So yesterday I was pretty bummed. Why ? Because I have had 3-4 rejections. One one of them was kinda bad tbh ( she was just very standoffish and said rudely she had a bf.). The others were all very nice and said they had bf. It still stings when you get rejected u know. And the other girl that gave me her snap answered saying it was sweet of me to ask her for coffee but she is not looking to meet new people right now. ( should have known she wasnt going to do shit cuz when I ask her for her number she said she doesn't give it out giggling. ). So all that kinda got to me. I was about to no approach at all today but I read a couple post about rejection and that u should not let It get to you and how it's actually good because u become numb to it. Anyway I went to the same spot just to do a set and to call it a day as to not stop the momentum. Anyways I walk across and I see this girl eyeing me. Now I have had this happen to me before when I had a girl constantly eyeing me and asked and someone told me it's a sign. So I checked her again to make sure I wasn't imaging this and we locked eyes at least a couple times more. Now this girl was beautiful and thicc and my type so I was very nervous. I almost didnt approach especially that there were alot of people still around. Luckily the bus came and alot of them left however there was still like 3 people right next to her. The thought of them hearing me try to talk to her and her brushing me was fucking with my head. At this point I said to myself no that's perfect. Let them see u crash and burn u will realize it's no that bad. So I went over there expecting it to be "i have a bf" or just plain rude. Complete opposite happens.

Me : hey I saw you over there and u looked very elegant with your hair. ( The wind kept on pushing it in the front of her face and she kept moving it but with that twist of the head shit u see in movies). Her: smiles really hard and says thanks ..... Interaction interaction ..stuff about if she's is from around here...stuff about how she looks latina...she tells me she got Russian before but never latina. I ask for her name she asks for mine. She asks if I am around here as well.....she kept convo going when I had nothing to say ( wow ). And so get this near the end she asks me for my snap. She ask me for mine. I said sure and give it to her although I think I could have definitely have taken her number. I snap her today some shit about the interaction"is this elegant and grateful with her hair girl ? Still pending though.

I am then please with this and I say I can stop today. It's about quality not quantity and I didn't want put my mood down. So I get a bit high with my boy and the chilling comes to and end and I go to the park alone. I start blasting my music lay on a hill and just chill in the grass. I get up to stretch a bit and I see this cute girl at the bott of the hill. And guess what she's doing ? Smoking. Now I don't know if it's weed or just cigarette. Again I hesitate about going up to talk. Why ? Because I beleived it's completely fine if she smoking a joint to approach but not cigarettes. ofc this is complete bullshit not to approach and I even tell myself 1 interaction is good if it's a sucess. Again I man up though and go in telling myself that who TF cares what she smoking. Find out later lol. Again indirect opening like sorry are you also smoking a Jay? She says yes and laughs. And I take it from there. I talk for a bit while I am standing up and then Halfway I ask if I can just lay down here and chill Abit . She says yes. We start talking about weed Abit about music. I discover she is a fan of one of my favourite musicians. She is also blond which is what I normally go crazy for. She was wearing flip flop so I tease about it and she looks very comfortable. The convo goes to " yeah I come here to the park most times. I ask her if she is any good at basketball and she asks me if I want the long or short story. I said how long is the long story. Don't remember what she said but I choose it anyways lol. She goes on for like 15 min. We talk for like another 30 min about school. I say I study abroad and she is visibly impressed. She then asks what I study I say wtv I study again she is kinda impressed. Here I forgot to ask what she study but asks where . Anyways she stands up and she is preparing to leave and I can feel that she wants me to ask for something cuz she stands there and says we'll I need to go but lingers a bit. So I ask her for snap again and she givee it to me. Again convo was flowing it was super easy. The weed definitely made me smoother but those first few instances were still anxious filled. Will text her tomorrow.

Here is what I learn that eye contact is she does it a couple times and like u really lock eyes then she is most probably down and will make it easier for u. What I learned from the last set today was to still go in if u want to even if there is no eye contact cuz maybe her back is to you ( like she was today ) or she didn't see u correctly or yet. And most importantly is to keep doing it daily. Even when u feel like shit from the day before or from previous "rejection" I wrote most this when I was still Abit buzzed lol. So sorry if alot of it still doesn't make perfect sense I am correcting it as we go

Update : I am actually not sure if the first girl will reply although she seemed super interested and she is the one who asked for the my snap first. I snapped her later that day but like very late. The snap still says pending. Don't know if she actually is busy or of she lost interest at this point. Maybe I should have sent at least a quick text right there and then. Oh welI . I also just snapped the second one but I know she is at work now so I am expecting a reply at 3-4 cuz that's when work is usually done. Will keep you guys updated if any of them replies lol