Before I write this I want to be clear that I haven't gotten any numbers because it wasn't my intention (well one was), but rather a step by step guide on what I said when I cold approached girls, how natural it was and how the conversation flowed

I could have gotten numbers but two instances are me visiting family and I will only be here for 2 weeks, the other a girl told me shes talking to someone, after hanging out with her off and on the whole night haha

The first girl was one I met at a concert. Me and a friend are sitting there jamming to the music and this cute blonde girl/glasses with a skinny body is trying to get through. She turns and asks "have you guys seen my friend's? It's a group of people?"

I say "we're your friends now, and high 5 her"

She laughs and says "oh they're they are!" And runs off with them.

About 20 mins later we see each other again. She introduces me to her friends, and I ask her if she wants to dance. She politely declines and says that she doesn't like the music playing at all but will dance with me later that night if anything better comes on.

Fast forward about an hour later. I'm doing my own thing. I see her again. She asks if I wanna go up on stage and dance if the next song is good. I agree. We talk about the normal stuff, where you from, what brings you here (Hawaii), what do you do for work. Etc.

Eventually the next song comes on and we go up on stage, dance for about 5 mins, the next song comes on and she says that she has to go to work the next morning early and wants to know if I wanna walk her out to her car. I do, and she tells me how sweet I am but that she's seeing someone. I told her I'd see her around and walked back to the club but I didn't feel defeated. I was able to hang out with a hot girl the entire night out of a crowd of men who probably wanted to do the same.

Idk if she's making it up but it is what it is.

Fast forward a few weeks later now I'm visiting family. I go to this local coffee spot and one of the girls is trying to take a pic of her coffee but is having trouble holding the door. I say "hey I'll hold the door, you can take a pic for your TikTok" she busts out laughing and tells me "oh will you? It's for my Snapchat!".

We laugh and I ask her where she's from because her accent isnt from around here. She says Arizona. I tell her how I grew up here but lived in Hawaii now. She freaked out of course because of how lucky I am and we talked back and forth for a good 10 mins. I could have closed with a number but didn't.

Very similar thing happens the next day. A girl brings her dog in. He tries to kiss me and is very sweet. I ask her what her dogs name is. Where she's from, we talk back and forth for ten mins or so, and it was just as organic as the previous girl from the day before

I know that this may not be a "success story" with a number but it's better than never approaching at all.

It's as easy as just approaching a girl and asking her what drink is she drinking, in a coffee store, or a bar. It isn't necessarily easy going from there but having a positive mindset AND being the approachable likeable person you wanna be helps a bunch.