/o. Recently de-virginified.
She is not responding to my texts.
How could she.... you must have been such the gentleman to her...
Most likely sister or friend mind fucked her.
mh... let me revise my last comment...
She is 4/10 at most.
Either you have terrible taste, are extremely needy to even think about taking her home, or you are just a butthurt asshole... at least you are one of those guys who think they need to brag, hence the "number/10" designation of a living female.
Crap job.
You pretty much gave yourself away...
Crap life.
... you ARE a butthurt asshole.
Shares a top bunk bed with her sister in a shared living accommodation just to save a bit more money.
... oh and you are judging, very nice combination, bro.
I am decent looking.
Decent shape.
Good job
Got my own place in a nice neighborhood.
So? does that make you less of an asshole?
She was comfortable with me.
Hahahahahahahah! sorry mate, you are also blind. She wanted to leave about 5 minutes in. She doesn't respond to your texts... and you really got the nerve to tell yourself she was comfortable with you?
What gives? Is this normal behavior? I wasn't even expecting to get laid. Maybe just watch a movie next to a girl which would have been nice.
Ok. Let's get to the core of this. What you write makes you look like a total asshole. A butthurt asshole who thinks he is better than the girl he wanted to fuck. Then because she didn't pull down her pants you become condescending. If you really think that this behavior will make a pussy wet, then i regret to tell you, it doesn't work that way. Next time behave like a attractive man. This incorporates basic social capabilites, non judgemental attitude (women hate it when they get judged), more self reflection to see the errors of your ways, and do something about your neediness. Like i say, from what you display here you are not what a woman wants to have in her.
[–]Jacob_961[S] -3 points-2 points-1 points 10 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
I think you are more butt hurt than I am.
Facts are facts. Saying a victoria secret super model has more options than ugly Betty from down the street is not a judment call.
Went to a coffee place and spent 2 hours together talking and having fun and she was comfortable enough to come to my place. She didn't want to stay and that is her call and she is entitled to it. I took her immediately to the metro station without any hasstle or argument. "I will not stop you" is the motto. I realize it is fucking dangerous for a girl to go to an unknown person's apartment and I made sure she was comfortable at all times. Sorry to dissapoint you that I am not as big of an asshole as you might think.
I don't value her less as a human being. She just has less options which doesn't make her less of a person. It is what it is. Thanks for the effort in responding though. Any other remarks?
[–]TheXXL 2 points3 points4 points 10 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Classic: "i give it back to you 5 times harder" response. Very interesting.
I don't get the point of that, since why would you put yourself down? You claimed she was a, and i quote: "4/10" which at least in terms of pua language would mean she is less than attractive, something a valuable guy with options would never go for. Well, i never really gave a crap about some virtual scale to measure attractivity, but this is strange.
Went to a coffee place and spent 2 hours together talking and having fun and she was comfortable enough to come to my place. She didn't want to stay and that is her call and she is entitled to it.
Exactly that, so why are you so pissed?
I took her immediately to the metro station without any hasstle or argument. "I will not stop you" is the motto. I realize it is fucking dangerous for a girl to go to an unknown person's apartment and I made sure she was comfortable at all times.
This is a really good realization.
Sorry to dissapoint you that I am not as big of an asshole as you might think.
On the contrary, i am positively surprised, and if you read the whole thing you would know that my comments were based on your initial post, which was pretty much drowning in asshole statements.
I don't value her less as a human being. She just has less options which doesn't make her less of a person. It is what it is.
So, why point it out? Has it any impact on the result in finding out why she didn't want to stay? Or the "fact" that you value yourself so much that you need to point out that too? I tell you something, the more information on your interaction we get, the better the responses would be, since like i say, your status, or her status, or her number on the stupid HB Scale don't chance anything in regards to why she was not comfortable to get intimate with you. Only your behavior, her emotions, and your interactions are of interest in this matter.
Thanks for the effort in responding though. Any other remarks?
You're welcome, see above.
[–]Jacob_961[S] -3 points-2 points-1 points 10 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Didn't even bother reading it. For a person preaching being accepting and non-judgmental, you sure are very judgmental, condescending and patronizing. Well done sir.
[–]TheXXL 10 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link
Didn't even bother reading it.
Too bad, you could have learned something.
[–]Jacob_961[S] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Presumptuous pricks aren't generally good teachers.
[–]TheXXL 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Are you still butt hurt? Come on man... That's ridiculous.
[–]Jacob_961[S] 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Dude... not about being butt hurt. I got nothing against you. I just don't need condescending criticism. It doesn't help me. I can't learn from someone telling me I'm an idiot asshole. This is not constructive criticism in my book even if it happens to be true. Fair enough?
[–]TheXXL 0 points1 point2 points 10 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Now that we got that out of the way, let me explain what happened there. You wrote something coming off being an asshole. I actually don't care, since I don't know you, and I have enough life experience to also know that this might be a false impression. What I like to do though, is to point out what the majority of people will think. I am brutally honest and direct with what I say, since most people are too afraid to do that. I am very well aware that not everyone understands it the way I put it out, and this is totally fine, it at least makes people think. I am sure you were thinking about what I wrote, you got angry of course but I made an impact with my words If you like it or not. That's all I can do here, make people think about how they are perceived.
Anyways, thanks for explaining, have a nice day.
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