F'n Oneitis

RandianHero · 2014-03-29T02:35:21+00:00

I'm not really seeing the problem. You're having sex with her regularly and you're still seeing other people. There's nothing wrong with having a favorite. I can tell that you're a guy who's used to getting what he wants when he sets his mind to it, so the fact that this girl is sexually liberated and independent is like some wonderful new drug to you. But I guarantee that if you tied that down, you'd get sick of it sooner or later. It's the scarcity and unattainable quality of it that's endearing to you.

Relax, man. I say ride it out until you get sick of it. You don't need exclusivity to be happy with this chick. In fact, I'm positive that if you had it, you'd stop being so into her.

brucebwang · 2014-03-29T02:14:04+00:00

Break it off if you can't control your emotions, it's pointless to continue something that can't end the way you want and at the same time interferes with you finding what you really want. Takes time to get over it but it's that way with everyone

TimPartendale · 2014-03-29T02:37:42+00:00

Your TLDR is unjustifiable, I don't think your an idiot at all. Feelings come and feelings go. I think the fact that you know a relationship is unlikely only makes letting her go more difficult than it needs to be.

As you said, she's an HB6, but an HB100000 in bed? Just tell yourself you can do better, get that HB9 in bed and work her like an animal. Besides, I heard that slightly "older" women are more experienced in that department ;) so if you like a 28-yr old then imagine a 30-something year old.

You sound pretty well off with yourself quite frankly, I wouldn't mind being in your position 15 years from now.

acratophorus · 2014-03-29T02:56:08+00:00

This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl

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Title	F'n Oneitis
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	3
Comments	6
Date	March 29, 2014 2:01 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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