I'm really glad to have gotten my new job at a clothing store. It's a perfect demonstration of my social/seduction skills applied to the general populace. On top of that, building rapport and breaking approach anxiety is key for a customer service representative like me.

Quick note about the situation:

I'm a 5'3 (5'4 on a good day, yeah right) Asian guy with a decent face who is 19 years old. I recently started working out but results haven't exactly kicked in yet so I'm about an average build.

This girl who seems to a Chinese foreigner was slightly shorter than me and was decently attractive (binary system). I go by the binary system. She's actually like 5 years older than me, I found out later. You know what's going right for me? I asked many people and they think I'm either older or about my age. Guess confidence and good posture helps.

With this being said, today was an amazing day for me. Feeling pumped up coming straight out of a training session, I was waiting at the bus stop to ride home. I spotted this cute girl, C, wearing a maxi dress.

My AA kicked in and was making me think "heh not worth it." What if she's about to leave? The more reason to try. Worse case scenario, I'll never see her again so who cares? I'll be remembered as that weird ass stranger and I'll have an interesting story to tell.

I introduce myself by saying how cute I think she looks because of her dress. The emphasis is on saying that I find her attractive right off the bat to establish the frame that I'm interested in her.

Afterwards, we banter a bit where I joke around with her and she tells me that she's waiting for her friend who is supposed to meet up with her at the mall.

She comments that it's a bit warm. I tell her let's go in to sit at the food court and proceed to walk into the mall. I felt that I established enough rapport so that if she wasn't interested in me, she would've simply stayed there. Her deciding to following me was essentially a compliance test while being an IOI.

In the mall, I go and grab a coconut frappe (it sucked after it melted; tasted like ice for the most part). I tell her that she should try some since it was pretty good. Now, strangers are shy and I'm trying to break down that notion, especially if I want to date her. C obviously rejects my offer saying it's okay but I hold the drink and look at her in the eyes until she caves in and tries it.

Hold the line.

After I drink, I use this line on C: "Oh my god. [Wait for emphasis] We just indirectly kissed. What if I get cooties?"

From there, I turned up the heat and started flirting harder with her. I also use aggressive kino by getting closer to her. While talking, I maintain strong eye contact. I try to keep the conversations steered towards romantic undertones while also discovering what kind of person she is.

A typical qualifier I use when meeting new people is asking them what is their greatest passion. Some people do have one but are afraid to share it while others are simply boring and lack direction in life. We want to filter those people out. When she answers that she doesn't have any, I press further by repeating the same question. She eventually responds with her study of the Japanese language. Cute.

Blah blah blah. Talk some more. Time to get her number. I tell her to input it into my phone but at the same time ask her what my name is. She says she doesn't remember. I give her three chances to guess it. I warn C that if she gets it wrong, she'll owe me a wish. She rifles off random boy names. None of them were even close haha. I tease her by asking if those are all of her ex-boyfriend's names. I keep it up for a while and exaggerate it into a farce of how hurt I am that she doesn't remember the name of a guy who thinks she's cute. C spills that she doesn't have a boyfriend. Bingo. I number close her at this point.

Later, I wrap my arm around her and bring her close to my chest. I turn her cheek away from me and whisper into her ear slowly that she owes me a date. She said that me doing this move scares her. I just brush it off by saying that I'm actually a murderer who's going to bring her to a forest by herself with no cellphone or civilization nearby and that she'll be left screaming. She receives a wink from me afterwards. My arm is still around her at this point. After a while, I move it away.

We keep talking for a while and her friend eventually calls to tell her she's almost here. I asked C if her friend was cuter than her. I tell her that I might just steal her friend away but that for now, I'll make an exception for her since I find her intriguing. I forgot how I did this but we have an inside joke between us where she's secretly russian due to me joking that there's no way she's actually Chinese. (She's more asian than rice itself.) It's important to let her know I'm interested.

She receives an update from her friend that she'll be there in 10 mins. I get up to leave, while doing so I tell her that I'll be expecting to see my Russian bride this upcoming Thursday for a date. As to what we'll do, I'll let text her in on the secret near date time. That's actually to cover my ass as I find out what I'd like to do exactly haha.

I wave goodbye and onwards we go.

Key takeaways:

Approach right away Don't be afraid of displaying interest Sexualize/Romanticize your conversations Be aggressive with your kino, better to display too much than not enough To flirt effectively: "misunderstand", hyperbolize, make her the object of your conversations Be passionate, let yourself be engulfed in the moment and her presence