Stats:

Age: 31

Race: South Asian

Height: 5'7

Location: Dallas

Second Date Report with a to-be surgery resident

I'd already met this girl 3 weeks ago for a perfunctory coffee date at a very famous bakery in town. She specifically mentioned wanting to meet up to ensure I wasn't a total creep. So we did that and kept the date totally platonic that first time. That coffee shop is the best one in town actually. It's one that's known in the East Asian community for auspicious beginnings, kinda run down but an excellent coffee, tea, boba house regardless

For some reason Indian girls around here love boba, so assuming that was a safe bet I scheduled the date. We talked for maybe an hour and then she left after giving me a side hug. No issues, red flags, or problems whatsoever on that first date. We'd met on an Indian dating app, but the problem was that she WOULDN'T GIVE ME HER PHONE NUMBER. I've never gotten curved on a first date that hard before. Like WTF. I didn't shove my foot in my mouth, excellent conversation, I wasn't thirsty physically, whatever, but she refused to give up her phone number

It's hard for me to find girls that I gel with, or genuinely enjoy their company and she was perfect for me. I guess from a background perspective she was similar to me. Indian by origin, from the US, nuclear family, raised in an upper-middle class house, fit/in shape, enjoys the outdoors, with an excellent smile. So I didn't want to lose her in any fashion after that first date

She's an MS4 with a killer residency lined up, both literally and figuratively. But she's leaving for it in a few weeks and is afraid to be latched down anywhere. This was a huge crux of the conversation and something that specifically she drew focus to during our initial coffee date a couple of times

Post first date she didn't give me her phone number right? When I was chatting with her on the dating app afterwards, she pretty much ignored me the entire time except to tell me that "she's got many transitions coming up and she didn't want to mis-lead me in any way, and she's not looking for anything serious." Now a couple years ago version of me would have taken that blow like a right hook flush to the temple and crumpled. But uhh, I didn't

So anyways I'd been just messaging her daily on the dating app, not expecting a response. Kinda updating her on my life. Sorta journal entry style, but more so just general updates relevant to the first date conversation. This had been going on for 2 weeks. Normally, I un-match and move on at the blink of an eye, but for some reason I really, really wanted a 2nd date with this girl

I kept chatting her on the app. Talking about nonchalant things as the weather, taxes, etc... Guess she's been installing and uninstalling the app similar to how girls do these days. She installed it on Saturday and then replies - 'Geez I'm creeped out by your wall of text, but give me some time to read and get back with ya'

After a while she pretty much tells me (in summary) 'I'd like to get to know you in a non-platonic way, but note that my residency comes first and be prepared to be dropped like a hot potato. I'll go cold on you on a moment's notice'

I'm like 'FUCK YEAH LFG!!' and start planning my 2nd date with her. Since we're pressed for time, I ask her out for drinks around the arts district in my town. She's under a time crunch and has other things planned but she's willing to cancel those plans and hang out with me instead?!?! I pick her up at 5.30 for the date saying its a shite parking situation so we should maximize efficiencies going downtown

Pick her up and she's in great spirits and wearing like a flower dress. She's fucking gorgeous, same as the first date nothings changed. She just came back from vacation with a bit of a tan going and she in excellent spirits. Being an Indian girl she doesn't drink (a whole lot), but she has a loophole somehow for 'shots'

Which ruins my plans to take her to a brewery and just sit outside. But I find an open air cafe that has a bar attached out back where she can get a non-alcoholic cocktail and I can drown my sorrows in whatever light sour they have on tap. But to maximize the use of the loophole, while she's sipping on her non-alcoholic cocktail, she's totally down to take shots of Casamigas with me

It's really cute since she's like a sheltered Indian girl and doesn't know how to dress down a shot. So I'm explaining to her how to do the salt, liquor, lime, and she's downing them like a champ. Not even flinching an eyelid. We take the first shots at the bar, and then go outside to talk. Excellent 2nd date convo following up on the first

Its like a yuppie playground looking thing is where we are at. Swingset, slide, dog park, patio, etc... She goes back into vacation mode and replays literally the entire trip. Which was cool since it was actually interesting and she made sure to explain everything and show me pictures. She was showing me pics of the vacation, but she'd act real giddy when it was her in a bikini and totally rapid scroll through all them. Telling me 'We aren't at the showing you thirst trap pictures yet.' She had me going at that point

But I was able to hang in there with her. I told her about my latest vacation, the next one I got planned, and we just chatted about random stuff. I pulled her close to me, and she just kinda like nestled up underneath my chin if you will. Kinda like a cuddle thing, but we were outside so her head just fit under my chin

We stayed there for a good 2 hours just exchanging travel stories, stuff about our childhoods, work, etc... We went to the bar for a second round of shots (Casamigos) and I doubled up on my beer and her non-alcoholic cocktail. Apparently she's never taken 2 shots in a single day before. I uhhh, didn't know what to do or say at this point, I was just like 'Eeeeee, it's going to be fine. You got this.'

Second round of shots in and we go back out to continue the talk. I'm thinking like, 'Damn we've been chatting for a good whole 2 hours now. I haven't made a move on her, maybe I should.' So while there is a lull in the conversation, I go for it. Just grab her by the small of her neck in the back and guide her into me for a kiss

Home run : ) She's into it. Leaning into me, body language positive, drops her non-alcoholic cocktail on the ground and grabs my facial hair with both hands and she's making out with me like junior year of high school all over again. She puts her legs perpendicular across mine on the bench and she leans to the left. She's backed up against my left hand which is holding her/drawing her into me. Not sure if the mental image is clear, so I'll reiterate, she's got her legs splayed out (together) on top of mine and she's just kinda on my lap. Totally apologetic like, 'I'm heavy, I can get off, I'm heavy, I can get off.' And she's totally not. Tiny little Indian girl clocking in at like 95 lbs tops. After making out for a while on the bench, she proceeds to straddle me with both legs on either side of me, knees in facing me on the bench

It's hot outside and both of us are starting to sweat at this point. I have her close out the tab for me (a first for her apparently, she's never had a bar tab before) and she asks me, "If I've got work tomorrow" WTF bro. I'm like hella ugly and autistic, and I've got a surgery resident asking me if I wanna come home with her

So I hold her hand and we run back to my car, stopping outside random bars to make out in between the brisk way. Get back to my car and she commandeers my Spotify. My music mix of choice is Folk/Country, and she's ripping into me, for not appreciating some screamo. No idea what she played on the radio, but it was something head banging, fist shaking, headache inducing, worst 15 min ride home ever

We get home and soon as I enter her apartment (which is medical student housing btw) she's freaking out since its disorganized (she was in interview mode till vacay a couple weeks ago), trash wasn't taken out, clothes were on the ground. So she runs around like a mad woman, speed cleaning the house. Didn't let me take my boots off till 5 minutes later when the house was clean enough for her satisfaction

I take my boots off, and she presses into me with the whole of her body, and she's small enough to wrap a leg around my torso, have me carry her while she wraps the other leg around my still standing body. So we are making out basically while she is suspended above the floor her legs drawing guard to remain up

I ask her for some water and to slow down for some bit, and she totally is down and feeling me. She gives me some water and then does a tour of the tiny little house

Now listen to the next words carefully. This is where I FELL IN LOVE WITH THIS GIRL. Her house was a basic brown girl's home. A wall with motivational slogans such as 'Girl Power' 'Rise & Shine Every Day' 'You are Beautiful', another room that had half of it set up for zoom residency calls with like monitors, a chair, shit ton of books/papers scattered around, and the 2nd half of the room for a tiny twin sized bed with clothes draped over the corners of it. She had a picture of a Hindu god (Ganesh) on one small side of her house, was burning incense, and had 'Tinder Swindler' paused on her Netflix in the background... All this is fine... Underneath her coffee table, when she left to pee, she had "White Coat Investor" the book! This is pure MONEY! Pun intended, but I've definitely read the blog, followed the dude through his journey, even been to a few FI conferences, but I've never met a MS4 who had the book hard copy on the coffee table as reading material

Fuck. Fuck. Fuck. As if this girl wasn't hot enough, she's now a 10 in my books with the copy of WCI on the coffee table. So while she's in the bathroom, I'm skimming the chapters and she comes out and we chat about the main premises of WCI and she totally agrees with everything (financially astute physicians are a rareeeeee breed)

After chatting for a bit, we get back to the sex/pre-sex activities. She's feeling me up, I'm feeling her up, clothes start coming off, and yeah. I don't think I have to describe the rest but it was an excellent night

Girl's fucking perfect, I'm seeing hearts, and deep down in the back of my mind, I know imma get ghosted for one reason or another, even though while fucking I was staring at her like I fucking loved her. At one point, she was on top of me cowgirl, just sitting on top of me giggling covering her breasts, and I was like FUCK am I lucky sometimes. She was perfect dude. Like in that moment, she was ideal goals

I left around 11 PM I think. Texted her when I got home and told her I had an awesome time. We'll see if responds. But I'm hungover, had to work today, and got shit sleep so here's to hopes/prayers holding thru. I've pulled plenty throughout my life, I'd genuinely like a relationship with this girl

TLDR Girls just want to have fun