So this is more of an observation based on multiple encounters, but I assumed that since it was based on the encounters that it might count as a FR. Correct me if I'm wrong!

Anyhow, throughout most of my childhood and adolescence I've been pretty damn ugly. Until the end of middle school I was obese, though I reduced it to simply being overweight (it was much more than baby weight. I was a FAT mofo!). At the start of high school I dieted down to being skinny-fat. I had no muscle! And worse, I'd had horrible acne since middle school. It wasn't until after freshman year of high school that I became really athletic and started correcting my acne, finally becoming a conventionally attractive male.

You know what happened as a result of my years of ugliness? I developed a fabulous wit and sense of humor. These helped me develop my social skills and build confidence as I became attractive. This wit and humor has been immensely helpful with women! Women seem to love a funny guy who can keep them on their toes, which a quick and witty response does quite well!

So guys! Work on that wit and humor! While being attractive helps (it's definitely helped me), with and humor can help build genuine attraction to layer on after the physical attraction, the love to the body's lust, so to speak.

Let me know what you guys think about my theory here. It's merely my personal observation, and maybe you've experienced differently, so let me know what you think and maybe share some of your own related personal experiences!