Long story short, yesterday for the first time I approached a woman in a club. It was amazing experience, I enjoyed it thoroughly.

She was quite cute, I approached her, she was talking with some guys I knew, almost immediately I isolated her - we went to have a cigarette. I was one to one with her, just talking some silly stuff, I gave her funny nickname, complimented her, and almost all the time I was touching her, arms, shoulders a few times even her back. We both had similar interest - that is traveling - she've visited even the same places - I role played with her and created this idea that we are both crazy enthusiastic travelers etc. Then we finished smoking and we went back to those guys - that's where it went bad. I kinda panicked when she started talking to the guys, but then focused on her again and talked with her about uni while touching her in the same manner, I didn't escalate even though I should, I guess.

Anyways, she was talking with those guys and she said that 'he's my brother' - pointing at me and smilling. So was that a good or a bad thing? Didnt she also created some silly scenario ? Was she role playing or what? What was that? I know that if a girls tells about someone 'he's like a brother to me' it means she doesn't see him as a boyfriend material. Is this the case? Did she really decided that I am not a boyfriend material? With that constant touching and all that stuff?

After this comment I took it as a bad sign, my energy ran out and in the end I didn't even ask her phone number of facebook. I walked her to the dorm with those guys, because we live in the same building.

Damn. Anyways it was my first approach, I was quiet drunk and it could have been much better. The lesson I learned is this - talking to girls is really fucking fun and I should do it more often!

And the last question; she lives in the same dorm as I do - should go to her and chat a little bit and ask her out? Could I contact her on facebook, because I had to come back to my town this weekend, ?

edit; grammar & typos