This is for people like me, I used to be less than a beta male. I was obeing to everyone and the word ''no'' was not part of my vocabulary. I had like 4 friends and people used to make fun of me. I was like that 5 months ago. Then I met people, I was looking at myself and other guys. I was like '' What i'm doing with my life'' and then this hit me. I was a shitty guy with no confidence and I was barely talking to new people. I thought of myself that I was ugly. I said to myself no way you're gonna continue like that. I started to go to the gym. I started to talk to random dude in the gym, on the street, at my college. I started to talk to girl. I was pretty bad. When there was this girl, my anxiety start and said no. I got myself an haircut and I was looking to dress better. Let's fastfoward to today. Today, I was alone for Valentine. But I was starting to talk to this girl I barely knew from high school. She had a boyfriend 'til one month ago. I started to know my shit. I wanted to invit her to do something tonight, but didn't ask, only ask for her number. Here is my advice to begin with girl :

  1. Know the difference between friend fun and flirting, this will help you not getting friendzone.
  2. Know how to smile in a flirty with with her
  3. Be more alpha, even it's not a big alpha male, be more alpha. Prove the others that you can be alpha and not a slave to everyone.

I know, I'm not the master of seduction, but I'm starting to do pretty well. Got some numbers, and tonight I have the first date of my life in 30 mins. For the one who are better than me, here's the conversation that I got. Since I know her a bit, she knew I was a bit a beta.

Me : Hey

Her : Hey !

Me : How is it going ?

Her : Fine and you !? :)

Me : Good thanks !

Me : What are your plans for tonight ?

Her : Studying :(

Me : You could put away your books for tonight and we could meet at place that we can talk and have some fun ?

Her : Is it Niashiby that he is talking to me ? ( Yup, this is the place that you can say I was not an alpha)

Me : Yes.

Her : hahahahaha. Am I your last pick for a valentine night ? :P Me : I already ask to another girl, but I said, with not with ''Her'' she's is nice and seems to be an someone interresting.

Her : I have a lot of homework, but if we can do something when I'm done.

Me : That sounds nice to me.

Now, I'm waiting to meet her at her place. Hope I'll doing fine, since it's my first date.

And guys who are telling themselves : ''That can't happen to me'' Well, have some nice time being alone or try to change what is wrong. For me, it's was my high school friend, for you it can be something else.

Have fun!