Hi Seddit!

So I'm over halfway through my 7 day AFC Challenge that I set for myself this week and I thought I'd do an update. So here it goes.

Overall my confidence is through the roof. I'm talking to my friends and acquaintances more, and I feel much more confident in group settings. I've been making a point of improving my eye contact, so I've been looking people in the eyes much more as I talk to them, as well as looking strangers in the eyes as I pass them on the street. This just makes me feel like a boss and I own everyone I talk to. It's done wonders for my confidence.

I've been working on initiating conversations with strangers more, although I still have room for improvement. Had several conversations with people on the street and in stores this week which has helped me with some of my AA.

Highlight of the Week

One notable achievement for me was yesterday when I chatted up a girl [HB7] that I knew at a bar for one of my sports club's socials. I was sitting next to her, but talking to someone on her other side. For some reason the word clandestine came up and no one else knew what it was, but she laughed for some reason. I explained the meaning of the word and she admitted she just laughed cause she thought I was making a joke. I turned this around on her and said something along the lines of "Now I don't know if I'm being funny or you're just being polite!" After I said this she got all defensive and displayed some strong IOI's. Continued chatting her up for a lot of the night. (Full disclosure, she was quite drunk and is a very flirty person)

So we went to the club with a few other friends. HB7 and I got in first and we started dancing right away. SHE WAS ALL OVER ME!!! I was playing it cool, grinding then pushing her away, then bringing her in again. At one point I'm pretty sure she was clawing at my pants. Was going to K-close, but then everyone else came in and she got distracted. After we were dancing in a group she drunkenly jumped (almost literally) on the hottest guy in the vicinity and started making out with him. Lesson learned: close as soon as you have the opportunity.

I'd like to think that caused me to be out of state for the rest of the night, but I also think I still have some severe AA when it comes to clubs. I only talked to one other girl there [HB5] and the rest of the night just kinda hung out with my friends. I keep telling myself just to go up to people, but I always psych myself out. Gonna keep trying though.

SUMMARY

Making good progress. Attractiveness up. Confidence WAY up. Going to a sports tournament this weekend, so I'm gonna try my luck then. Thanks for all your help! I'll continue to update with my progress!

EDIT First post is here if you're interested :)