Feeling sad + disrespected

oreopimp · 2022-02-26T03:08:58+00:00

There’s a lot going on here. I get you desire a relationship but a relationship is not going to happen unless she wants it. If you convey you really just want a relationship up front all you’re doing is putting pressure women you don’t really know. Instead of words act through actions as you get to know her.

If you want a relationship start something low key and then for example respond as she responds and if she responds more you respond more. If she wants to hang out more or likes you then hang out more often or make pushes to hang out more. At some point she’ll bring up wanting to date exclusively or the desire to get in a relationship. I’m really not sure how you act but even girls I’m casual with I get genuine care and compassion from them, but I also give them genuine care and compassion often before and after we’ve hooked up so they know even if it is casual they’re still a lovely woman to me. If girls think you’re a player/fuckboy too much it’s likely because you’re acting liked a player fuckboy in some ways and you need to tone the agenda you have with women down and just enjoy them and realize getting laid is a given and not even something you should be overly-specifically working toward. Be more honest and vulnerable, which allows them to be honest and vulnerable. I mean if they tell you you got a player vibe downplay it with things like “if by player you mean I get along well socially with everyone I really appreciate that because I used to be shy and really worked on it” — and maybe find a way to be more ‘natural’ and less overtly player-y

Woujo · 2022-02-26T03:18:50+00:00

You are coming off as too emotionally invested. Women want deep relationships too, but starting off by acting like you are soulmates scares them off. Start off with something chill and casual, then the relationship can get deeper if you are both into it.

And unfortunately you need to fuck girls in the first few dates if you want to have a deep relationship.

PurpleCookie_Og · 2022-02-26T02:56:45+00:00

That’s cuz women only care about 2 things. Your dick or your wallet. Also women don’t like men who are looking for love

shidurbaba · 2022-02-26T02:42:49+00:00

Welcome to the world of dating.

Extra-Boysenberry · 2022-02-26T04:26:20+00:00

Recent college graduate here. I tried doing the whole gentleman dating scene. I discovered a lot of girls our age aren’t looking for something too serious. I kinda just did my own thing, and had a care free attitude towards women. It got me laid numerous times.

anony2469 · 2022-02-27T04:24:52+00:00

maybe the majority of them are looking for casual sex only I guess :/ it's sad, we live in the end of times brother, but still, hopefully there's still good women out there who wants love as well... don't lose your faith, avoid sex at the beggining, you'll probably attract only girls who are looking for casual sex this way, instead, conquest the girl by talking, just talking, maybe you can get on a friendzone, maybe you can become a "gay friend" or something, or maybe, she can become interested in you, fell in love with you and became your future wife, who knows... God bless you my friend, I hope it work it out

Title	Feeling sad + disrespected
Author	Spiritual_Intern5266
Upvotes	4
Comments	6
Date	February 26, 2022 2:40 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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