Okay so it was second to last day of class, a girl that I found cute but didn’t really talk to, and at the end of class I had the opportunity to talk to her while she walking back from class. It was my shot, she was walking in front of me, so I said excuse me got her to turn around. I managed to get the words out of my mouth, “Hi, I usually don’t do this, but I just wanted to say that I think you really cute, and I’d be kicking myself if I didn’t get the chance to tell you” She loved it, she was blushing, with a huge smile across her face. She thanked me, and we walked back to our cars.
She didn’t say much and since I was nervous as fuck I just went with whatever came to my head. Didn’t really know what to say, so said “ya I was a bit nervous but I worked up the courage to tell you” I think you seem cool, you have that sort of look. I went into boring interview mode but this time kept it brief. Asked her what school she was going to, why she was taking this class, was she from around the area, etc, and got responses. Turns out she is from the area, but going back to school to Georgia. This kind of killed it for a bit because I didn’t know what to say, because i hate to game girls who are only here for a while since i'm looking for a LTR if i find the right girl.
I asked her if anyone has ever just randomly come up to her like that.
She didn’t say anything. Still had a big smile on her face though. I asked if she was excited to go back to Georgia. She said ya because she didn’t like this area because there wasn’t much to do. I told her YUP, this area sucks, but there is an event this Saturday at the park, that I’m going to and that she should come. She was going to say maybe but then realized she had a wedding that day. I told her well let me get your number and we can hang out some other time. She gave it to me, while I was calling her phone I heard rock music on the other end, so I asked her what music she liked. She said rock, so I told her that’s awesome, me too, and told her to give me a high five which she did.
Finally by our cars, I told her "hey you know I’m going to ask you to hang out with me and what she would say", she said maybe because she is kinda seeing someone. I said I was kinda seeing a few girls too, but then I told "just kidding" with a sly look on my face.
SO I have her number, what do I do now. Should I text her today? Wait and text her a few days later to hang out… Also i'll see her one more time for class tommorow. Never had that happen. How do i keep my composure. I gotta say hi, and shit right? lol
Any tips, critiques, and things i could/should have done differently or better. Anything i should do next.
for myself Basically it was a good first attempt at going direct, I need to keep practicing though. Need to be more comfortable talking about shit. Need to watch some more infield videos, etc, and read some more stuff, while practicing at the same time.
EDIT UPDATE: so i texted her, actually got a response - shes not intersted and she is seeing someone. Oh well on to the next one.
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