Ok everyone, story time:

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I met this girl on tinder today in the morning and she comes over the same night after some texting and flirting. I'm pretty hyped at this point. Of course I assume she wants to have sex because she's coming to my house and she mentioned for me to get wine for us to drink.

Heres where the problem is. We get to my house, and her body language is completely cold despite trying to escalate with light touching. I go for the kiss anyway but as I'm leaning in she says no so I pull back. The rest of the time shes positioning her body away from mine and is buried in her phone. I try to take her to my room so I can try again and she said she's fine on the couch and attempts to snuggle up aren't working either. At this point I'm like ok this girl is wasting my time so I tell her I'm not feeling good and I'll take her home.

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This is the really weird part. As I'm driving her home she tells me that I'm timid and I'm like huh? She says that she wanted me to have sex with her and so at this point I'm pretty annoyed. I ask why she said no then when I tried to kiss her. She says I should have been more aggressive and just grabbed her and went for it and if I did that we would have had sex. I'm really torn on whether I did the right thing here and I need another opinion. Maybe I've been spending too much time on subs like mens rights but things like false rape accusations scare the hell out of me and if a girl says no to me I don't want to push it. I also have been in trouble with the system before and I really don't want to go back. So that's all, do you guys think she was right or did I dodge a bullet by deciding it wasn't worth it?