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| 1 | Feeling AFC to the extreme - how do I beat this next wall?patience. if you’re approaching, keep doing it, keep improving, calibrating and sooner or later you’ll find who you’re looking for. it is a numbers game | /r/seduction | 20/11/24 07:51 AM |
| 1 | Am I Undateable/Unf**kable?No dude, he's just saying that it's fucking dumb to complain that you have a hard time getting women when you don't have your shit together. It's like eating one cracker a day everyday, nothing else and then being surprised that you can't curl a 40 lb dumbbell at the gym. You need to have something you're above average in to attract even average or below average women, at least in the US. Why? Because thanks to dating apps, even those ok looking girls can get fucked by 8-9/10 looking men. Why wo… | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 12:13 AM |
| 8 | Cold approaching has lead to the most embarrassing moment of my lifeNa chill, you're not somewhat proud, you're REALLY fucking proud. You manned up bro and you're only 18, you are absurdly young, you haven't even entered your twenties, the real era of fucking. That girl already knew if she would fuck you dude, you just went and found out. Remember, until you're in some kind of relationship, no individual woman is ever that important. There's an absurd amount of women on the planet, try not to obses over one that may not even like you. Keep doing what you did and… | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Strategy: Why it's good to always start off as "friends"Hahahahahahahaha | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 03:19 AM |
| 1 | 📱Total's Texting Tutorial (with real convo examples)Any thoughts on either 1) telling her to take a selfie with you at the end of the approach (if it's a smooth interaction) to send to her or 2) sending a photo of yourself? I feel like true daytime approaches #1 might be odd, unsure about 2; but I think that street approach during the night, it may be helpful to do that so the chick remembers you, especially if you had a short interaction and she was drinking or whatever. Last night I got 7 numbers and def don't remember what every chick looks li… | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 10:42 PM |
| 1 | I f***king love rejection.Well yeah, if you think someone is unattractive it's pretty fucked to tell them that, certainly in those terms. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 06:12 PM |
| 9 | A study of 65k+ women finds that "Attractiveness" is not a top 5 feature that women look for. No wonder OLD sucks for men.This is specifically for long term relationships, so it's a bit obvious. If you're just always a massive cunt, ofc women won't want to stay with you. It goes against the seduction process a bit because being a little bit mean (a little) and assertive turns women on a lot. It portrays confidence and knowing what you want. But it's the same conclusion that even in that case OLD sucks | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 05:44 AM |
| 1 | In being direct with your intentions what are best ways to get across that you are just trying to have sex?Search YouTube for the James Marshall multiple relationships talk | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 05:40 AM |
| -1 | Talking to girls on the phone is super underrated"Our combos usually last HOURS and they always enjoy it." Fuck that, who has time for this? Unless the chick is someone I want a relationship with, phones for anything other than logistics is dumb and quasimanipulative if you aren't looking for a relationship because that is a very relationshipy thing to do. If you're doing seduction right you can be fucking the woman after a few hours instead of talking on the phone for a few hours. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 05:39 AM |
| 1 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youCan you teach me how to meet all the men on the planet and get to know them? That's a really cool skill!!! | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 02:53 AM |
| 4 | Do not ditch OLD. It’s better than Cold approach.Below average women have hundreds of men to choose from in OLD. What do you think it's like for hot chicks? You need to look better than 90-95% of the male population to be getting abundance from OLD. Moreover, even when that's the case, you still have massive competition. When you stop a hot girl on the street, a cafe, a bookstore, firstly, you are basically forcing her to choose if she likes you (Mark Mansons concept of polarization), secondly, you are able to display way more of yourself in t… | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 09:00 PM |
| 2 | walk with me, talk with mei guess it depends on whether you adjusting behaviors is purely to trick a girl into thinking something or because you understand its implications and want to actually improve. for instance, I have adhd. because of that, I sometimes speak really fast, I feel my emotions really intensely and quickly, and I get attached to people easily. none of those things are positives when it comes to not only dating but other aspects of life. so, I genuinely want to do better in those things anyway. i want to… | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 06:24 PM |
| 2 | 📱Total's Texting Tutorial (with real convo examples)interesting, thanks will implement | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 01:13 AM |
| 2 | 📱Total's Texting Tutorial (with real convo examples)Why do you advocate for fluff in between asking her out? Do you think it makes any difference if it's text 1: name next day text 2: hey are you free to hang on Friday? vs text 1: name next day text 2: hey what did you end up doing bla bla fluff text 2-5: more fluff text 6: are you free to hang on Friday? I feel like if shes responding she would've said yes if you had immediately asked anyway, no? | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 12:36 AM |
| 3 | I f***king love rejection.jesus christ i had a good laugh reading this :D | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 11:44 PM |
| 1 | I f***king love rejection.Yes, I've done approaches poorly and I'm confident that in those approaches the woman would have called me creepy. Read this excerpt from Models: >!The number one fear deterring men from openly expressing their sexual desires towards women is a fear of being perceived as “creepy.” Before we jump into what creepiness is exactly, and what women mean when they complain about it, I need to give the same type of painful-truth serum I gave for rejection: There’s no such thing as a man who is adored … | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 11:38 PM |
| 3 | I f***king love rejection.Love u more bb | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 06:02 AM |
| 2 | I f***king love rejection.You would assume wrong, go read my reply in this thread where I quoted Mark Manson | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 06:02 AM |
| 1 | club haxYes did something very similar when the girls would walk by last night! But then there are the ones who aren't going to walk by you because they are already dancing in their area | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 12:06 AM |
| 4 | I f***king love rejection.Honestly teared up reading that, thank you very much | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 11:21 PM |
| 0 | I am not desired sexually by womenI'm not expecting you to do anything and it's up to you to decide your priorities. There's more to life than woman, just like there's more to life than "insert x" but don't complain about your skill in things you haven't put the work into. Having said that, if you actually have 200 rejections and didn't get a date or 2 out of it as a minimum something is off. You are either not dressed well, not looking sharp enough, not giving off the right energy, not speaking well, something you're doing is o… | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 10:28 PM |
| -1 | I am not desired sexually by womenThat's fucking nothing and you know it. Like going to the gym twice and a month later complaining that you don't look like the dudes that haven't missed a day in 3 years. I guarantee you I've been rejected way more than you've ever even tried. So, first go consistently approach, do 100. 200. Then if they literally all go bad come back and say you're invisible. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 10:21 PM |
| 3 | I f***king love rejection.Probably WASN'T a lie, they didn't feel comfortable enough to follow up on it. Don't sell yourself short. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 10:09 PM |
| 5 | I am not desired sexually by womenEasier to give up than not only accept you are ugly and/or awkward but then work on it too. He doesn't want to change. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 10:00 PM |
| 0 | I am not desired sexually by womenBefore you say shit like "I'm infusible to women" tell me, how many cold approaches have you done this month? | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 09:59 PM |
| 3 | I f***king love rejection.Usually not but sometimes I will see a woman I have no sexual interest in and genuinely love their outfit or whatever, always fun to spread some love | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 08:18 PM |
| 1 | I f***king love rejection.Endgame is a date, the number is a means to an end. Go watch James Marshall infields to have an idea of how to transition to a normal conversation with a seductive twang | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 06:56 PM |
| 2 | I f***king love rejection.You're not wrong but I also got home from a night of drinking after I wrote this up 😁 | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 06:46 PM |
| 4 | I f***king love rejection.The yogi quote!!!!! My FAVORITE quote! | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 06:44 PM |
| 6 | I f***king love rejection.Heh, it's very close to what I said right? 1/3 of 100 is 33 numbers, you got 26. Of the 26 you should fuck 11%, about 3, you dated exactly 3. If you fuck up the date that's secondary, but if a girl goes on a date with you after doing an approach you are in the sexual prospect bucket already. Sounds like you're doing great. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 01:32 PM |
| 2 | club haxYes absolutely agree, but you don't have to wait for that | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 01:27 PM |
| 25 | I f***king love rejection.There is literally one kind of man that never, ever has been rejected. That is the man who has never tried. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 01:26 PM |
| 9 | I f***king love rejection.This man gets it | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 01:24 PM |
| 7 | I f***king love rejection.So, there was a good post on here the other day about, you don't need to be a model, but you need to be above average. Lifting and clothes can bring you there. Daygame wise: Over a large data set, 1/3 will give you a number, and you will fuck 11% of those numbers. From a mix of personal experience thus far and I pulled the 11% stat from the Paul Janka booklet. So an average dude needs to say hi to about 30-50 chicks to fuck one. Sounds like a lot until you realize you can just go about your day … | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 01:23 PM |
| 5 | I f***king love rejection.Yeah of course, but it's a spectrum. One end has brad Pitt telling a girl she's cute, the other has a fucking homeless hobo covered in piss and shit. Looks matter, duh, but you can be ugly and still look sharp, speak well, and of course a stranger will love your compliment regardless of if they'd fuck you, if you look like a normal functioning member of society. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 01:07 PM |
| 4 | I f***king love rejection.moving into nyc from the suburbs in beginning of august :) | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 12:47 PM |
| 16 | I f***king love rejection.it doesnt matter tbh, from mark mansons models: Instead of thinking, “I wonder if she’ll like me,” think, “I wonder what she’s like?” Instead of thinking, “I hope she doesn’t reject me,” think, “I hope I'll find out if she’s right for me.” The beauty is that whether she falls in love with you on the spot or she throws a drink in your face… you’ve succeeded. You’ve found out the truth. Your curiosity is fulfilled and you can now decide whether you should move on or not. I see every rejection si… | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 12:46 PM |
| 2 | I f***king love rejection.some do, some don't. seems like you are not willing to even toy with the idea that you can improve yourself to the point where some women will want you. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 12:43 PM |
| 12 | I f***king love rejection.Yeah man, and i think a lot of guys get caught up looking at the fucking like top 1% of dudes who slay it and think they are doing something wrong when they get rejected constantly. it's like no bro, that's normal. reminds me of this james marshall clip: https://youtu.be/xZkOY31FKs0?t=1127 | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 12:19 PM |
| 7 | I f***king love rejection.its easy for me? thats a heavy thing to say dude, you know literally nothing about me other than the limited info I've volunteered on this account. when i was a kid in middleschool, the "cool kids" decided itd be funny to literally all get up and move to a different table when i sat down next to them. the entire table got up and moved and i was alone. now i fuck women i meet on the same night. it wasn't easy. my seduction journey was one of the hardest things I've ever done. fuck that, the harde… | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 12:10 PM |
| 7 | I f***king love rejection.saying "i was born this way" is a fixed mindset and a limiting belief. go read mindset by carol dweck and learn about that, and if you are not in therapy start. you can be the ugliest motherfucker but if you get a nice haircut, learn to speak well, dress nicely, you wont come off that way with practice, self awareness, and possibly a coach. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 12:05 PM |
| 2 | I f***king love rejection.if that is happening consistently you need to figure out what you are doing to evoke that response. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 12:00 PM |
| 74 | I f***king love rejection.precisely a favorite quote: "tell me how much a man is willing to fail, ill tell you how much he will succeed." | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 11:59 AM |
| 16 | I f***king love rejection.sometimes sure, they want to save you face which is kind of them. often times its genuine and they are taken. beautiful women are very often taken lol. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 11:57 AM |
| 11 | I f***king love rejection.yes and yes me arguing is not a lack of accepting other opinions. argument breeds conversation and thought. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 11:55 AM |
| 7 | I f***king love rejection.the rejection means that i am doing the right thing. I'm not saying I love not getting what I want, I'm saying that a) I love the beautiful reactions I get constantly which you could call rejections and b) every rejection is a step towards being a legend pua | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 11:54 AM |
| 1 | is being short a huge turnoff?i got a pm recently after one of my posts the content of which said "can u teach me how to get girls" | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 11:33 AM |
| 11 | I f***king love rejection.my guy. if i fly to vegas we should hang. lmk if you're ever around nyc | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 11:27 AM |
| 17 | I f***king love rejection.ah yes, im sure someone as charming as yourself who somehow has the mental process to go onto their reddit profile and put.... "fuck you" as their bio is quite a ladys man, you must be very charming. honestly its so fucking easy to find the fucking keyboard warriors who don't know anything about women like yourself, you're just so fucking mad at the world, you go on seduction and write negative shit (or just the internet in general quite frankly) sometimes I wonder how people like you got to suc… | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here have poor social skills and found a fix?haha sure. people have facial expressions, right? so if you're saying stuff and you see they are not smiling, turning away, not really engaged, pay attention to what you are saying, doing and projecting that got you to that point. but don't write it off immediately to you, correlation does not imply causation and all that. similarly, if you are engaging with a stranger you just met and they are digging whatever the fuck you are doing, also take note, how did you get there? but if you cold appr… | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 11:22 AM |
| 3 | I f***king love rejection.ah, i mean this with all due due respect, but I suppose the disconnect here is you being in your mid 40s, and my friends and I being in our late 20's/early 30's. idk your pickup story, idk how many approaches you've done, how many women you've stopped in the street, but the reality is, it very much is a fucking numbers game if you are doing cold approach in a major city. my friend and I all are well off and have fantastic careers, but that is largely irrelevant until the girl already has put you… | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 11:18 AM |
| 69 | I f***king love rejection.tbh bro, people saying stuff like that are 100% non-experienced players, their comments mean nothing to me, and my post is to share my experience with experienced boyos who can relate and boyos going through the journey as I am now who can relate and share similar stories. literally from the bottom of my heart, some of my favorite memories doing this are rejections. walking into a restaurant with 3 women, saying some bs and having them collectively "awwwwwwww" and put on these giant, genuine, sh… | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 11:07 AM |
| 2 | I f***king love rejection.you are completely missing the point my guy | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 11:03 AM |
| 28 | I f***king love rejection.look, idk you bro, maybe you are some fucking pua legend and you fuck a new woman every night. but in all likelihood, replying to my freshly made seddit thread (which I write after a night of gaming with my boys) you're not. and saying this: You are so desperate for pussy that even when you just get a woman to talk to you to tell you she doesn't want you, you convince yourself that this is something that's positive. if you don't understand how much of a fucking big deal it is that as a beginner … | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 10:58 AM |
| 1 | How to get laid: Have a normal easy going conversation about nice stuff then ask her if she wants to join you for a bottle of wine at your placethis is the fucking core of all of it. say hi. say words. wanna come up to my place and see my pet frog? she knows there's no frog bro. the other stuff is great to improve but you need to be comfy with that basic premise first, of introducing yourself and just having a regular conversation. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 10:45 AM |
| 5 | Anyone here have poor social skills and found a fix?yes. simply being very aware (and i mean aware, not just saying youre aware, but like really registering in your brain) how people speak to you, how they are reacting how they are standing, eye contact, etc and reflecting and calibrating will do you wonders. | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 10:32 AM |
| 3 | Good response to "you’re so dreamy"?"i know, but im so concerned about my response to you telling me I'm dreamy I thought I should ask the internet for advice on what to say instead of saying literally anything even though its extremely apparent and obvious that if you're telling me I'm dreamy I cant say anything wrong" | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 10:30 AM |
| 6 | I f***king love rejection.elaborate | /r/seduction | 17/07/22 10:28 AM |
| 3 | I still live at home, does that turn girls off?I don't think saying it doesn't effect much is true, its objectively harder to get laid, doubly so for ONS. you said it yourself | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Need adviceHow old are you? | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 09:07 AM |
| 2 | You are f***ed.Like dude, I've done plenty of approaches where it's clear the chick is not comfortable and I simply ask "is it cool if I walk with you for a minute?" Guess what, sometimes they say no. No sweat, I turn around and wish them a good day. One time, something like that happened where the girl initially rejected me, she was a cashier. She later looked me up on Facebook from my name on my credit card and we went on a date lol. Me simply being cool with the rejection and going about my day made her tur… | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 08:59 AM |
| 3 | You are f***ed.That's fair, this post is aimed at the majority of the countries in the world where it is not a death sentence to speak to a stranger, like the US and most of Europe. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 08:50 AM |
| 1 | You are f***ed.Also bro, unless you have really nice clothes that fit you well and show good style, and are in fantastic shape after lifting consistently for more than a year, don't ever say anything about being ugly and using it as an excuse. Tell me, are those things I mentioned the case for you? | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 08:46 AM |
| 1 | You are f***ed.It's creepy if you're creepy dude. If you don't understand what no means, or you can't read obvious signs that a girl is uncomfortable or not interested in you, yeah you will be creepy. But the thing is, you can do everything right and STILL be creepy. To someone, at least. Are you going to let that stop you? I'm not. The experiences I've had since starting this shit have made me feel more alive than throughout my entire life. I don't care if occasionally a girl thinks I'm creepy, she's wrong, a… | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 08:43 AM |
| 2 | You are f***ed.That is totally fair bro, I'm not knocking you at all. I have career stuff sorted at the moment so I'm free to think about other areas | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 08:38 AM |
| 1 | You are f***ed.Hell yeah insta game is great as a supplement to cold approaching | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 08:36 AM |
| 2 | You are f***ed.Why don't you work on the alcohol bit bro? | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 08:35 AM |
| 2 | You are f***ed.I'm not saying you can't get laid any other way, just that comparatively nothing comes close. Of course it's cool you have some microscopic chance to link up with a chick while you're taking a shit. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 08:35 AM |
| 6 | You are f***ed.This is the equivalent of buying a farm to grow lettuce instead of just, you know, buying some fucking lettuce. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 08:34 AM |
| 3 | You are f***ed.It's about priorities and what you want in your life my man. I was a virgin at 21. If money and career is more important for you than sex and love to the extent that you don't want to work on both, that's your call. For me they are equally important. There's no use for all my money if I'm alone, no women, no friends. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 08:33 AM |
| 2 | You are f***ed.It's equally random with social circle. People are people. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 08:31 AM |
| 4 | You are f***ed.I don't know you, someone has to be an outlier. But that's exactly what consistent results from social circle is. An anomaly. Most guys don't have such an insane network to constantly be getting laid from their social circle. Approaching at bars/clubs IS cold approach. Cold simply means that the person you are talking to is a complete stranger with no mutual friends presumably. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 08:31 AM |
| 7 | You are f***ed.Your mentality, not your looks, are your issue my friend. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 08:27 AM |
| 8 | You are f***ed.Honestly bro don't even think 100 to 1 is accurate. more like 200. Certainly if you're filtering for attractive girls in social circle | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 07:07 AM |
| 3 | You are f***ed.And anyways, I mean romantically fucked. If that's not important to you than you're good. But if you're in r/seduction, that's not you. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 07:06 AM |
| 3 | You are f***ed.Lol fortune 500 even... Couldn't just say building a successful business. I mean anyway, that's cool, not really going to help you with women. Don't feel like explaining but I have experience with that specific thing. It's a small boost, once the girl already decided she might fuck you or will fuck you. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 07:05 AM |
| 15 | You are f***ed.I'm a troll because I'm telling lads to cold approach on a seduction forum. Right. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 07:02 AM |
| 9 | You are f***ed.Please leave our community | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 07:01 AM |
| 2 | You are f***ed.Except if you're saying something indirect to a woman you just met on the street or in a cafe you're already not being genuine. You don't really care about her shoes or the book she's reading, you think she's sexy, so tell her. There's a very small percentage of women, that you cold approach, that would've fucked you if you had started with something like "how bout them Knicks" vs just telling her you think she's attractive. The overwhelming majority of the time, it doesn't really matter, so don… | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 07:00 AM |
| 1 | Better quality girls from cold approach then onlineWhich country? You can pm if you'd like | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Better quality girls from cold approach then onlineOk, let's do this. "Ultimately I can I just am afraid of failure/looking like a creep." Why? | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 06:37 AM |
| 5 | You are f***ed.Social circle is a great supplement, but it still boxes and limits the amount of women that you meet by an insane amount. The key here is choice, which via social circle, you have little. Cold approach let's you talk to Victoria secret models, so long as you spot her in Starbucks... How big does your social circle have to be to be able to rely on it to bang and meet new women REGULARLY? I feel like the answer is way too big | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 06:32 AM |
| 1 | Better quality girls from cold approach then onlineWhy can't you approach tell me | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach helpHAHA This is the most hilarious thing I've ever read on the sub | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 10:21 PM |
| 1 | How do I tell a woman I like her?You're cute, want to get a drink sometime? | /r/seduction | 01/06/22 05:24 PM |
| 1 | [FIELD REPORT] Pulled last night - physicianNice dude!! Proud of you! Keep it cool, best way to do that is keep gaming more women | /r/seduction | 01/06/22 04:01 AM |
| 1 | All you need is a social circle of average looking men.Yeah grow some legs wheelie | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 06:32 AM |
| 1 | All you need is a social circle of average looking men.You are literally in a sub dedicated to discussing the process of attracting women, advocating for putting effort into getting a social circle, in a thread advocating for getting women through a social circle. Are you serious mate. Stay on topic. And you replied to someone saying that it's extremely difficult for men in busy cities to find time to form social circles. And you are saying to do both. What. | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 03:40 PM |
| 5 | All you need is a social circle of average looking men.Yo mods, my post gets removed for being a rant, but this shit is fine? Unreal | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 03:15 PM |
| 3 | All you need is a social circle of average looking men.No, you fucking dummy. You don't self improve to gain a social circle to get limited access to women. You just go talk to women. | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 03:13 PM |
| 4 | Meeting girls in NYCA good activity is going outside | /r/seduction | 20/05/22 11:26 PM |
| 16 | For the hatersdo i think its shallow to approach women I find attractive...? Are you serious? How do I know we have compatibility? Of course I don't fucking know, that is literally the entire point of approaching, I say hi to find out. Depends how you define casual sex, but generally I'm not into hookups with ladies I don't vibe with on a platonic level too. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 09:27 PM |
| 16 | For the hatersIt's so upsetting to watch people question something that can really dramatically improve their lives | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Gotta brag, freaking out a little, but keep at it boysIt's kinda fucked right? Like if things go well with a stripper it's virtually impossible to tell if she's just really good at her job or it's actually not related to her being good at her job | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 08:10 PM |
| 4 | What’s the best way to stop another guy from interrupting your conversation with a girl?I think that's awkward af, approaching a group and not acknowledging the group lol | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 04:50 PM |
| 4 | How to escalate/make plans for little very casual interactions?5 minutes is not short at all, maybe it's too much 😂 the more you talk the more likely you are to say something she won't like and mess it up. Mystery is a good thing. If you come off as attractive and interesting, 5 minutes is plenty of time for her to decide if she wants to get to know you more. Always go for the close. | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 03:47 AM |
| 5 | Reminder that girls won't flock around you no matter how much work you put on yourself. You have to take action precisely to meet and flirt with girls in order to have "abundance".Except possibly at the extreme end of the hot spectrum? From my limited experience approahing I've had a hot chick I went on a date with tell me that they she doesn't actually get approached often. I think men get intimidated. There's a good James Marshall bit about how models often resort to lesbian relationships because they think men don't like them. Anecdotally, my mom told me about her hot friends from her youth and many of them ended up alone. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Reminder that girls won't flock around you no matter how much work you put on yourself. You have to take action precisely to meet and flirt with girls in order to have "abundance".Ah, and finally a nice conclusion to our discussion. Of course, when you first learn to shoot a basketball you will think about shooting the basketball! You don't know what you're doing! Seriously, if I give anyone a basketball who has never played in their life, they will almost certainly try to throw the ball into the hoop with 2 hands. That's the equivalent of the uncalibrated creepy guy doing cold approaches on the street by staring at a woman for 10 minutes before yelling at her from afar o… | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 03:46 AM |
| 2 | Reminder that girls won't flock around you no matter how much work you put on yourself. You have to take action precisely to meet and flirt with girls in order to have "abundance".If you are "acting" you are not a good seducer. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Reminder that girls won't flock around you no matter how much work you put on yourself. You have to take action precisely to meet and flirt with girls in order to have "abundance".Statements like these are extremely ignorant because you are lumping all men who enjoy learning the practice of seduction into one bucket. Yes, there are men who will be thinking about "seducing someone" and be creepy. In general, those men are creepy. Most of the things they do are creepy. Contrarily, there are men who will "think about seducing someone" who will be the suavest mother fuckers on the planet. They are really good at it. This sub has turned into such shit over the past few years. … | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Reminder that girls won't flock around you no matter how much work you put on yourself. You have to take action precisely to meet and flirt with girls in order to have "abundance".Be honest, how many of those dudes do you actually hangout with relatively regularly? How many would have your back and get you out of a jam? | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 12:17 AM |
| 7 | Reminder that girls won't flock around you no matter how much work you put on yourself. You have to take action precisely to meet and flirt with girls in order to have "abundance".lol. first of all, its notoriously known that it is hard to make guy friends post college. secondly, its stupid to compare guy friends to seducing women. you can go and have hobbies and make lots of female *friends* without knowing anything about seduction. | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 11:03 PM |
| 1 | fr#3, a very fun weekendI think that woman could not make up her mind lmao. I guess I'm just worried about ever doing something non consensual and I usually go by the unless she says literally no, don't assume anything mantra, but it was kinda funny because since I went in for the kiss so early and did get a no it made me question the rest of the night | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 04:58 PM |
| 1 | fr#3, a very fun weekendYeah it was weird we did the face touching and proximity and all that but somehow no kiss | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Video?Found it! https://vimeo.com/13610434 | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 07:39 AM |
| 2 | Nyc wingsSweet, send me a PM! | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 04:19 AM |
| 3 | Seeking AdviceI was the same, although I'm not sure I get the same attention like you say lol. Read models by mark Manson and go from there | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 10:12 AM |
| 2 | How to make solo nightlife work?Go in the bar and stay in the bar, that's a good start. Don't turn around and go home. Secondly, just talk to people. Everyone. Girls, guys, old people young people etc. Eventually work your way up to talking to attractive girls, and then eventually work your way up to asking attractive girls out. It's easy. Just say hi. Say whatever pops into your brain. The hardest part is making yourself do it. But once you say hello to someone and make a comment, you've succeeded. It doesn't matter what will… | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 01:01 AM |
| 1 | Input on ex textingI'd definitely go with option 3 only if you think it won't fuck you up mentally. Like, if you can really just fuck her and not get invested into having hope for a future relationship with her. Only you know that. Then I'd tell her that and say you're pretty much dtf but nothing else. If she runs it's good because clearly this is controversial for you but if she is receptive it's also good because you get laid | /r/seduction | 11/07/21 05:50 PM |
| 1 | 3.5 year relationship over; time to be the man I dreamed I could beThank you I appreciate that so much dude!! Good luck to you as well!! | /r/seduction | 29/06/21 05:42 PM |
| 1 | 3.5 year relationship over; time to be the man I dreamed I could beI really am dude... Thanks for the positive vibes!!! | /r/seduction | 29/06/21 06:50 AM |
| 2 | 3.5 year relationship over; time to be the man I dreamed I could beBro thank you so much for your positive vibes!! Honestly bro, I ain't about all of the shit tests and stuff. Too much mindfuckery and drama for me you know. and as far as I'm concerned if a girl tells me she's not interested for any reason whatsoever, I will move on because I am a fucking suave handsome lad and any lady is lucky to have me. If I keep swinging I will eventually hit the ball. And I will figure out what I did good and what I did not so good. "I don't chase em I replace em" -biggie … | /r/seduction | 29/06/21 06:43 AM |
| 2 | Does she [25F] like me [25M] or is she playing hard to get?bruh, imo, ask her out on a date. if yes great, if no great no more time wasting. done. theres no easier way. | /r/seduction | 29/06/21 05:36 AM |
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