I work as cabin crew. I meet new women each flight. That I am not gonna ever see again, if I dont do anything about it.

Lets say I find one of them attractive, its work environment. Firstly how do I find out whether she has a boyfriend? Without asking directly?

If she doesnt have how do I show intent? Sometimes the supervisor is really hot. Is that unacceptable to try something as subordinate? I dont want to get into any trouble.

I often just reach out to them by whatsapp but I find it rly cowardish, low selfconfident and weak that I am unable to initiate anything in person and just text them.

It just kills me inside that I dont know how to reach out them in terms of showing intent and trying something. And get rly depressed and selfhate afterwards