I have 2 major problems regarding club dancing and drinking, could you help?

Spaceman7Spiff · 2017-06-06T13:43:40+00:00

Okay here's the thing about alcohol: You absolutely do not have to learn to like it if you don't want to. However, it will make social situations more tricky because A) you won't get the liquid-courage effect, B) People may find it suspicious that you're in a bar but not drinking. And C) Taking shots with people is often seen as a sign of mutual respect or a way to bond with that person.

Dancing is 90% about getting over yourself. It has a lot more to do with not giving a shit how you look rather than having some killer moves.

As for me, I don't like clubs or dancing very much either and neither do my friends so we don't go there. We do, however like to drink (not necessarily to get shit-housed) and socialize in smaller, more relaxed bars. This is fine for me but I recognize that all the hottest girls are at the clubs and in the packed bars. It's a trade-off that I accept.

So the point is, definitely do whatever you want to do but don't expect the world to bend to your preferences.

JimmyRUDEjam · 2017-06-06T12:16:51+00:00

You do shots quickly because of how bad it is, what else in life do you put in your body so quickly because it's so bad and will fuck you up? Practically nothing. Most women in clubs are drinking liquor with so much sugar or froo added that the there's only a hint of alcohol. I'm convinced that people don't naturally like alcohol at first sip because it is a poison but society and media have conditioned us to think that it's an acquired taste. Take that as you will but if you don't like it then don't do it and don't try to acquire the taste. If you abstain from drinking while out at the club or bar you'll be better off than most people there since you'll have all your faculties and natural confidence. Don't be fooled by false confidence from alcohol. Once again, if you don't like something then don't do it and stand by that, that's being true to yourself and it will show, people like that.

Does your city offer any dance lessons? Find out. I've seen some around here specific to hip hop/club/house music that could be helpful. Again be true to yourself, perhaps you don't like the music? Try listening to the music at home and literally dance like no one is watching! The other thing is just putting yourself out there when you're out, just dance and realize most of the people who aren't completely fucked have similar thoughts. Be silly and have fun with it, make up your own dance moves, try moves you've seen on YouTube, etc...

datingcoachonwheels · 2017-06-06T17:32:40+00:00

Hey man I had the same problem with bars and clubs, so I made you a video reply: https://youtu.be/yMEJIQbSRdY

Wazzzock · 2017-06-06T13:15:50+00:00

1 no one drinks alcohol on nights out for the taste, those people are called melts

2 Who cares? if you're with your mates and your all having laugh you shouldn't give a shit how you look

souljabri557 · 2017-06-06T17:13:59+00:00

I envy you mate. I love liquor, spirits, mixed drinks. All of my friends think that it's feminine to have a gin and tonic. They're more into chugging beers which I can't stand.

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I have 2 major problems regarding club dancing and drinking, could you help?

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