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| 3 | Can someone help me break down this Tinder interaction? Girl literally tells me that she really isn't attracted to me and a few hours later we are hooking up?but being so open about it seems so surreal to me, I always feel like u cant say it outright like that, cause u get unmatched, there is lots of girls really repulsed by one night stands and they usually make it quite obvious | /r/askTRP | 11/01/20 03:04 AM |
| 1 | have your own fun and girls will join in naturally :)step 1 know how to dance good and have high selfconfidence | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 03:52 AM |
| – | player struggling with jealousyhow bro what do i have to do | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 01:23 AM |
| 1 | player struggling with jealousyits just I assume always they hook up in the meantime. Only way I cope with this shit is I just dont wanna know about it , its floating somewhere there yeah maybe she hooked up in meantime, maybe not. But when she tells it to me .. it just kills me. I cant get that guys out of my head. Like she24 slept with guy30 who approached her at the bar. Now every time I try to do something with her I just see him.. touching her, kissing her, talking shit to her making her giggle., having beard that she li… | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 01:19 AM |
| – | player struggling with jealousybut how can I change myself, to be able to cope with these situations | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 11:40 AM |
| – | player struggling with jealousywhat do u mean by letting my ego ruin it? | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Struggling with showing intent to a woman within a group of peoplewell I work as cabin crew, so basically every flight I meet new women. During flight I'd like to show intent to the girl I like but often there is someone around, and I cant be very direct I feel as I am at work and she is under pressure from other same as I am. I'd like establish a connection and make it clear that I am sexually atractted to her by the end of the flight so I can follow up with her in isolation afterwards away from others judgement and pressure | /r/seduction | 21/07/19 10:42 PM |
| 3 | I’m angry with myself for being such a blue pilled through college despite being attractive. How do I overcome this phase?5th , what different instincts? you mean attraction to status, wealth etc., I just became nihilistic and stuck at 4. hating abundant women dominated world we live in. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/19 09:36 PM |
| – | is this jealousy? why it hurts so much? how do I overcome it?it really messes me up, I was trying to overcome it, but its over me, maybe some antidepressants or something | /r/seduction | 11/03/19 03:31 PM |
| 1 | is this jealousy? why it hurts so much? how do I overcome it?it really hurts me tho, how the sexual history doesn't matter to women. They dont really care how many women the men fucked before them actually even the more the better as he is more experienced and has to be valuable as he had many women. But for men the plentyful sexual history and slutiness of women is unattractive, its repulsive. And it really hurts me how is it, how they dont feel that pain we have. When she tells me about the men she had, and who tried to pick her up and so on, for her it… | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 04:30 PM |
| – | is this jealousy? why it hurts so much? how do I overcome it?I think you should think about why it is that the amount of attention and/or sex someone else is getting affects you emotionally. Answering that question should help to be rational about that feeling and getting into a better place emotionally. First of all, are feeling insecure, envious or jealous? I think its all of that Is it that you feel you get less attention from other people than her, and the discrepancy makes you question your self worth? yes, it hurts me that women have it so easy, whi… | /r/seduction | 09/03/19 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Enough ... how do u overcome thiswhat kind, who teaches u how to dance in clubs with women... there are classes just for salsa and stuff | /r/seduction | 02/02/19 06:43 PM |
| 2 | How do u react to : "I miss you"I find that rly hurtful | /r/seduction | 24/11/18 12:18 AM |
| 1 | How to initiate, specific scenarioyep thats what Im doing now but seems like they try to avoid relationship talk at all costs whatever I try. Sometimes they eventually mention it. But it seems to be like they avoid it on purpose often. I find it very weird to ask directly. Even though they sometime ask me directly. For me its unimaginable. | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 04:20 PM |
| – | Beginner sex problemoh thank god someone, man anyway u could help me how did u improve, what do u think was the biggest issue why its like this | /r/seduction | 11/10/18 02:29 PM |
| 1 | On my way for 2nd hook upcool moves? like what? .... thanks for "relaxing" me | /r/seduction | 09/10/18 10:01 AM |
| – | She asks me to get her naked, helpidk what to text though, what she would like to receive what kind of message as reply to ... help me take it off | /r/seduction | 29/09/18 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Why am I so hypocrite?trying to comprehend this man, but its over me... | /r/seduction | 22/09/18 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Why am I so hypocrite?I dont know, I dont think so, I dont want to date that girl or have relationship with her, or her to love me. It doesnt make any sense I am such a hypocrite, Im just fcked up I guess, like I dont want women to have other men, just me ... it is not possible, but like Im deep down programmed to desire it so much or something, that it really hurts me how world is really like. Like I dont belong here ... | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 06:43 PM |
| – | Why am I so hypocrite?she's not yours, it's just your turn. I know, abundance mentality and shit. But still man why the fuck it hurts me, is it normal ? does anyone here feel the same, like literally pressure on chest and really uncomfortable and bad feeling. Maybe if I will sleep with more women it will go away. But now I feel like out of this world, it depresses me so much how much sex are women getting and how easily, we are just numbers for them when they feel like it. | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 06:28 PM |
| – | Why am I so hypocrite?seems like I dont have a choice, It just hurts. Its like when u have a break up man try to choose how u gonna respond. It comes from within u can do whatever u want the pain is there. | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 06:20 PM |
| – | Why women ask whether we masturbate? What does it mean for them?what they shit test here? What it means to her when u say yes. How would u answer | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 06:41 AM |
| 6 | I, a previously 20 year old kissless virgin, just had sex last night thanks to this subredditgood fucking job man, Im rly struggling with showing intent and taking action even if she wants me to. stuff like putting arm around her or feeling her up are still big problem for me :( | /r/seduction | 10/09/18 07:07 AM |
| – | How your (fuckboy's) bedroom looks like? Looking for inspirationlike this ? | /r/seduction | 02/09/18 05:10 PM |
| – | How your (fuckboy's) bedroom looks like? Looking for inspirationmixers? | /r/seduction | 02/09/18 05:06 PM |
| – | Looking for wingman, buddy to go out with and get better at pickup in DubaiIf I could go with friends I would not be asking for one, what community are u talking about | /r/seduction | 02/09/18 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Looking for wingman, buddy to go out with and get better at pickup in Dubailook out what do u mean? | /r/seduction | 01/09/18 04:23 PM |
| – | Looking for wingman, buddy to go out with and get better at pickup in Dubaiwell in clubs there are mostly expats and escort. Dubai is very hard for pickup but still if I had wingman I could try to get some experience | /r/seduction | 01/09/18 04:20 PM |
| – | Looking for wingman, buddy to go out with and get better at pickup in Dubaiwhich community u talking about bro, are u in Dubai? | /r/seduction | 01/09/18 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Looking for wingman, buddy to go out with and get better at pickup in Dubaiman it sucks big time in Dubai, in clubs u can hit on expats, local muslim girls are no go, as its basically illegal to have out of marriage interaction with women. Tinder sucks as well full of escort u can barelly find a normal girl. | /r/seduction | 01/09/18 04:18 PM |
| – | How do u cope with jealousy?I dont want to be like that though. I just want to become a fckboy. How do I get rid of that pain. | /r/seduction | 29/08/18 03:05 PM |
| 1 | One night stand 101U are right bro, but still everything is easier when u can learn from mistakes of others and their so far aquaired knowledge. If I had a friend who would be a fuckboy he could tell me how he does it. I dont, hope I can find one here | /r/seduction | 28/08/18 08:44 AM |
| – | 25V horny girl in bed, kill methank you babe, as I am so worried I studied so much already about how to please women. I just cant initiate it, Im so worried of how to kiss for first time and how to do the first move actually. We talked rly alot and I felt the connection that we were at ease as people. But I didnt do anything physical with her, didnt touch her, didnt compliment her looks as well. Basically no sexual vibe from my side. When I lay to her in bed it just doesnt feel right from nothing to just ask to give her mass… | /r/seduction | 28/08/18 08:18 AM |
| 1 | 25V horny girl in bed, kill meshit man thats horrible, she is 19 and thinks Im freakin fckboy, I cant overcome that shame man I need some drugs or get totally drunk Idk my own mind is the biggest problem. | /r/seduction | 28/08/18 07:22 AM |
| – | 25V horny girl in bed, kill meI just want to get an experience finally, so I can start having sex as normal fcking man | /r/seduction | 28/08/18 07:06 AM |
| 1 | 25V horny girl in bed, kill mehope its not too late | /r/seduction | 28/08/18 07:05 AM |
| – | 25V horny girl in bed, kill meYes I might not ever see her again. Thats what I meant with what I have to loose, but still I just cant overcome that shame in the moment she is 19 and so experienced. Just tell her that you usually don’t sleep with strangers and that you want her to guide you and tell her the stuff she likes. if that would be some girl older then me I guess that might work. She is so young though I should be leading. But I dont know how, its not coming natural to me, what to say, how to touch her etc. so its na… | /r/seduction | 28/08/18 07:00 AM |
| 1 | 25V horny girl in bed, kill meEven it same would happen and she would end up in my bed. And everything is perfect, I just cant overcome that shame, my own mind is the only problem here and I dont know how to fix it for years | /r/seduction | 28/08/18 06:44 AM |
| – | 25V horny girl in bed, kill mehow do I overcome it, its over me as u can see. Everything is perfect, just my own mind is my biggest enemy I cant control. | /r/seduction | 28/08/18 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Where is the devil, when you need him...your perception is out man, I am 25 and Ive been reading for like 2 years the game , red pill. Maybe u find it weird or edgy. I am just being completely honest and trying to put it as clear as possible, and as mod ask me to make it a wall of text I just made it more cool so ppl actually go through it and can relate. I just seeked your opinions guys how do u perceive it , how u are different from porn actor and why and if it does anything to u seeing that girls being so joyful or its just me who … | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Where is the devil, when you need him...I wish boy | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Where is the devil, when you need him...What makes u think I dont lift I dont eat good and dont look handsome. There is no problem here. U didnt get my post and what I struggle with. Its the mindset, my mind is my biggest enemy, enslaving me and my potential Women want me, problem is in my head. I cant do what I want to do. Sidebar is worthless. Half of the links are dead. It gives knowledge about sexual market and self improvement. I need to free my mind from brainwash. | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 05:40 AM |
| 0 | Where is the devil, when you need him...as u are only one sadly making a reply with some sense. even sex iq<45 virgin morons (although the last one is why we’re here). I though TRP is about something else though this post is a desperate grab for attention with weirdness and insecurity. what do u find weird? insecure? Read the recommended material and then ask questions. I did already read this sub, u give me nothing because u are lost as well I assume | /r/askTRP | 22/08/18 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Where is the devil, when you need him...what is Lithium for ? As I said those man don't take anything and their minds are free. How did they achieved this? | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Where is the devil, when you need him...It is not necessary though, as it is better to be feared then loved. Its all just about power over people. Machiaveli | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Where is the devil, when you need him...whats wrong ? | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Where is the devil, when you need him...I was expecting this and I was considering not to include the porn part. But still I though TRP is more supporting and can share their stance on things, as there is no other place I can discuss these things that I feel. At least I tried ... | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Where is the devil, when you need him...I dont do nothing else then self-development man, it severly interfenes with my mind, as there is still so many things I want to improve, but I struggle with how to do so ... I thought TRP is more supporting, will have to fight alone then. I choose every word carefuly in post, to make things as clear as possible, even though I get just hate, it was worth the effort, at least to vent it out and make it clear for myself as well. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Where is the devil, when you need him...Whats wrong? | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 07:02 PM |
| -1 | Where is the devil, when you need him...whats wrong, whats so shocking? | /r/askTRP | 21/08/18 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Is shyness rly such a big deal? Tinder storygood reading man, I will go through it again and get back to u with some comments from me on each part as well, looking forward whats up to come. | /r/seduction | 13/08/18 11:40 AM |
| – | Lost virginity last night - Some of my reflections, guidance appreciated, or just enjoy the story.yo man, virgin as well setting up some tinder hook ups finally. Man that shit terrifies me the most that it will be visible Im virgin from how nervous I would be, and if she brings that up, oh shit. She I guess knew it anyway if she even asked, u still had to lie though. Its so fcked up we just cant admit it honestly. What would happen if u would say truth u think? How did u didnt came on the first time shit, I am actually worried it will be too fast for me | /r/seduction | 12/08/18 08:38 PM |
| – | Is shyness rly such a big deal? Tinder storyyo buddy dont forget about me with that info | /r/seduction | 12/08/18 03:01 PM |
| – | Is shyness rly such a big deal? Tinder storytrue, I didnt rly expect she would do so | /r/seduction | 11/08/18 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Is shyness rly such a big deal? Tinder storydefinitely man I am quite inexperienced and shy/diffident to be physical/sexual because of that. anything is appreciated | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 05:54 PM |
| 1 | Is shyness rly such a big deal? Tinder storythat would be allright, if she would tell me that .. but blocking me straight away for being shy . .. :( | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 05:11 PM |
| – | Is shyness rly such a big deal? Tinder storywell what else can be shyness rooted in then diffidence | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 04:57 PM |
| – | Is shyness rly such a big deal? Tinder storywhat do u mean catfish | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 04:14 PM |
| – | Is shyness rly such a big deal? Tinder storywow man, that is really fcked up I couldnt do something like that | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Is shyness rly such a big deal? Tinder storylol, u da mvp bro | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 04:08 PM |
| – | Is shyness rly such a big deal? Tinder storyshit it fckin hurts though, if she would at least justify it somehow | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 04:04 PM |
| – | Is shyness rly such a big deal? Tinder storybut blocking me straight away and unmatching as well. like 180 degree turn. | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 03:58 PM |
| – | Is shyness rly such a big deal? Tinder storyI really doubt that she was a hooker though... | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 03:56 PM |
| – | Is shyness rly such a big deal? Tinder story... | /r/seduction | 10/08/18 03:54 PM |
| – | Inexperienced 25y old venting againyo buddy, thanks for taking time to go through my post. I dont know about any trauma from past man. Its inexperience, its like I was 10 years in coma and wake up now having no experience in this matter. Started with the book already as it was recommended already in previous post, there is so much stuff I gotta read though, I will prioritize this one though if it helped u guys big time. Thanks for some much needed encouragement buddy. | /r/seduction | 09/08/18 06:07 PM |
| – | Sexual inexperience - how to push through, looking for some guidance,resources that could helpyou went rather more into detail how to attract woman, I dont struggle with that, problem is delivering on my part after attraction. I was wondering how did your first women react to u being virgin/unexperienced? did u target specificaly women that were interested in virgin? or they didnt know how they react to it ? would u recommend getting a hooker for getting initial experience ? | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 07:31 PM |
| – | Sexual inexperience - how to push through, looking for some guidance,resources that could helpwhy is he not in RSD anymore? does he has some new own YT channel now? that video is 14 years old :O | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 07:27 PM |
| – | Sexual inexperience - how to push through, looking for some guidance,resources that could helpman thats so on spot, I'm like 20 minutes in, the guy had really the exact same struggle and he is a PUA, gotta check this guy out man, shit I hope he can help | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 06:40 PM |
| – | Sexual inexperience - how to push through, looking for some guidance,resources that could helpIf a girl want to hug you but you scared that it will lead to something bad or awkward happening. I do hug them, but still very little and mostly when its socially required like woman hug all other people around me, so she hugs me as well, if it was 1 on 1 meet up it wouldn't happen, if you know what I mean, and as I wrote in my post : Some of them even asked me when leaving some place, if its fine to hug me (for goodbye)... like I hold a sign above my head AWKWARD,UNCOMFORTABLE with physicality… | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Sexual inexperience - how to push through, looking for some guidance,resources that could helphate comment, still I will respond. I tried all man, I am literaly desperate for anything that you can offer I didnt come up with solution for this . Do you think I would write second wall of text post edited and put together in like 30minutes each, without doing my searches and trying everything I could. | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 02:46 PM |
| – | Sexual inexperience - how to push through, looking for some guidance,resources that could helpwhat you need is experience true I agree go out and take baby step what you have in mind, read whole please | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Sexual inexperience - how to push through, looking for some guidance,resources that could helpSeduction means being emotionally unavailable, so you got the first part right, lol. yeah unintentional additional attraction of uninvestment from me making it more desirable, and I still have 0 results You are quiet, unlike the other guys. Different. Attractive because of that. Just be yourself man, I wish man, being different is not good. Being attractive in different way is good. there is nothing attractive on being socially unapprochable. but be a self who takes what you want. All the blowjo… | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Sexual inexperience - how to push through, looking for some guidance,resources that could help2 weeks 2 years bro Expects instant results. I expect any results. I am still at 0. Baby steps. It'll take you at least a YEAR to get some decent results. Any small win should excite you. Seriously. You're starting from the bottom of the bottom. I just need some pussy experience finally man. This shit is hindering my life - my confidence, my motivation, my whole life outlook, swallowing the pill 2 years back and walking around as enlightened virgin, seeing in what unbelievable shit hole I am as … | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 02:31 PM |
| – | Sexual inexperience - how to push through, looking for some guidance,resources that could helpIt sounds like your holding back because your either scared of rejection not that much as I didnt rly hit on women ever. or afraid of what might happen afterwards. true thats what I was trying to convey in the post You are overthinking everything when it comes to woman. Don't think so much and just do it. If a woman asks you out. thats true and thats as well what I mentioned, I get asked out by women in my social circle which I dont want to creep out as explained, and I struggle to hit on strang… | /r/seduction | 20/07/18 02:21 PM |
| – | The best way to get the girl you're thinking about RIGHT NOWeveryone just says TAKE MASSIVE ACTION no matter what. But what jf I am not in stage to take action, not that socially savvy, in good fitness level, lacking confidence. I believe I should rather first develop the skills and body which will boost my confidence then to go out take action "unprepared" like this among all those already skillful, experienced, shredded abundant guys. | /r/seduction | 08/07/18 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Redpill in a nutshelljust found one of my old comments " 50 shades of gray is like bible for most young women, they dream of "mr. incredible", many have rape fantasies and in society of male sexuality being pushed down and demonized,masturbation is being shamed and you should be hiding your desires while women sexuality is worshiped, masturbation is normal and sexual intent is desired from u. welcome to the power imbalance world ;) and women are in charge....I guess thats why women are like that today they have thes… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/18 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Is my hobby gay?well to be only one honest here I guess, it definitely doesnt increase your smv, its perceived feminine job for sure and your smv would be different if u did kickbox instead for example. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 05:56 PM |
| – | How some men are able to do crazy shit to women?I agree, but I feel so beta in this like I wouldnt have the balls to be so dominant leading and doing whatever I like currently without experience. I am just wondering if there is something else behind this indifference or its just based on abundance and experience. | /r/seduction | 05/08/17 07:39 PM |
| 0 | Why is sex so important?nice | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/17 07:51 AM |
| – | Getting confused, not sure if she is interested. HELPman when you read it already post something sensible... | /r/askTRP | 21/06/17 11:36 AM |
| – | Moving things forward [M23] with roommate [F30+]yep thats obvious one. But still this is the only thing that really made me doubt my belief. How many 30+ years old hot chicks are looking for young guys to live with ? There were like 30+ at least comments on facebook on her offer from women, men etc... I am just wondering if she changed her mind because I am not experienced or she was not interested in the first place that I find hard to believe. I am afraid I dissapointed her with my inexperience. | /r/seduction | 21/06/17 11:33 AM |
| – | Moving things forward [M23] with roommate [F30+]its rather flatmate, then roommate. I don't know man, I often felt like she wanted me to make a move or that rather she expected I would be sort of starboy from her comments or her behaviour. I feel like she would like to hang out with me, but she doesn't want to initiate(as man should do it) or is shy to initiate anything, but she is often making comments like she would like to join me sometime on activities I am doing or that she would like to take me for a drink some time that I said I didn't… | /r/seduction | 21/06/17 10:39 AM |
| 0 | If You Don't Feel Like Going to the Gym Today then Just Think of John.don't compare yourself to other people, if John would jump out of the window would you as well? Do what you like people. OP because you go to the gym 4-5 times a week it doesn't mean that this is the right thing to do for everyone | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/17 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Approached 2000 Girls but still not getting good resultsyou know where you are going to fck up and still do it, come on man | /r/seduction | 14/06/17 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Approached 2000 Girls but still not getting good resultsamen | /r/seduction | 14/06/17 11:33 AM |
| – | Approached 2000 Girls but still not getting good results2000 approaches and you've been able to get 3 women, holy shit ... thats harsh. Is this like a special snowflake kind of thing, or all of you guys here are in this numbers? | /r/seduction | 14/06/17 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Mindsets to help you eliminate approach anxietyYep makes sense that way, so basically outcome independence while approaching. | /r/seduction | 13/06/17 04:15 PM |
| – | Mindsets to help you eliminate approach anxietynice reading, but you are confronting yourself sometimes: By being honest and not creepy, I am already in the top 1% of guys who try to talk to them. I also bring value. I am funny, I am smart, I treat women with respect, I am interesting, I am empathetic, I listen well, I am calm, I set the tone of the conversation, I am friendly, I am funny, and I will disappear if she doesn’t want me there. What’s not to like? .... When I approach a random woman, I am not confident that she will like me becau… | /r/seduction | 13/06/17 02:57 PM |
| -3 | Have to call her everydayshe wants to talk to me ... And you want to cum on her forehead. Guess.you both don't get what you want then. Fair. equal rights yep- cum on forehead and talk literally the same xD | /r/askTRP | 07/06/17 11:09 AM |
| 1 | I have 2 major problems regarding club dancing and drinking, could you help?not so different I guess then, gin and tonic is feminine, then what is drinking sprite or wine? :D | /r/seduction | 06/06/17 07:06 PM |
| 1 | I have 2 major problems regarding club dancing and drinking, could you help?quite mean, but I agree in almost everything actually, holy shit people who are you ... so insightful b..but is not easy. This is the mental feedback loop you need to stop. Okay but it is true, when you are experienced you are confident, if you dont have experience you are not confident... that's how it works ... practice make perfect ... I am trying to avoid practice in club and do the homework You're worried you're gonna dance like a retard and everyone is gonna laugh at you. that's right, I w… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/17 06:47 PM |
| 1 | I have 2 major problems regarding club dancing and drinking, could you help?holy shit man, thank you. The things about the club though is that women go there with intention to get hit on or at least most of them, so they look amazing and they are open to being taken home with ya. But during day game, they might have boyfriends, there might be lots of people around like in public transportation, you cant take them home with you... | /r/seduction | 06/06/17 05:52 PM |
| -1 | I have 2 major problems regarding club dancing and drinking, could you help?wow so thats really surprising for me how many people agree with this, I though best girls are in clubs ... seems like opposite, wtf 2nd red pill xD | /r/askTRP | 06/06/17 05:07 PM |
| 1 | I have 2 major problems regarding club dancing and drinking, could you help?#1 lots of you guys are looking at it as an advantage, that's great. I would love not to drink, I just wanted because of the pressure, everyone orders coctails, and me " 1 sprite please..." okay I dont have problem to drink a beer or wine so it is managable somehow, but I felt like missing out always that everyone enjoys the spirits, in the movies u see guys sipping whiskey etc when there are just guys around, I felt like there is something wrong with me that I don't enjoy it. 2 yep many guys re… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/17 04:54 PM |
| 1 | I have 2 major problems regarding club dancing and drinking, could you help?which are? | /r/askTRP | 06/06/17 03:10 PM |
| 1 | I have 2 major problems regarding club dancing and drinking, could you help?I had cranberry, and I could definitely taste the vodka man :D cranberry taste was not even sweet or anything, | /r/askTRP | 06/06/17 03:07 PM |
| 2 | I have 2 major problems regarding club dancing and drinking, could you help?Plenty of women want you to approach them thats the spirit :) | /r/askTRP | 06/06/17 02:56 PM |
| 1 | I have 2 major problems regarding club dancing and drinking, could you help?so where can you meet high quality women who are not alcoholics ... ? | /r/askTRP | 06/06/17 02:10 PM |
| 0 | I have 2 major problems regarding club dancing and drinking, could you help?hold breath while drinking alc hmm will try this one, and biting lime is just with tequila I believe, taking a bite after vodka or something would be faux pas I guess | /r/askTRP | 06/06/17 02:04 PM |
| 1 | I have 2 major problems regarding club dancing and drinking, could you help?definitely do whatever you want to do but don't expect the world to bend to your preferences. ... It has a lot more to do with not giving a shit how you look rather than having some killer moves. great gotta work on self esteem then, hopefully it will get better | /r/seduction | 06/06/17 02:02 PM |
| 1 | I have 2 major problems regarding club dancing and drinking, could you help?Maybe she was more embarrassed that you didn't make a move rather than how much you drank? You don't know what she was thinking because for one you didn't ask using touch or escalation and two if you wanted her you didn't make that obvious. you are right in all, but I just wanted to show how some girl is shaming me for not drinking (but yea she was bitter about me not making a move), this happened to me more times though with guys saying that as well ... idk this is fucked up country, you are ge… | /r/seduction | 06/06/17 12:56 PM |
| 1 | I have 2 major problems regarding club dancing and drinking, could you help?can you be more specific buddy, I am still rookie here... | /r/askTRP | 06/06/17 12:48 PM |
| 3 | I have 2 major problems regarding club dancing and drinking, could you help?thank you for honesty buddy. I don't drink spirits at all, but in my country it is like you are some outcast if you don't, multiple people even said to me literally "you don't know how to drink" ... I have no clue, why probably because I don't get fcked up or drink just few shots tops. Even once I was drinking with a girl which had crush on me and a friend at my flat, I was just drinking for the mood(2-3 dcl i guess, I was not even drunk just mood), next day she said I cant drink ... like idk ..… | /r/seduction | 06/06/17 12:32 PM |
| 1 | I have 2 major problems regarding club dancing and drinking, could you help?will do, thank you ... I was just hoping for some quick fix mostly on the alcohol taste, so it just takes time I guess... | /r/askTRP | 06/06/17 12:18 PM |
| 1 | I have 2 major problems regarding club dancing and drinking, could you help?tbh idc what others think when Im dancing, why should I? Get more confident. I know buddy, but it is not so easy, confidence come from experience. I wanted to go to a meetup this week, but when I checked the place, its is basically people drinking while standing and dancing... And I would feel very rookie or beta or out of place, by drinking wine or beer or something easy, it seems to me like women admire when man can handle alcohol. My flatmate 30+, was so surprised that I don't drink alcohol a… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/17 11:43 AM |
| 1 | I have 2 major problems regarding club dancing and drinking, could you help?You get used to the taste. okay, that would make sense, how long does it take to enjoy it actually from first try, do you even literally enjoy it being honest ... and yep some are more bitter some less, but seems to me like guys don't care, if it is alcohol they don't mind drinking it ... synching whatever you feel like with the beat this one, yea I see the point, but are there actually some moves you can learn which are suitable for many songs, or suitable to dance with a woman, do you just pra… | /r/askTRP | 06/06/17 11:28 AM |
| -2 | I have 2 major problems regarding club dancing and drinking, could you help?how so? I'm watching photos from those places, those women are fckin hot | /r/askTRP | 06/06/17 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Going Solo is NOT an Impedimentwhat are you doing there then alone, looking into smartphone or joining strangers? they might not be interested though ... | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/17 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Is it even possible to overcome history of being a loser socially?I understand, its not easy wearing these shoes | /r/askTRP | 02/06/17 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Is it even possible to overcome history of being a loser socially?not sure though if this would in any way fix my problems, as nothing would change like yea I am not a virgin anymore, but if someone asks about the experience ... loser again ... and social life still fucked up without any change... | /r/askTRP | 02/06/17 12:45 PM |
| 1 | Is it even possible to overcome history of being a loser socially?I was considering this already, I guess there is no other way to get experience, but to loose virginity for money man that would break me for life I guess... | /r/askTRP | 02/06/17 12:39 PM |
| – | Is it even possible to overcome history of being a loser socially?yea, but how they fucked you over? what's different? | /r/seduction | 02/06/17 12:38 PM |
| – | Is it even possible to overcome history of being a loser socially?what do you mean ? | /r/seduction | 02/06/17 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Is it even possible to overcome history of being a loser socially?yea I see what you gotta do, to past the shit test, but initially it is problem, if you had women before, it is just fun and jokes, like "i never touched a boob before" .... but if you really have no experience, faking won't help me as she will for sure find out eventually that I have no experience when I am with her. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/17 12:28 PM |
| 2 | Is it even possible to overcome history of being a loser socially?i just did actually, I can look ahead and never turn back, but I can't run away from it or hide it, new people you meet want to get to know you, they are wondering why you never bring your friends around, why there is no one liking your facebook posts, and who wants to be friend with someone who has no friends he must be somehow fucked up... I just moved to a new city so I can at least use this as an excuse, new in city, don't know people here, but still people wonder why would you move to new c… | /r/askTRP | 02/06/17 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Is it even possible to overcome history of being a loser socially?They probably don't care that you can't escalate with women. guys who had not had a woman don't care, maybe it is different in your country, but guys who had in my care a lot, and if they find out or even just assume you haven't had a woman before, you are loser in their eyes basically, and you are automatically going down in hierarchy among group ofc..., maybe I am just lucky for such guys, but I doubt that.. If I approach and I was with, or later saw someone I know, who saw that, two things of… | /r/askTRP | 02/06/17 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Is it even possible to overcome history of being a loser socially?I believe I need to get my social life together first ... as a social outcast, I can pass those tests just by pretending to be someone else or deceiving women, I would rather not become that guy... problem is how I am able to get my social life together in the first place in the fcked up situation I am in, is it even possible... lets say past decade of history labeling you as a social loser, normal guys who had women don't want to be friends with you, and normal experienced women would find it w… | /r/askTRP | 02/06/17 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Is it even possible to overcome history of being a loser socially?I can look ahead and never turn back, but I can't run away from it or hide it, new people you meet want to get to know you, they are wondering why you never bring your friends around, why there is no one liking your facebook posts, and who wants to be friend with someone who has no friends he must be somehow fucked up... I just moved to a new city so I can at least use this as an excuse, new in city, don't know people here, but still people wonder why would you move to new city without knowing a… | /r/askTRP | 02/06/17 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Is it even possible to overcome history of being a loser socially?this? lack of experience with women, lack of social life and normal friends ( just pseudo-friends I am in contact with just because I would be totally alone otherwise). I don't know if there is something wrong with me that I can't have normal buddies in my life. I always end up with losers, the alfas or normal guys consider me a failure or loser due to my inexperience, and they don't seek my company. And I understand them, who would want to drag some "social outcast" with him to even lower your … | /r/askTRP | 02/06/17 11:06 AM |
| 2 | The Core of Attractionokay, this is the best post I saw on this sub so far and I am lurking here for quite some time already. | /r/seduction | 30/05/17 08:52 AM |
| 1 | [30 day challenge] day 0wow nice comment | /r/seduction | 23/05/17 12:19 PM |
| – | Sedditors on what activities do you spend majority of your free time?depends how much time u spend on it, I would say. If u listed just it I considered it as your major hobby and spending most of the time alone writing is pretty introverted. What else do u enjoy doing? | /r/seduction | 02/04/17 01:33 PM |
| – | Sedditors on what activities do you spend majority of your free time?I see, surfing is fun daily, but those gym walls u have to know already 200% when u are there so much, didn't it get boring? same with taking pictures I would understand taking pictures when u go to some new places, but in usual daily routine, I would not have new stuff or ideas to take pictures of, after lets say a month. Guitar u mean like learning new songs, or just playing for yourself? It would get boring for me very fast to play guitar for myself... Dont take me wrong I am just looking for… | /r/seduction | 02/04/17 01:30 PM |
| – | Sedditors on what activities do you spend majority of your free time?how women perceive it ? it so introverted hobby | /r/seduction | 02/04/17 01:20 PM |
| – | Sedditors on what activities do you spend majority of your free time?yea man I bet surf is amazing, u dont play guitar, rock climb and take pictures majority of time I guess though, how your weekdays after work look like? | /r/seduction | 02/04/17 12:59 PM |
| – | [FR] My first ever day approachman u are pretty well prepared it seems, and you are rationalizing very well, good luck on next one | /r/seduction | 04/02/17 10:48 PM |
| – | You see a girl you find attractive...Like public humiliation? Anyone? | /r/seduction | 15/12/16 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Being seduced and getting obvious clues, how to move from here?I guess it is because I am not showing them any clues at all. Not that I wouldnt want to, but I cant as explained above. Basically I am just like their perfect friend, laugh with them, smile with them... they still want more though and I seem really open to them so they try they moves, this is where I fck up. | /r/seduction | 21/08/16 10:22 AM |
| – | Being seduced and getting obvious clues, how to move from here?sorry for such delayed answer. I am reading everywhere that women look for confidence in man and I believe in this. I am not sure if making myself more vulnerable and less in control is going to work, that might be rather a turn off dont u think? | /r/seduction | 21/08/16 10:11 AM |
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