I just wanted to put this out there and see what this sub thinks about my actions.

I met the girl last Saturday on the street at around 2 AM. She was exiting a club and myself and my 2 roommates were walking by, happened to see her and thought to myself "this girl is ridiculously hot". Although I didn't approach initially, she started walking in our direction to grab a cab, so the first thing I said to her was "Are you even real?", to which she replied "Ha, yeah I'm a real person". and I responded "You look like you just came out of my dreams." We talked a bit, I charmed her socks off, and could tell she was interested so as she hailed a cab, I asked her "do I get to see you again?". She's like yeah, take my number, as she told the cabbie to start the meter. This girl is pornstar hot, so I thought my approach was pretty strong. I even called her immediately after she got in the cab and chatted with her for a few minutes to ask her about herself.

I texted her the next day and didn't hear from her until Monday. I asked her what her availabilities were, she said Wed-Fri before 2 PM. I said-- okay, let's do Wednesday-- meet me at noon at X and we'll grab coffee and go for a stroll through the park.

At 11:30 on Wednesday, I texted her that I was going to be 15 min late, she replies at 11:50 with "Nooooo… I just woke up". She asked for a rain check. This was irritating, but I decided that I would give her a second chance-- I said "Raincheck? Hmm that depends. I will agree to meet you again if you agree to wake up this time". Then I asked when she was thinking, she replied Thursday or Friday. I said-- I can't on Friday, so tomorrow it is. She replies, alright, tomorrow works. I said, let's keep the plan the same-- noon at X.

And I felt even more like an idiot when on Thursday I text her again that I'm running a tad late, and at 12:10 she texts me "Oh, we were supposed to meet today?". I told her that either she meets me today or I'll never see her again because I don't tolerate no-shows.

Overall, the only thing I think I'm doing wrong is over-thinking this bullshit. She clearly wasn't hooked or interested enough to meet me (Brad Pitt test). My roommate (who games with me) suggested that I was too harsh to let her go and that I should keep trying-- I disagreed, because I felt as though she didn't respect my time and does not deserve my attention. Thoughts here?