To make a long story short, 4 years ago I started a FWB relationship with a married woman, she was great and the relationship was great.

Then after a couple of years she wanted more, and she knew all along that I could not give her more (I love my wife and I am not going to leave her). So we split up.

Six months ago she files for divorce and gets separated from her husband.

In the past couple of years we would get together here and there for some good times (movie and sex, or drinks and sex, or dinner and sex, or just straight sex).

So today out of the blue she wants to talk to me. She's thinking about going back with her husband who wants her back, and she's willing to consider it only if I am willing to be her regular FWB.

Here's the takeaway: be good at your seduction skills, always be the best you can ever be, be assertive, be confident, be a good lover, be honest about what you want from a woman and from a relationship and things will work out.