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[–]EST_Kuz 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Greet her with a hug. No need to bring wine/drinks unless she is coming to your place. I would just talk on her bed/couch for 5-10minutes to get more comfortable. Then I would just kiss her and start it up. Depending on the mood and how she is reacting I would stay for 10min to an hour. It’s all somewhat different from my experience and how the girl is acting or if we each had our own plans after.
[–]dailymanup 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'd go over there ready to have fun, but I'd also be fully prepared that how she acts in person may be different than how you think she will act, based on what she's said in her texts. You may think that she's dtf the minute you walk in the door. And she might be. But she also may be way more reserved than you expect.
So I'd take a two steps forward, one step back approach with your escalation and just adjust based on how she responds. Go in. Give a hug. If she's all over you, you can start feeling her up. If she gives a friendly hug but backs away, then you start chatting. When you sit on the couch, sit a little too close. Have the side of your body touching hers. Touch her leg. See what she does. You should have the confidence to escalate physically (since that seems to be the reason she invited you over), but you should also have the finesse to not just bombard her with physical contact if she seems like a slower pace would work better.
Personally I think bringing wine is a fine idea. A glass of wine always makes girls relax.
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