Hello, I (27 M) am just coming home from my first ever date.

I will not bore you with the reasons I’ve waited so long to have one, but for the sake of context I will share that I am your typical virgin, low self esteem, and “nice guy”.

I met this girl on Wednesday at a club. We hit it off. I got her social media. She is gorgeous, successful, and very active. I felt I was in the twilight zone when she agreed to go out with me tonight.

Went out dancing again tonight. We walked in together. I paid the cover. We hung out all night. She needed to go. Parted ways in a friendly manner. My nerves were absolutely killing me. I did not feel comfortable at all. I didn’t know what to do, and just felt overwhelmed with anxiety. She was very kind and filled any silence. I wasn’t feeling a spark just a lot of politeness.

The moment she left I felt better. Actually stayed and danced for a few more hours. Don’t know if I friendzoned myself. I don’t think there will be a second date. Not just because she may not want to, but because I don’t think I want to put myself through that again. Granted, a club is a terrible place to have a conversation. Can’t hear what is going on.

Advise is welcome, as well as constructive criticism. TIA