I have been on seddit on and off, but this last week I finally had a break. After having many past encounters go badly, it is so refreshing to have something work. Let me start out by saying something like this does not happen very often. So let me describe how it happened. I got up showered, and began preparing myself for a coffee date. Now some people may debate the legitimacy about whether what I actually had was a date. It is possible that it could just be a get together between friends But I think there was definitely some chemistry there. How do I know this? We had a conversation for 3.5 hours straight. There were no real pauses in conversation but it was rather constant. She was just really easy to talk to. Mind you, THIS HAS NEVER HAPPENED WITH ME WHILE TALKING WITH A WOMAN! It may be a friendship right now but it has the potential to grow. I just have to work fast, and effectively. So I had coffee with this girl. I do not think I have ever found a girl I have had so much in common with. We both love art, literature, movies, comics, just so many things. Not only that, she is ATTRACTIVE. I learned many things about her. One she lived in Panama. I also know that she has lived in England for 3 years, and Radford 4. She loves some of the more obscure comics, the color orange, and “hot pink”. She is in Psychology, as well as art. She has a wild imagination too, having constant ideas in her head, but never is able to get them down on paper. She likes to personify things. She names everything from her cell phone, to her computer, to her cars. Get’s that from her mother I guess. She doesn’t like dark liquors, like rum, whisky, scotch, but rather she likes the clear spirits, especially vodka. But at the mention of gin she started cringing so badly, put her head down on the table and chuckled sooo loudly. This continued for a matter of minutes. My goodness it was adorable. She is shy, and prefers to be alone and not with people. She and her Mom have a green thumb. She told me a story about how she was upset with a friend one day and locked herself in her room. Gypsies came knocking at the door, she thought it was her friend and she must have said something insulting and mean, because while they did not curse her, they did cut off all the heads of her roses she was working on. In Psychology she is water boarding rats! Nah she is having rats swim and see how their brains react to exercise. What I wonder, could she be playing a Psychological mind game on me? Well if she is, I sure am enjoying it. No matter what happens, I win. I have already gotten further with her than I have with any other woman. Mind you I have experience to help me along. Bad attempts, decent ones too, but I have a good feeling. So I have 12 weeks to make something happen. This is the challenge/opportunity I have been waiting for. Let me prove to myself that I can play this game. I know I can succeed. Also mind you it is just so refreshing that this woman has a mind that is unlike any other. And since she is a Psych major who has given thought to the matter of the mind I have to really be creative in how I play the game. Do not do the cliché maneuvers. Just like how flowers, candy, and a movie will not work, I have to demonstrate to her that I am good to have around as a mate. Demonstrate strong attributes, for example my cooking, rather than eating out, prepare a meal yourself. Demonstrate to her that yeah, I have money, but money can only do so much, show her you’re other practical skills that can come in handy. Your wide knowledge of media and culture show that you can entertain her in more ways than just movies. You can challenge her intellectually. She has similar religious views to you which is fucking awesome. It is not like she is not spiritual, but she is not one of those bible thumpers. She seems to hold the exact same view as me, the universe is trying to stay in balance with itself and there are negative and positive energies. Where one suffers, one is in bliss. It is the nature of things, for every positive part of something there is a negative part. God I am just feeling fabulous today!