First date ideas

RedZeroWolf · 2012-09-03T21:29:05+00:00

You can go two routes here, a regular date (dinner and movie) is always an option. May seem boring but if the company and conversation are good it won't matter. A city attraction/event date, wherever you live there's undoubtedly things unique to the city (i.e famous landmark, festivals, circus, zip-lining, etc). That's more circumstantial and you'd know best of all what place might be the most interesting/romantic.

Oh incidentally this coming friday is First Friday for September. Maybe something to look into.

Good luck!

CougHandz · 2012-09-03T22:31:13+00:00

If you can ice skate, then go ice skating. It would be ideal to do something that gives you an opportunity to become physical with each other as well as be able to socialize. You can't socialize at a movie. So I would go with ice skating, mini golf/driving range, aquarium, or museums. Best of luck, bro!

RhinoFeeder · 2012-09-03T23:16:30+00:00

At your age, girls can be a bit weird about hanging out alone after just meeting at first. Not sure how anyone else here at seddit feels, but on a first date I try and get some friends involved, and for a number of reasons.

1.) It eases the tension; both of you get to feel a little more comfortable because you're around your friends too. 2.) You are demonstrating value by showing that you have other guy friends and have a good time with them regularly. 3.) You want to know if she has friends. THIS IS VERY IMPORTANT TO ME. I once was talking to a girl who time after time after time could not find any friends to go out with me and my buddies. Turns out she was a giant bitch and nobody wanted to be friends with her. To put it short, if a girl doesn't have any other friends there's usually a good reason. I'm talking female friends too, all girls with any sort of attractive qualities have tons of guy "friends."

This can be an activity such as going to see a movie, going out to a nice, casual restaurant, or finding a concert to attend.

Best of luck!

haloll · 2012-09-04T00:31:25+00:00

Saved this thread from ask reddit: First Date Ideas

stunspore · 2012-09-04T00:37:04+00:00

a bookstore or even a library. things are 100 times funnier when you have to be quiet lol

TheIslander829 · 2012-09-04T01:07:12+00:00

What do you want with this girl?

Do you plan on having sex with her in the near future? Or is sex not an issue with you and you can live with fucking her next month instead of next week?

Based on your answer I'll tell you what to do.

Title	First date ideas
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Date	September 3, 2012 7:33 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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