So, I will start off with this. I'm new at this. You can see my first post here. I was sweating over a girl at work who was out with a group of us.
Anyway, she never showed on Friday, I haven't seen/heard from her since. That being said, we did still go out on Friday to celebrate our co-worker's last day, maybe 8 of us total. Started out at the bar down the street from work we always go to, and we progressed to another about about two blocks away.
Anyway, to make a long story a bit shorter, I was just having fun with myself, talking to coworkers, being generally sociable, making witty banter, etc. It's about 9 PM and the bar I'm in starts to fill up for the night, before this there were maybe 15 people in there of which my party was 8, at around 9:30 the entire bar was full, about 50-60 people by my estimate.
Around that time, three girls approach the seats where we were sitting, it was kind of a rectangular group of seats around a coffee table kind of structure around the dance floor, and we were taking up all the seats except for one short side of the coffee table. They asked me if they could sit there, and me being slightly tipsy and oblivious, didn't know if anyone in our party had gotten up to get a drink or what-have-you, so I said no. Someone else from the other side of the table spoke up and yelled "yea those guys are gone of course you can sit there!" Boy am I sure glad he did.
The three girls were two HB8's and an HB7 who all looked fairly disinterested in the place and were keeping to themselves. I noticed the HB7 had a number of tattoos visible so I started talking to her about tattoos, made really good eye contact, smiled. She was across the table from me so I had to lean in and make her lean in close for her to hear me. A short while after discussion began the HB8's left the table, ostensibly to go dance. At this point in time there was some space on the bench next to me so the girl I was talking to got up and sat down there.
At this point I initiated the incidental kino, still talking to her about relatively mundane things. I talked to her about my tattoo and the tattos I want to get, asked her about her tattoos, pretty simple. I kept going with escalation of the kino and eventually had my arm around her back, touching her side where the skin of her mid-riff was exposed. I was looking straight into her eyes, our heads were very close to each other, and then we started making out. We made out for a long time, and after what seemed like forever, I turned around and saw my co-workers were still there, dancing on the dance floor just behind us and watching us.
Me knowing full well that my car is only two blocks away and I can definitely close this girl, I tell her we should go for a walk. The place is super crowded at this point and by the time we get to the door she tells me she left her purse on the seat, but one of my friends was outside so I told him to watch her purse, told the bouncer we would be back and left our stuff so let us in (there was a huge line at the door) and we took a walk down the street.
I asked her if she wanted to see my lab/office, thinking that the quiet setting would allow things to escalate -- that, and it'd be friggin sweet too hook up with someone after hours in my office. We walked towards the building but got caught up making out against the building for a while, in front of the door. She couldn't keep her hands off me. It was awesome. After this we decide we'd better go back and get our stuff from the bar and decide what we would do with the rest of our night. I told her my place isn't too far away, she said she doesn't do things like that -- some resistance, okay.
On the way back to the bar we bump into one of her friends who is out with a guy, she agrees to meet them up at the bar they're going to and asks me if it's okay. I say sure, why not? We get our stuff from the bar and meet up with her friend at the bar they went to. This place is a lot quieter, more mature crowd, there's a jazz band playing. Her friend's guy buys us beers and we chat a little. After a little while they get up to dance and me and her are still sitting at the table, start making out again. She asks me to dance, so we get up and dance and it was really fun, I was really getting into it.
After this, we sit back down with her friends and I'm really laying it on thick with kino. Up and down her legs and lower back, making gestures towards her inner thighs and then backing off. After a few minutes of this she asks me if I want to get going, and I say sure.
We leave the bar and she whispers "I don't want to come to your place, but it would be fine if you came to mine." Score. Then, she says "I don't have condoms, do you?" - I didn't. But we walked right by a 24 hour CVS. Score, again. I went and bought condoms, walked her to the garage, plenty of making out on the way to the car, held hands the whole way.
We drove to her house and once we got there, it was on. All night. No sleep. At 5:30 she gets up and says she needs to get ready for work, so I got up with her, she showered, I dropped her off. Before we left her house she gave me her phone and told me to put my number in it.
All in all, an awesome night. Maybe I didn't do everything perfectly, but I got an f-close and felt what it was like to do this stuff. And honestly, just learned that it's all about having fun with yourself, being confident, not giving a shit, and going with the flow. This is awesome and I look forward to writing many more of these [FR]'s as my experience increases!
Edit: Holy cow, I wasn't expecting over 100 upvotes. Thanks guys, absolutely pumping my ego here; just more motivation to make me that much more confident. I have another story to tell today, I will post another FR shortly.
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