First approach

kuso_32 · 2014-11-23T06:14:29+00:00

Congrats on your first approach, but this is just the beginning. Now that you did it once it'll be easy to just keep doing it. The more you approach the more reference experience you build and the easier it becomes. Also, remember that you're playing the numbers game in the sense that the more girls you approach the more girls you will close, which is common sense but it's good to keep in mind. Another thing to keep in mind is the great perhaps; don't leave situations as "what ifs", approach any and every girl, especially you find them attractive, and if not it's still good reference experience and talking to any girl could push you out of your comfort zone and into state.

Wandering_Saint · 2014-11-23T19:09:32+00:00

Don't let this discourage you. The second time I approached a girl, she had a boyfriend, and the fourth time, she was married (I failed to check for a ring!)

It happens, but you just keep going!

ChupiChu · 2014-11-23T08:08:12+00:00

Congratz! It must took a lot of courage to do something like that!

wiseteria · 2014-11-23T23:15:10+00:00

Good job!

It also happened to me a quite few times but hey one day there will be a girl out there that won't be taken. And now that you've done it for the first time all it should be a lot easier in the future!

jeanisss · 2014-11-24T05:08:31+00:00

Great job!

I know that when you get the "i have a boyfriend line" it can be disheartening at the moment, but don't fear.

You are your own special man, and there's literally thousands of girls out there that wouldn't mind a man like you around, you just have to find em.

Keep firing soldier!

Title	First approach
Author	BusinessBacon
Upvotes	20
Comments	8
Date	November 23, 2014 3:12 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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