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[–]IWriteForGroupies 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What is the reason that you fidget?
[–]mukituki1231 point 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I dont think it has something to do with beeing nervous, most of the time i fidget when im bored(for exaple in class), maybe it just became a habit...
[–]Lead ModeratorThrowawayPUA 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Meditation would help. You can't fidget while meditating, you will learn to reach a state of stillness.
[–]mukituki123 9 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
I've been meditating for like 2 months now,seems like im calmer so i fidget less ,thanks for advice
[–]Lead ModeratorThrowawayPUA 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
As you get more practice meditating, try doing something I was taught, "just three breaths." Just take three deep breaths while trying to recreate the feeling of stillness you get from a lengthy meditation. Sometimes just taking a pause to breathe is enough, and you can do it even in the midst of a conversation if you get flustered or fidgety.
[–]sebass1223 -1 points0 points1 point 9 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
So your going to meditate in front of a girl?
[–]gregory2112 1 point2 points3 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
no, A regular meditation practice (at home alone) brings an overall "stillness", it helps calm the body and mind and it actually stays with you for a while. I try to meditate no less than twice a week and it has brought me more peace of mind than anything!
[–]JaggedYellowPill 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Slow down your fidgeting. Fast fidgeting looks nervous. Slow fidgeting looks flirty.
[–]mukituki123 9 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
Most of the time im not even aware that im fidgeting :/
[–]William_J_Bucksworth 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Then it doesn't sound like much of a problem.
[–]JaggedYellowPill 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So pay attention to when you're doing it. You can't change a behavior you aren't aware of.
Though you could recruit a friend to help. Get him/her to "punish" you when they see you fidgeting. Like squirt you with a spray bottle.
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