Feeling 100% vs Going out

jBURRd · 2016-02-25T06:04:33+00:00

Fuck it man, do you. If you would rather hit the gym for a swim/lift, go for it. Hell, you might even come across someone to chat up while you're there.

TheXXL · 2016-02-25T07:16:04+00:00

I have made it a habit to go out when I "don't feel like it" and still get the chance to. Only if I am sick, or really tired to the point where I would fall asleep any second, I don't. I have always felt great with that decision.

Big_TX · 2016-02-25T06:05:35+00:00

Do you care about getting better at this? (You really don't have to, not everyone has to become a master pimp if they don't wanna).

If your trying to improve you have to go out at least once a week. (And you really should go out more. And you have to socialize diring the week. ) if you want to improve then go out. (unless you are sick. Don't be an asshole. You strep throat may be a neucenceto you and the young person you for it to, but it could kill their old relative of it spreads to them)

It can be very natural to want to go do something because logicly you want to improve. But right before you go to do it you don't feel like it anymore. That is because a part of you doesn't want you to change.

Maybe go out with different people. Don't use being tied as an excuse, but don't put game above your responsibilities.

TheMinistryOfAwesome · 2016-02-25T08:25:01+00:00

This is an interesting question actually.

IT's a tough one however it's something i've thought about too.

Basically my conclusion was this: If i don't feel 100% about going out i'll go out anyway irrespective of how I feel. A great example is training - i get battered and bruised and sore from it but always come out feeling great. Even if i feel a bit shitty to begin with, intellectually I know that by the end it'll be wonderful and so I take feelings out of the equation totally.

"I have decided I will go, it must be done!"

It's a similar thing for other kinds of activities too. However despite saying that if my heart isn't into the idea of pickup (I do daygame/nightgame too) it's very hard to motivate myself knowing that the sour attitude will filter through into conversation and likely create a negative feedback which makes me feel shitter. What I usually do instead is more along "game by proxy" or "opportunisitic gaming". Where, instead of going out wiht the purpose of approaching I will simply approach a girl that I think "fuck, she's cute" in a split decision.

For the record, I am training for a fight right now and have to go for a long HIiT run in 2.5hrs - i'm feeling sore and tired and don't want to but I will still go. The same can be applied to most things in life - including pickup - if you can pickup a hot girl when feeling shit, you'll have her swooning all over you when you're on it.

StevieBoyB · 2016-02-25T13:27:40+00:00

If I'm feeling okay I go out, unless I'm really fucked up I don't use it as an excuse.

TheXXL · 2016-02-25T07:16:04+00:00

I have made it a habit to go out when I "don't feel like it" and still get the chance to. Only if I am sick, or really tired to the point where I would fall asleep any second, I don't. I have always felt great with that decision.

TheMinistryOfAwesome · 2016-02-25T08:57:59+00:00

Oh and... do you even read the Seddit front page?

This exact question was asked 3hrs before you posted. - downvote

Title	Feeling 100% vs Going out
Author	cryocom
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Comments	9
Date	February 25, 2016 5:23 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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