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falafin/r/askTRP19/02/15 04:30 PM
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falafin/r/askTRP22/12/14 06:48 PM
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falafin/r/seduction01/09/12 12:54 PM
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falafin/r/askTRP04/01/16 01:14 PM
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falafin/r/askTRP16/06/15 10:23 AM
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falafin/r/askTRP22/11/17 09:16 PM
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falafin/r/askTRP16/01/18 09:39 PM
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falafin/r/askTRP07/02/15 03:58 PM
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falafin/r/seduction06/09/12 11:20 AM
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falafin/r/askTRP30/01/15 12:35 PM
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falafin/r/askTRP26/12/16 08:38 PM
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Maybe you should stop wearing your fedora and shave
/r/askTRP19/05/18 02:24 PM
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Lift more Meditation Start taking cold shower Start reading stoicism (Marcus Aurelius, Epictet, Seneca) If affirmations work for you - try doing some affirmations in the morning (like repeating in your head ' I never let anybody break my frame', 'I refuse to be emotional and reactive" etc, try it maybe it's gonna work) edit: and read this - this helped me a lot - woujo.com/blog/2018/4/26/how-to-hold-frame
/r/askTRP19/05/18 02:16 PM
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Give it to him and don't think twice. And while you're at it don't forget to add the Rational Male
/r/askTRP15/05/18 10:07 AM
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You're gonna get over it bro, break ups always suck. You made your decision when you (I hope) were thinking clearly - now you're in a chaotic terrible mental state and now you're doubting yourself - it's normal. But the fact is the guy that you were before you broke up with her - he wanted out and he wanted more from life than being stuck with her. (Been there done that, I broke up with a gf of 3 years last year.... first 3 months were tough, then it got better)
/r/askTRP11/05/18 06:31 PM
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Joe Rogan podcast Jocko Willink podcast Search TRP for 'books', pick anyone (48 laws of power, No More Mr Nice Guy, anything), get an audiobook and there you go. Podcasts for learning languages
/r/askTRP03/05/18 06:37 AM
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Why don't you try it yourself ? At worst you gonna improve your self-dicipline and willpower and get unbelievably horny At best... who knows - maybe you will come back month later and tell us
/r/askTRP03/05/18 06:34 AM
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Ive been in an LTR with this girl for around 6 months. it's been only 6 months, get out before there are more serious feelings involved and before your lives are more entwined We are both 21 and seniors in college you are too young to have a serious gf, meet some other chicks, spin plates, gain some experience, and focus on improving yourself, a serious gf limits your opportunites & potential Wish I knew that when I was 21... Also a few days ago she asked me what" would you do if I ever cheated …
/r/askTRP06/02/18 02:39 PM
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if you've been gaming her for 4 weeks and have fucked her then you are probably her orbiter game other chicks and don't obsess about this one, because that's sounds like oneitis edit: and read the sidebar
/r/askTRP04/02/18 01:22 PM
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The Way of Men by Donovan
/r/askTRP29/01/18 03:49 PM
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I figured this much. But where to take her & where to escalate and how to plan out the logistics ? Obviously I won't fuck her on a table in a dining room during the lunch break, right?
/r/askTRP17/01/18 08:00 AM
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Get her number & stick to logistics. So get her number and then what? Coffee date after work, escalate and try to get her to invite me to her place?
/r/askTRP17/01/18 07:54 AM
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I've already handed in the resignation and I'm quitting the job - but still have to work till the end of the next month I'm well aware of the 'dont shit where you eat' rule and if I wasn't quitting the job I wouldn't try to fuck her
/r/askTRP17/01/18 07:34 AM
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Invite her to your place for a "movie" or some other reason she can have some plausible deniability, then kino into sex if shes receptive. That's what I would do but right now I live with my parents (after breaking up and moving out from ex) and it's 1 hour drive so it's not gonna work. Since you already know eachother well, skip the 1st date feeler bullshit, thats for girls you just met so they are comfortable around you Shes started working there 3 months ago, talked to her maybe a couple of t…
/r/askTRP17/01/18 07:34 AM
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read books improve your mind, meditate, write, first of all - read some stoics - you can start with Meditations by Marcus Aurelius - it will help you realize that everything in life is temporary - so is the pain you feel right now, be grateful for what you have and appreciate what is good in your life secondly analyze why you got injured so that you don't make the same mistake in the future thirdly come up with some strategy that can help you get healthy, active recovery - go to a physical thera…
/r/askTRP29/12/17 04:37 PM
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Realize that you probably don't have skills required to properly manage a LTR and that sooner or later it is gonna go to shit and it's gonna end and it' gonna hurt like a motherfucker. Always use a condom, even if she is on the pill. Been there done that...
/r/askTRP29/12/17 04:22 PM
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That's helpful, thanks
/r/askTRP29/12/16 06:45 PM
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enjoy your newly gained freedom and appreciate it
/r/askTRP29/04/16 09:06 AM
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do you even lift
/r/MGTOW03/04/16 12:18 PM
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bluepill mentality
/r/askTRP21/01/16 11:49 AM
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Thanks man.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 02:54 PM
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the guys in their anger phase probably hate them the rest doesnt really care, a hoe is a hoe and you can't do nothing about it and hence you shouldnt care
/r/askTRP12/12/15 08:46 AM
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You can't win them all. I've read or heard somewhere (it was probably the Beige Phillip show) that you shouldn't try to have them all but hit on the ones that like you and that prefer your type. Like, maximize your strength and minimize your weaknesses. Anyways, how to be more charming guys? I'm about to read this week the Charisma Myth, any other books on this specific topic?
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 12:38 PM
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(started because of a woman and a beta King) Yeah, but wasn't it that Paris came to his country as a guest, and then stole his wife? If someone is sly and steals your woman (even though she doesn't want to go), then you should react in one way or another? It would be different if she just left her husband for the new guy.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/15 10:14 AM
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consider swimming and ask the doctor or a physiotherapist what exercises you can do and which you shouldn't, we're not doctors here, man. How can we even advice you in this matter? focus hard on getting healthy and fixing your injury, and then when you are healthy, then lift. If you can't walk after lifting then you shouldn't lift but first you should fix your injury. Come on, be smart. It might be tough to accept it that you won't be ripped and the hottest guy in the nearest time and that it mi…
/r/askTRP22/11/15 01:18 PM
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What is the moment when you realize that she lost respect for you and it is time to end a relationship? Obviously when she cheats or tells you to fuck off, but what are more subtle things to watch out for? And what causes it, is this a gradual process or a sudden one?
/r/TheRedPill21/11/15 05:24 PM
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read the second book by Rollo Tomassi, it's about women's lives and how they change as they age,
/r/askTRP15/11/15 10:23 PM
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well, you can't really avoid rejection rejection is a inevitable part of life, just accept it
/r/seduction12/11/15 01:40 PM
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Red Flags: Alpha widow, lives with parents at 27, all of her ex's were "crazy", fully hooked up with her female best friend, she asks me for sexy pics before we even hooked up, considered being a stripper although decided not too. and then you say you want LTR with her? well let me ask you a question, do you want to ruin your life or something? there are better and easier ways to do that
/r/askTRP11/11/15 04:04 PM
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I would probably go radio silent and gauge her reaction once she re-initiates contact. Yeah I think radio silence is the way to go and see what is going on. It looks to me as if she really wanted to go to the party, considering that there is going to be her cousin and that she was planning this for a month, and that I kinda surprised her inviting her to my place. The year mark was a turning point for a LDR I had a few years ago. We used to live really close to each other, it has only been LDR fo…
/r/askTRP09/11/15 07:26 PM
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Lessons: Keep improving as many angles as you can. Your SMV isn't the only factor. Your little snowflake will fuck around for years if she thinks there's an upgrade at the end. Well, my gf of 1 year just got a nice job in some marketing company and she's gonna have better job than I do, so I guess this is it and it's just gonna be downhill from now on and the end is near. How do you prepare for a break up?
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 01:55 PM
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Only reasonable option IMO is to do your thing with your boys. She's made her preference known (the bday party), and you've made yours known (to be with her). If you now decide to go to the party you lose face in her eyes. Yeah, I agree with you and I'm gonna go out with my friends and do my thing. What I was asking is that how I should behave afterwards, obviously I can't reward such behavior, so what do I do? Go radio silent for a couple of days, withhold attention? Soft next? The relationship…
/r/askTRP08/11/15 04:37 PM
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well, what is the point ? you wanna make yourself feel better? I compare myself mostly with myself, in this way I see whether I make progress or not, whether I am becoming better, improving myself and achieving my goals or if I am wasting my time do I care that other people, my college friends and acquaintances still smoke, drink and party every weekend? why the hell should I care ?
/r/askTRP05/11/15 05:32 PM
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use your computer only 1 hour a day then turn it off
/r/askTRP05/11/15 03:33 PM
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cancel your internet subscription and sell video games then spend the free time on improving yourself are you willing to do that?
/r/askTRP05/11/15 12:36 PM
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use the search button /r/TheRedPill/comments/25e4x3/how_porn_and_video_games_pushes_you_into_beta_mode/ /r/TheRedPill/comments/1ksbsw/porn_and_how_it_makes_lesser_men/ /r/TheRedPill/comments/1uesnw/video_games_pornmasturbation_and_watching_sports/
/r/askTRP05/11/15 12:18 PM
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you can find it on torrents
/r/askTRP04/11/15 03:21 PM
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you just don't
/r/seduction04/11/15 01:51 PM
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In the book 'Superior Man' by Deida there is some chapter how it is in a life (of a man) that sometimes you end projects and achieve goals and then you have to give yourself time and ponder deeply before you come up with new goals and projects. You might wanna check it, maybe it's gonna help you (but really, what do I know, I haven't achieved any success yet)
/r/askTRP31/10/15 04:18 PM
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Consider thoroughly whether it is reasonable and beneficial for you to stay in a relationship with a woman of loose morals spoiler&protip: it's not next her and learn from the experience
/r/askTRP26/10/15 06:24 PM
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i'd guess that previous relationships function as preselection if other girls chose you in the past, then you must be pretty alright and not some crazy weirdo but wait for more comments and opinions from more experienced guys
/r/askTRP26/10/15 01:13 PM
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can i even talk about strategy with her? what for? what is the point of revealing your cards and your strengths? the discussion of how different men and women are came up it's fun to discuss interesting topics and do it by all means but just keep it interesting and vague and dont reveal too much about your game plan because nothing good is going to come out of this i'm a 20 year old virgin would she rather consider turning me into a emotional sponge to dump her problems later on she is 18 and is…
/r/askTRP11/10/15 11:34 AM
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Oh well. So what is his new book 'The Truth' about? I kinda hoped it would be an interesting read that would spill some redpill truths but I guess that's not happening.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 10:23 AM
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you're going to date an alpha widow nothing good is going to come out of this
/r/askTRP06/10/15 06:06 PM
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Why Training Is Important Physical training is an integral part of the Red Pill ideology and there are two primary reasons for this. First, it instills discipline in you as a man. By consistently hitting the gyms a minimum of three times per week and keeping a training log, you create accountability in your life and develop a diligence that bleeds over into other aspects of your life. Weight training strengthens your mind simultaneously. A training log is essential to genuine long-term growth. W…
/r/MGTOW21/09/15 03:41 PM
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very responsive, touched married bad luck well, it's only bad luck for their husbands, not necessarily for you
/r/seduction20/09/15 11:41 AM
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This. have little power over it, and are very angry about it? You do have power over it. Can you change how you feel about yourself? Can you change how you look ? Can you become more attractive? Can you become more sociable? Can you become better at seduction? Can you cold approach girls and talk to them? Can you get at least one number? Can you get at least one date? Sure you can, you're just making excuses. It's all about your mindset. You can either sit around and cry how there arenn't any co…
/r/seduction19/09/15 10:49 AM
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therationalmale.com/2011/11/30/intergender-friendship/ You're a smart man and that is reasonable conclusion. Intragender friendship just doesn't work. Sure I have plenty of 'female friends' but would choose any of my best buddies over them without hesitation. If you like them, if you benefit from the 'friendship' in some way then by all means hang out with them if you like it - but be aware that it is not the same true friendship as with your best bro.
/r/askTRP07/09/15 11:09 AM
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don't contact her, no contact, best revenge is ignoring and maybe explain those family members that they shouldn't get involved and that it's none of their damn business, they clearly crossed a boundary that they shouldn't
/r/askTRP06/09/15 11:00 AM
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Great job man. Just don't make her your goal and your mission in your life; don't put her on pedestal. Use that energy and motivation to pursue your life goals and let her enjoy the ride with you.
/r/seduction05/09/15 09:16 AM
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whats up it's only awkward if you think it is and if you are awkward
/r/seduction22/08/15 12:28 PM
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street harassment
/r/MGTOW18/08/15 08:54 PM
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How can you get better at amused mastery?
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 07:31 AM
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'it will be the best for the child' I bet that they use that one, for all the shitty things they might do they will always have the excuse that they did it for the sake of a child,
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 11:41 AM
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read this http://therationalmale.com/2011/11/03/plate-theory-iii-transitioning/ and if you haven't read therationalmale books by Tomassi read it immediately
/r/askTRP11/08/15 09:15 AM
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if you're worried about ruining some chance, you will ruin it
/r/seduction11/08/15 08:27 AM
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does it matter? you want more friends, them improve and become better, more interesting person I don't know if it's me over compensating because of low self confidence, or whether I am not likeable. it vastly depends on context, we can't really tell anything from this one sentence
/r/askTRP10/08/15 06:58 PM
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join some interest clubs, find a new hobby like for example boxing club or rock climbing club or cooking classes, and so on and there you meet people and talk with the regulars, then if you click with someone and get to know that person invite him for drinks after some training and boom, you're hanging out with a cool bro that you share interest with
/r/askTRP10/08/15 06:42 PM
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it's called last minute resistance read about it, it's been covered
/r/askTRP04/08/15 10:43 AM
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what Dad body is basically skinnyfat with some muscles and no definiotion. Girls say it's attractive and good in relationship, because guess what, if you are fat no other girl will want you, so your girl has you completely and you are out of options. Dad body trend promote complacency. I dont see why you assume she's alpha widowed - if you are strong and ripped, you sure as hell gonna be better and hotter than some mediocre dadbody. Just be awesome and fuck her. If she really is an alpha widow, …
/r/askTRP25/07/15 01:47 PM
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walk confidently
/r/askTRP25/07/15 09:49 AM
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if thats the most bitchy and pretentious text, then you havent seen anything yet
/r/seduction23/07/15 10:23 AM
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maybe this saved it sometime ago, some good advice in general
/r/askTRP18/07/15 01:06 PM
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from the RP point of view, its pointless fantasizing and waste of your energy and time if anything, if you are complete sex newb you might learn something from it
/r/askTRP12/07/15 04:32 PM
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If you have mommy issues or any issues that present strong negative feeling to your psyche, go see a therapist Yeah, well, isn't that common sense?
/r/TheRedPill12/07/15 07:43 AM
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maybe fuck her or something?
/r/askTRP11/07/15 06:11 PM
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I told them back home to sell the kids You sold your kids? What am I reading
/r/TheRedPill10/07/15 09:49 AM
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Just go to /r/seduction and read the faq OP then practice
/r/askTRP07/07/15 05:59 PM
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Did you try using the search button? Hemingway was pretty RP, especially The old Man and the Sea, but all his novels are worth reading.
/r/askTRP07/07/15 01:26 PM
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Just say "i have 15 inch dick and 20 million dollars" u gonna get laid for sure mate
/r/askTRP07/07/15 01:12 PM
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How to hold a conversation like a man
/r/seduction06/07/15 10:54 AM
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therationalmale you never forget your first Of the 40+ women I’ve had in my sexual past, two were virgins. Both of these women sought me out on Face Book 15-20 years after we’d went our separate ways. They are definitely not the same girls I knew back then, but I think this is an interesting illustration of a larger dynamic. Then and now, both of these girls surprised me with their attachment to me – I think that’s part of a bond you make with a woman when you’re her first. It’s the “never forge…
/r/askTRP05/07/15 09:52 AM
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This
/r/askTRP04/07/15 11:12 AM
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dont give her real answer but come up with something over the top and say it as a joke, like, you are a fucking astronaut or something
/r/askTRP29/06/15 02:33 PM
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cooking
/r/askTRP24/06/15 09:30 AM
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4: It is a negative visualization Thanks for that I haven't heard about this concept, but I already see it is powerful.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/15 05:40 PM
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I'm pretty fucking sure she was a virgin. She was tight and she bled. Besides, that's now what I wanted to talk about; I just wanted to know what to do with the redflags and how to view them in my context? Does it mean she has higher potential to be a slut? Does it mean she's hooked on guys' validation more than girls without so many male friends? I just want to come to some conclusions and learn from it
/r/askTRP16/06/15 12:06 PM
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Just start focusing on YOU and not her needs. But that's what I'm doing. I just want to get my head around the concept of a woman with guy friends, what is the deal with them and learn from this experience for the future. How should I view these redflags in my context? I'm not so concerned about losing her, because our paths will probably split, as she wants to keep studying and I want to travel. I spend summers in Sopot (Trojmiesto) and feminism has hit there hardcore. Plenty of Poles lie about…
/r/askTRP16/06/15 11:00 AM
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I've never walked a great Dune in the Sahara, climbed a glacial ice wall, been in a bar fight in Dublin or done a line of cocaine off a Tokyo model, chased by a bear or been genuinely fearful for my life. What will you tell your grandchildren - what will you have done? That's what I am thinking. I've never really liked the traditional script that society dictates people, go to college, get a job, start a family and live happily every after. At the age of 18 (I'm 22now) I decided that since I am …
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 10:45 AM
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where is this quote from?
/r/MGTOW13/06/15 05:40 PM
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counter-clockwise swirl
/r/seduction08/06/15 02:39 PM
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. I was thinking maybe she could just let me massage her feet once in a while and in return keep good relations with me? what
/r/askTRP05/06/15 07:18 AM
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You know she went out for dinner with 2 old friends (1 male, 1 female). Well, that's a shitty idea from the beginning. If they are her old friends and there is nothing going on, shouldn't she gladly introduce you to them?
/r/askTRP04/06/15 08:23 AM
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putting others down So making fun of fatties and ugly people makes me insecure? What the hell.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/15 07:03 AM
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being a dick is better than being a pushover and being used by someone but I bet there is some way to turn it into flirting/something, though you have to wait for other users to comment
/r/askTRP28/05/15 06:49 PM
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Couldn't you tell your friend not to invite her ? That she's a lying cheating whore and you would prefer not to see her ?
/r/askTRP28/05/15 11:08 AM
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That's what I mean. Having an abundance of girls will help you get attached to girls so quickly. You explained everything great, but this doesn't seem right. You mean, 'not get attached', right?
/r/seduction27/05/15 10:24 AM
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abundance mentality
/r/seduction27/05/15 09:12 AM
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kek, women aint everything in the world enjoy yourself, if you wanna fuck as much as possible, then get ready to be rejected, if not then just wait if some pussy falls on your dick, if you think you are thoroughly done with women, check Men Going Their Own Way, if not, then accept it that Rejection is a part of being a sexually active male. You can't run from it, you can't always succeed. The point is to not get it under your skin and not giving a fuck. And abundance mentality. If not this one, …
/r/seduction26/05/15 11:27 AM
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bar bar, stardusk and spetznaz on youtube for a while. They've really changed my outlook on life for the better. Thanks for sharing it, I've never really read too much about MGTOW but I'm surely gonna check those channels and see what they talk about.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/15 09:55 AM
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use search on /r/theredpill and here and you should find some
/r/askTRP24/05/15 06:42 PM
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mgtow - men going their own way you might wanna read about it or just get ripped, rich, and move to some cute calm eastern country and find yourself a beautiful young virgin that will adore you (not being ironic, im serious)
/r/askTRP24/05/15 12:29 PM
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take up martial arts, join boxing club or something no reason to fight with some crazy stupid asshole in front of a club, unless you wanna get killed, especially with experience and confidence,
/r/askTRP24/05/15 10:19 AM
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doesnt really matter just ask her out, nothing fancy, just for a coffee, be fun, flirty, and escalate, even if you are the god of comedy but you are only going to talk with her on fb messenger, you are not getting laid, and sooner or later she will get bored or you'll end up in the friendzone
/r/askTRP21/05/15 12:30 PM
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you wanna talk on fb like a kid or do you want to bang this chick and have some real life interactions? i dont see a reason why you should keep the conversation going online, strike the iron while it's hot, ask her out, flirt, escalate, and fuck her and then do whatever the fuck you wanna do
/r/askTRP21/05/15 11:30 AM
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To be clear i want a LTR with a top 10% virgin woman. lol
/r/askTRP15/05/15 12:31 PM
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too much talking about bullshit and too little flirting and sexual escalation ?
/r/askTRP12/05/15 01:56 PM
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'well, who says you cant have two' if she has a boyfriend and she flirts with you and is open to your sexual escalation, she is a terrible gf and doesnt respect her bf, if she happen to cheat with you, dont ever get investd emotionally and enter LTR with her, because guess what, in the future when you are her bf, she probably will cheat on you too
/r/seduction10/05/15 11:00 AM
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sounds like trouble and too much bother I would end it before I get too much feelings for her, because it surely is a red flag and she might/is not be LTR material Shouldn't she stop the contact by herself? They need boundaries and you are to set them. And she still has other guy friends even one that will give her a massage cause he is a physical therapist. I too wouldn't be comfortable with that some guy friends(is also a girl who can relate well to guys), even some she has fucked with. redfla…
/r/askTRP08/05/15 11:54 AM
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watch into the wild burn all the money hitchhike around the world die from starvation, alone in wilderness because you ate wrong berries
/r/askTRP05/05/15 07:46 PM
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can you give examples?
/r/askTRP13/04/15 07:07 PM
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so I get it when someone hits on a taken woman and she flirts back, if she's not happy in a relationship it is understandable that she will try some other options, but actively initiating contact with a random guy? now that's really fucking shitty, holy helll but then again, AWALT so I shouldnt be shocked.
/r/askTRP06/04/15 07:42 PM
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flirt back escalate get her number invite her to study together or watch a movie fuck her
/r/askTRP05/04/15 04:34 PM
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don't you feel sometimes like there are better things to do than playing video games? I mean, I'm not judging or whatever, I dont care, do whatever makes you happy, but if I had time and money, I would travel and do something cool, not just play vidya games.
/r/MGTOW05/04/15 08:55 AM
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Who says you have to stick to one culture and to one country? Change it if it doesnt fit you. You can if you want.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 02:14 PM
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Then get better at sex. Sure, I'm working on it. A dude she knows: make a mental note, this is bad. What if it is a randm dude just walking by? Something like this happened a couple of months ago when I was bp still bp as hell, in th beginning of the relationship A famous dude so always agree and amplify. dutifully noted
/r/askTRP01/04/15 10:45 AM
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hitchhike, travel, adventure
/r/askTRP01/04/15 10:27 AM
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the first red flag here was she had extremely conservative parents. then you will be dealing with a dysfunctional mind and probably a Late CC rider. So I get the part that extremely conservatie parents are bad, and viewing sex as evil is bound to be problematic. But what is the connection with extremely conservative parents and late cc rider ? Care to elaborate?
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 06:47 PM
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check sex god method book if you havent already
/r/askTRP12/03/15 08:06 PM
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2 week already meeting parents whaaat
/r/seduction11/03/15 12:42 PM
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get meds therapy work on yourself and your confidence, liiiiftttt, read about social skills, practice them then go out and practice ? that how Ive done it, without even knowing there was such thing as 'redpill'.
/r/askTRP03/03/15 05:14 PM
3

then break up
/r/askTRP24/02/15 04:50 PM
3

shit happens
/r/askTRP24/02/15 01:43 PM
4

shes different no she's not, just do it
/r/seduction23/02/15 05:19 PM
10

if you are over 30, well off, and good looking, it seems that this is the best option, working on your goals, living for yourself, from time to time fucking some pussy, maybe some short relationships and that is all there is to it daaaamn
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 06:00 PM
106

the more i read about trp and ltr the more it makes me think relationships aint worth anything and its too much fucking bother
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 05:05 PM
4

how come
/r/askTRP19/02/15 05:01 PM
52

oneitis do you really would like to be with a girl that didnt even thank you for saving her life
/r/TheRedPill15/02/15 06:54 PM
2

kek
/r/askTRP14/02/15 04:01 PM
1

or be a player and take her virginity if she's worthy and you are awesome, then stick to yourselves ?
/r/TheRedPill14/02/15 03:03 PM
0

set up goals work towards them
/r/askTRP12/02/15 04:11 PM
1

I am sure she takes her pill trusting women constanza.jpeg
/r/askTRP11/02/15 11:27 PM
3

TL DIDNT READ if you are needy then focus on yourself, hit the gym, set up new goals, get ripped, get a new hobby, travel, meet new people, spend time with your friends, new friends, and your family if you are needy, the best thing is to withdraw if she/he cares, after your withdrawing, the other person should chase, if they dont, they clearly dont care besides, dont get oneitis, there are other women out there The thing is - if you are needy - you crave their validation. I say, fuck it. You don…
/r/seduction11/02/15 11:21 PM
1

Either don't respond or be jokingly dismissive "yeah, thanks for reminding me, because usually Im sooooo bad' something like this is enough ? anyways, so I did good ignoring that part of the text, yeah
/r/askTRP07/02/15 05:24 PM
1

are there other girls? yes should you hit on them and try with them and forget about one that is not interested? yes if she wants to hang out with you she will find time and will contact you, meanwhile hit on other girls
/r/askTRP07/02/15 04:10 PM
1

should've make out with her, then she would realize it is a date
/r/seduction07/02/15 09:08 AM
2

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V3Z4Nq0OrrM https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IzO3NGU1Bgo these 2 videos helped me tremendously
/r/seduction06/02/15 06:02 PM
2

Yeah, but what if she resists? like 'yyy noo i dont wanna'' 'no i dont wanna why do you force me?'
/r/askTRP03/02/15 12:11 PM
1

or find yourself a virgin gf and lose it together with her that worked for me and the first 2 times we tried I couldnt get it hard because of anxiety, and yet she was supportive and kind, now we have great sex life
/r/seduction31/01/15 03:02 PM
2

she's a 4 and I'm a 7 Maybe thats the answer how to keep a woman loyal - when she is ugly that no one else hits on her, she will stay with you now I think I would rather have a 6-7 that is a good woman with common interests and loyal than 8 or 9 that is likely to cheat
/r/askTRP31/01/15 02:51 PM
9

she wouldn't leave me (despite not treating her the best way lately) and it occurred to me she might have oneitis for me the fact that a woman tells you she loves and will be with your forever doesnt mean shit women tend to change their minds
/r/askTRP31/01/15 02:46 PM
3

I have a female friend that is 'in love' and kinda obsessed about some guy for over a year. Even when she goes out with someone else, it doesnt end up anywhere because she always compare all the guys to him. What is funny, they are friends and the guy is probably bi or gay, but she can't and doesnt want to face it and they never did anything sexual, all is platonic. I told her to make a move or do something or forget about him, but she chooses to wallow in her self-pity
/r/askTRP31/01/15 02:44 PM
1

What if she doesnt think you have/you dont have higher SMV than her?
/r/askTRP31/01/15 01:58 PM
2

house of cards probably havent watched that yet, but its about politics and power, so it should be good
/r/askTRP31/01/15 12:32 PM
1

I don't mean equal relationship, I mean equal SMV, like if you both are 7 or 8/10
/r/askTRP30/01/15 01:55 PM
6

is it normal for trp guys to go through their gf's/wife's phone? I've read somwhere here that you shouldnt trust a woman. Well, so should you do it regularly or only when she's acting weird and you're suspicious ??
/r/askTRP25/01/15 11:38 PM
4

My gf is 5'3 and weighs 100 pounds It's glorious I can lift her and throw her on bed so easily, it really really works
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 12:03 PM
1

That said, in a LTR it's her responsibility to respond to men making advances. Sounds like she knows she has a higher smv and thinks you won't leave/can't do better as she's being flirtatious in front of you. The usual solution to a shit test like this is to do your own thing/enjoy yourself with other girls but if she isn't responding to that she clearly doesn't respect you. In the past she was jealous of other girls from dorm that I made out with before we were together, so I guess she is aware…
/r/askTRP18/01/15 12:29 PM
1

If you drink be aware of your limits. I say this as a man who has done far more regrettable things while drunk. Duly noted. It is fun to be living in dorm and being drunk when I was single, I guess in LTR it doesnt work because you have to keep your shit tight.
/r/askTRP18/01/15 12:17 PM
1

Maybe next time it would be better to tone down the drinking so this kind of behavior doesnt happen You're right, I'm going to cut down on drinking. Second, it may have been a better move to LEAD (emphasis of being a leader) the gf out of the club rather than respond in a beta way to the guy. Im sure you know that even if she had no interest in the guy initially, you sort of pushed her towards him. Damn, this solution is so easy and logical and yet I was so drunk and emotional I couldn't come up…
/r/askTRP18/01/15 12:11 PM
1

read Camus' myth of Sisyphus
/r/askTRP17/01/15 01:56 PM
5

what when you are hanging out in real life and its going good just say something like 'lets go to my place ill show you photos from my travels/my guitar/my golden fish' or whatever bullshit then bang her or let her sleep on the couch, whatever you want
/r/askTRP13/01/15 03:37 PM
-1

lift and be cool learn some pua skills and talk to girls
/r/askTRP12/01/15 05:31 PM
47

nice to get a view from the other side just proves that you should fuck them like a little sluts they are
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 04:25 PM
8

join a gym, get in better shape get a hobby read the entire sidebar
/r/askTRP09/01/15 11:07 AM
1

dont.apologize ffs secondly, that sounds like a terrible case of oneitis, i really hope you're at least fucking her, if not you're so deep in friendzone focus on yourself, lift, go out, practice pua skills, increase your value, travel soft next her, dont contact her, if she doesnt contact you in a couple of days or weeks, then she doesnt care about you and you shouldnt care about her, if she does then hang out with her, there are other girls
/r/seduction08/01/15 04:54 PM
12

So what would be the best way about getting more blowjobs in this case? Lift, increase SMV, then dread game ?, freezing her when she doesnt want sex? if she doesnt care then leave her ? Have I got it right? I'm new here
/r/TheRedPill07/01/15 07:55 PM
5

I have no intention of getting married, even before discovering TRP I never liked the idea.
/r/askTRP22/12/14 08:52 PM
4

Good. Let her miss you a little That's what I learned. At the beginning I wanted to spend as much time with her as possible and gave her plenty of attention. Well, now lets say I still want to spend time with her but I'm not making myself so available. I guess it's good, it's about being a man and having a mission and not focusing entirely on her, right? This is called a shit test I figured this much, and ignored her
/r/askTRP22/12/14 07:01 PM
1

so what should a RP guy do if he's not as good at pool as OP is ?
/r/TheRedPill18/12/14 02:11 PM
2

escalate sexually https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V3Z4Nq0OrrM
/r/seduction13/12/14 06:09 PM
21

After lurking this sub for a couple of days it seems to me all women all whores. Are you guys fucking serious? Is that the truth? iwasnotreadyforthis.jpeg
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 01:14 PM
1

how does one learn cunning ?
/r/TheRedPill04/11/14 05:01 PM
1

'heey, wanna get high and listen to my bloody valentine?'
/r/seduction26/09/14 05:59 PM
1

fun games What fun games you guys recommend ?
/r/seduction10/07/14 09:12 AM
6

Shit, now you're telling me it a goddamn parody and a joke when I send this to all my male friends?
/r/seduction12/03/14 09:11 PM
35

What if you are a virgin and she asks you about your sex life?
/r/seduction06/12/13 09:43 AM
3

This. Brain-wash yourself into believing you are awesome, repeat some cool affirmations daily while smiling and looking in mirror, listen to some affirmations tapes and what not. Helped me tremendously.
/r/seduction02/12/13 02:55 PM
7

I've got a similar question. Let's say you go on the dance floor, you dance with a girl - she's grinding on you, then you make out. What the hell do you next? How can I ask her for number or to talk ? Can I ask for her number because she just grind on me and then we made out? Asking her to my place immediately doesn't really seem an option right now - I don't feel confident enough (being a virgin and newbie at the game and what not) and have no logistics. What do you do ? Do you talk to a girl d…
/r/seduction24/11/13 09:14 PM
1

Thanks for the answer, I needed this type of insight. Really appreciate it!
/r/seduction17/10/13 07:29 PM
2

Damn, I didn't know it could be that easy
/r/seduction11/02/13 02:20 PM
1

You seems really confident for a person with avoidant personality disorder. How did you managed to do this ? By simple saying Fuck it ? God, I've tried it thousand times but it never worked. I have similar issues, but I didn't find the courage to actullay approach any girl.Did your therapist help you somehow? And you also have some good social skills for a person that doesn't (or rather didn't) like socializing. I'm truly jealous OP, great job
/r/seduction08/12/12 06:39 PM
6

It's good to hear you finally did this. I myself have been reading lots of this stuff, working on my inner game - I've never been as confident and happy as I am now, but I just can't seem to get over that damn AA. Your post is a great inspiration, awesome job man.
/r/seduction25/11/12 10:23 PM
14

Is this the real life ?
/r/seduction25/11/12 11:38 AM
1

that feel when no gf
/r/seduction19/09/12 02:51 PM
3

What's even worse is knowing you could've have approached a girl, but you don't out of petty bullshit like fear. It almost pisses me off whenever I think, "FUCK, what if?" Fucking this. I went out today, spent 2 hours walking around the city and didn't do a single approach. It sucks. I know I can do this, the fear is irrational and all that stuff. I just feel like my mind is sabotaging my life. I know I will do it, the question is when ? OP you did great today, I admire you bro.
/r/seduction17/09/12 03:16 PM
1

Great post. It's good to find a /fit/izien that actually does something to change his life. It's none of your business what others think of you. Bam. Clear and concise, right? Because really, who gives a fuck? I just can't deal with it. I've read lots of stuff about this and I know it is irrational, stupid and pointless thinking what others think of me, but I just can't stop it.
/r/seduction12/09/12 08:35 AM
1

If you want to get that special girl, you have to be successful with women in general I believe it's Tyler at the beginning of 'Foundations' seminar
/r/seduction12/09/12 08:22 AM
1

I haven't been on a date in 19 years. What do i do guise
/r/seduction09/09/12 10:53 AM
1

www.simplepickup.com/how-to/girl-just-met/ maybe this could be useful
/r/seduction07/09/12 01:36 PM
1

How long have you been doing this ?
/r/seduction05/09/12 03:39 PM
3

Alpha as fuark. Awesome job.
/r/seduction04/09/12 10:52 AM
1

This yt video was hilarious. Now I have cottage cheese all over my laptop
/r/seduction03/09/12 08:43 PM
7

Dont panic, I'm not crazy He kinda looks crazy, doesnt he ?
/r/seduction03/09/12 08:16 AM
0

the guys from simplepickup pulled it off you can see it on yt
/r/seduction03/09/12 07:57 AM
1

How about talking about something you like
/r/seduction02/09/12 04:03 PM
1

seddit or seduction, well I'm fairly new here and didn't know that there's a difference. Thanks anyways
/r/seduction02/09/12 01:59 PM
1

I made similar thread, similar field report yesterday. Went out for the very first time with intention to cold approach girls, but didn't do shit. I am not giving up, the responses I got in the thread were great and they helped me to change my point of view. If we really want to succeed we will just have to work harder A little more persistence, a little more effort, and what seemed hopeless failure may turn to glorious success Elbert Hubbard
/r/seduction02/09/12 01:25 PM
1

Great job man. This is truly inspiring thank you for all that you have taught me over the past 3 months seddit. Im not trying to ridicule your or offende, just want to ask a newbie question. So you were reading /r/seddit and other stuff to get some pickup knowledge and then you started using this in practice? Why did it take you 3 months ?
/r/seduction01/09/12 06:54 PM
1

Great post, thanks man. I will just stick to it and work harder till I succeed. I will use the logical approach next time, or at least I will try.
/r/seduction01/09/12 04:33 PM
1

More or less. For example today, when I went to a shop to buy a t-shirt and then I stood and talked with a cashier, or when I ordered coffee and commented on the place, or when I was talking with a woman that takes money for a parking place - I was comfortably, I wasn't nervous at all. I was as comfortable and confident as I can imagine. The same is when I talk to someone and ask the time or direction or whether a bus has already gone or not.
/r/seduction01/09/12 03:40 PM
1

Always stay positive, I thought I was good - but now I after today I see Im not. Time to google up that positive challenge Tyler keeps talking about having a wing can help a lot of people. I'll try a few more times on my own. If it doesn't work, I will definitely talk to my friend about it.
/r/seduction01/09/12 02:00 PM
1

You did a great job. Today was my first day ever also, and guess what - I fucking failed. Didn't approach a single girl, what the fuck is wrong with me, I thought I was ready. Fuck I am so mad at myself.
/r/seduction01/09/12 12:12 PM
5

Great post, I like that. Im going to uni next month and I am so new in this pickup stuff. I've started watching RSD seminars, currently watching Foundations and this is so awesome. I'm planning to do 30 day challenge and approach 5 girls a day for the next month so if I succeed, I will be much more confident in uni. The 1st september will be the first day. In fact, I have a question for you guys. What happens when you display confident body language, and yet your heart is beating so fast and you…
/r/seduction30/08/12 12:00 PM
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