Ok, so I've been reading tons, every were for a while now, about game, seduction, approaching. I really wanted to work on myself in that aspect. It started small, first learning eye contact, then openers (don't practice any, just open with anything) So, I started going out more but chickened out way too many times, what I actually was doing was always making excuses. Last week, I missed a couple perfect opportunitys because my my mind always goes into makingexcuses mode and makes it seem way to inappropriate or not a good situation when it's perfectly fine. I got pissed and decided fuck it, next time, it's going down.   So this week, I went to the mall, I was leaning on some table thingy waiting for the movie to start, pretty girl next to me.

I open: Excuse me, do you speak English (not living in theUS) Her: yes. Me: well then, you have really pretty eyes. Her: smiles/blushing Thank you! Me: ask name Her: gives name.

Now after this, I tottaly just fucked it up. She was smiling and receptive the entire time, but it ended basiclly with me asking her to go check out the movies and her staying she was waiting for her friend, Whom she made plans with to watch the movie, The I left. 😂😂😂.

No kidding, I am a 100% sure that if I played it differently I could have had a date with her next week. Everything I learned just went out the window when I started talking. It felt worse than not approaching pretty girl from last week. But I think that the reason it felt worse was because there wasn't much to feel bad about last week, since, I didn't approach. What I instantly figured out after the approach was that you can never get good if you don't do it frequently.

Experience = Getting Good.

Now I know this was only my first time and I'm no Pickup guru, but.

Things I noticed that could really make a difference is just taking a deep breath before you open, remind Yourself to have a good facial expression, hold eye contact and be calm. Being calm is the single most important thing in my opinion, if you are calm and treat it likes it's no big deal (it really isn't, talking to a stranger who happens to be of them opposite sex.) then you will have space in your brain to keep you going well rather than getting sucked into it and losing any idea of what you are doing.