Hey guy so this is day 4 I think. So as I have work today at around 5 pm I know I won't be able to approach after that unless it's in bars or something similar and since my freind is working morning I said fuck it I need to approach alone. ( Not that he ever approached but he would just tag along and we would discuss the approaches afterwards lol ). I only approached 2. I still have a lot of anxiety and I can tell. There was a cute one that I wanted to approach but told myself she has a mask it would be weird to approach she probably doesn't want talk with people and stuff and payched myself out of it. The next 2 approach went as follow

First one I see from afar I run up and I come right by her side but she was on the phone I think I say excuse me in the smallest most insecure voice. I don't think she heard cuz she kept walking. I say fuck it I need to grow some and try again this time I am a bit more loud. Me : hey I thought u were cute and I had to say hi ( this again in a shaky almost puppy voice --> not great I know ) Her: thx Me : how are u doing in the tiniest voice again Her : sorry Me : oh I said what's ur name ( lol wtf ) Her: I don't want disclose that and before I could say anything else she just followed up by I have a bf. Me : ok cool have a nice day This set taught me something though that was the first "hard rejection" . Why ? Because when I went up and said the same exact opening there was no smile no giggling no " good vibe " almost like ok now what do u want. So I knew from the very first moment she wasn't into me but I wanted to continue to see.

Approach 2

Me : hey I just thought u were cute and I had to come say hi Her : take off her ear buds " sorry " usually this would shame me a bit as I think she doesn't want talk or I messed up or this is awakward or wtv but I continued. Me : oh I just said I thought u were cute and I just had to come say hi. Her : aw thanks and laughs. And proceeded to take off her sunglasses Me : ooh taking of the sunglasses this is serious or something like that lol Her : laughs Me : what's your name Her : balabla Me : so what are u doing here just chilling waiting for the bus Her : yeah I am actually waiting for my bf to come pick me up Me : oooh boyfriend and I laugh Her : no I swear I actually have a bf and she laughs Me : laughs and then I proceed to say the stupidest thing. " Hahaha no worries I get alot of those. Me: well anyway [insert name ] it was nice talking to you have a nice day. As I am walking off I say " you are still cute though " again she laughs and that's that. Now what I realized is that she was very excited when I came up to her. She was receptive. She took off her glasses and was ready to have a convo. It was just a different vibe from the first. What I am starting to pickup up on is who is on the fence, who would really like me ( like her if she had no bf) and who is just straight out no like the first one.

Also while doing that there was 2 girls that were just chilling and since I was just moving around I kept seeing them. On multiple occasions when I would pass them one of them would just almost go into a stating contest with me. I don't know what means but just she would keep locking her eyes on me. No laughs though or anything. I would have approached but it was 2 of them and I am still not comfortable enough. But I would like to know what it means. Was she maybe interested or am I just reading too much into it. P.s I have a few hours to kill before work so might do 2 more and update tonight.

****UPDATEApproach 3. Was lying on the grass in front of bus stop. Girl came out saw her. Took less time to approach this time. Didn't hesitate as much said fuck it. And went. Said I thought she was cute. She laughs and said thx. I asked how was she doing. She said she's In a couple. I asked ohh bf she said yeah smiling. I said oh ok well have a good day and left.

I am seeing the contrast between those and the first few. Although I don't really get it because the first few I also approached with some anxiety and opened with the same lines and asked for name. Maybe this time I wasn't really outcome independent like they say. Like I really wanted some more numbers. Any tips would be great thx