First introductions from big men.

Psych40 · 2014-08-28T08:59:28+00:00

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ThrowawayPUA · 2014-08-28T03:45:13+00:00

LOL I'm 6'2" and I have had some short girlfriends, like the 4'9" ex-gymnast.

There are some conventional ideas about body language, like you shouldn't bend over to talk to someone shorter, it can seem like you're getting in their face. Try to be more casual, try to lean back instead of into people.

jgarcia28 · 2014-08-28T03:44:37+00:00

Don't worry about it. A lot of men would kill for your size and stature. Plus the "intimidating" comments aren't necessarily bad, I would dare say that this is a sign of attraction and respect as a higher value male. I've been a big dude all my life and have had similar struggles, but let me tell you from experience, that once you feel comfortable in your skin, their is nothing that can stop you! You sound like you got a great head on your shoulder, keep up the hard work and interesting lifestyle and you'll be just fine homie.

P.S. Sorry for any spelling or grammar errors, I'm writing this in a rush. Hope this helps!

joshsway · 2014-08-28T12:37:33+00:00

Here we go again, guys bitching about having one of the most attractive traits to women out there (height). You have nothing to worry about, all the things you describe are to your advantage, including with smaller girls. As MetaWiz said, if I were 6'5", dude, I wouldn't even need to own pants.

ImJustSo · 2014-08-28T15:17:31+00:00

Here's the deal, bro. They're not intimidated physically in the sense that they think you're going to drag them off to your cave. They're intimidated sexually. This intimidation is usually attraction from women, at least in my experience. I'm only 6' but I used to weigh 330lbs. I dropped over 110lbs in a year and it made noticing signs of attraction a lot easier. I went from zero attention and being completely ignored to a sense of, "Why the fuck are so many girls tense around me now?" They also flat out scream bawdy shit at me or catcall me when they're in cars. The feeling of intimidation, tension, nervousness from women is usually, "Oh fuck, oh fuck, oh fuck a hot guy! Don't fuck this up Becky! Don't fuck this up!" lol

tl;dr girls just think you're hot.

FoxSanjuro · 2014-08-29T16:24:45+00:00

I'm 6'2 225 lbs myself, I went from 180lbs-205 in the marines but I put on a bit more muscle when I got out, so I feel your pain. This is going to sound a bit weird but I do what I called canine deescalation. You turn your body away from the interest at a 90' angle but turn your head toward her. This shows you aren't a threat after the approach, it's instinctual. But once they have relaxed you want to turn your body back toward them, only after interest has been affirmed. At that point you are actually using your size to an advantage.

Phonejackinwall · 2014-08-29T18:23:21+00:00

I'm 6 foot at 196 no where near as tall as you. I have had a friend of mine say my size ( which isn't bug at all) and physique intimidates her. I was asking her why girls approach guys who aren't really fat, but not in good shape, like just skinny or average. She said some girls get intimidated by a man's size and physique because they are insecure of their own physique.

Title	First introductions from big men.
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Date	August 28, 2014 2:13 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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