Hey guys I recently just posted that I want start cold approaching and needed a wing man. Wellllll yesterday I meet up with a freind and decided I was going to approach. I was nervous as shit but my freind was there laughing at me lool so I decided not to bitch out and went in laughing at the situation so my vibe was nice. So here is a resume of the approaches. If someone could give me tips on how to improve it would be appreciated.
Approach 1: walked up to her and just told her I think she was cute. She turns and gives me a big smile. So I ask her name blabla. She says she is Mexican ( she had broken English as well) so I ask what she is doing in Canada. Don't remember what she said anyway I continue convo and then she tell me she is her with her husband ( thing is she was giggling all throughout and smiling) so I say "ahh with your husband, ok well have a nice day" and dip.
Approach 2: wasn't super successful I open with do I know from somewhere. She looks visibly confused and says no. I ask for her name she gives it to me reluctantly and I say oh ok and bounce.
Approach 3. Walk up to her tell her she is cute. Ask for name. She smiles and gives it to me. Me " oh that's a middle eastern name are you from the middle east. Her : " no I am from Sri Lanka but I am muslim" . I don't know why she said but I am muslim like I should expect something else lool so I comment on that like " ohh no way your Muslim, how do people react when you tell them" she laughs says some bullshit... Balabla. Then I ask her what's she doing at the bus stop. She said she just finished working at the mall so I look at her and say u look fashionable let me guess where u work and this goes on for a while. Near end I tell her I see your bus is here but if u want let's exchange numbers or u want chill or hangout. Now here is where I don't get. She offers me her insta not number. So I say I don't have insta. She then says what about snap. I also don't have snap lol. So I just tell her that she should take my number and if she wants to text me she can.
Approach 4: cute girl at bus stop. Walk by her and say right away excuse. She looks up and smile yes. I look at her and she looks quite young so I say oh I though u were someone else and leave. My freind ask me why I left I say she looked young so he tells me to go ask for her age. At this point I didn't want go back cuz I thought its awkward but I do anyway. So I walk back. Me " hey I know I thought u were someone else but you are still cute so I had to tell you. Her " smiles and thanks me. I ask for her name. She gives it to me. I make a funny remark about it. I then proceeded to ask her about her age. She tells me she is 19 and ask for my age to which I reply I am a bit older then u without giving it. Me " oh ok I honestly though you were 16 or something. She laughs but says like " so u came to approach me thinking I was 16. So I laugh and say " wait wait hold up don't be put me in a bad light like that. That's why I asked for your age before anything. " She laughs. At this point because of that last remark I think it's time to call it quits. No point in asking any numbers. So I say well anyway I thought u were cute and I start leaving. As I am leaving she asks me for my name. So I give it to her and same thing as approach 3. I tell her let's exchange number. She says she is more of social media person and tell me to take her insta. Again I don't have insta or snap so I tell her to put my number in and to call me if she wants to hang out or chill.
Sorry for the very long post. Honestly I was very surprised at how thing went. I wasn't super awkward as I thought I would be. Girls were receptive( I think lol). And most importantly I had the courage to do something that day. Not 1 as well but 4. Any tips or tricks to improve would be appreciated
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