It didn't happen on purpose, I kind of stumbled upon this. It all started 5-6 years ago, at a business function I met this HB10, all the guys were - of course - all over her, I did my own thing, we introduced each other, but I downplayed the entire interaction. At the end of the day she asked me for my business card to which I reply something like Let's not, if it's destiny we'll meet again. Surely enough, since we work in the same broad industry, we crossed path again about once a month at business events, and surely enough all the guys were all over her, while I was just as friendly to her as I was with everyone else. A few months laster we connected via LinkedIn and Facebook and Twitter.

You need to understand a couple of things:

  • She is truly a HB10, she could be a model, average height, blonde, green eyes, very fit. When she enters a room everyone stops talking, and guys (and some girls) start drooling. She's smart too with a developed career in Business and a PhD. And she's about 15 years younger than I, and single.

  • Did I mention that I am married, and about 15 years older than she is?

Anyway. After about a year of this very casual meeting, she made it so that her company wanted to hire my company, so that she and I had a business meeting. We did do some business together, but that lead to she and I meeting for lunch once a week to just hang out and talk. At times we we would also meet socially in the eve, mostly with other people, business associates, her friends, or my friends; and since we are always very affectionate, people who see us interacting think that she and I are having an affair, which we don't.

She knows about my wife, she has even met my wife; and she knows about my affairs as well. And I know about her single life and her occasional boyfriends; and yes we also talk about sex and our own sexuality.

NO I have no intention whatsoever to engage in sex with her, for one I really enjoy her friendship which overlaps from business to life to sex to common interests; second she gives me social proof, we are very open with everyone that we are indeed BFF but we are not intimate at all, since it would ruin the friendship that we have.
You have no idea how many women gravitate around me because of her, it's like having a wingman even when she's not around. Women acquaintances approach me and ask me how is it possible that a man and a woman can be just friends, and my answer is always the same It's like falling in love, with worse probabilities, it's a one in a billion chances, we know it, we enjoy it, and we don't want to ruin it. We've been together for 5 years now, and going strong.

My wife knows about her, but wife doesn't know how often I see her, and the depth of our friendship, in a way I am having a platonic affair, and it feels so good.

In a couple of occasions I have introduced her to a couple of guys, and she has introduced me to 3 of her girlfriends, and I slept with one of them.

I strongly suggest that if you find a HB10 who is also very smart, save her for a social proof friendship, and investment of some sort, to attract more HB.

Just something that is working for me.

*TL;DR: Make sure you friendzone the most beautiful woman who is into you; she would serve as *Social Proof attracting other HB to you **