Friday night, my wing and I went bar hopping. The first place we went to was a bust. [Turned out to be a “gay night”]. The second place lacked females, but we did get a few opens there, and gained massive social proof. Lastly, we ended up at an Irish pub. At this place we managed a few opens, however it was very difficult for us to act as a group [due to the loud music]. We sat near a main artery of traffic in the outside patio and carried a conversation. [It was the end of the night and there was a fair amount of mixed sets]. I caught an HB7 passing by and used the “Can Ex’s be friends” opener. (my wing playing the one that just got dumped) My wing was not able to respond verbally due to the volume of the music.

She was quite interested, lots of kino [first on her part, and then we both trade off]. I used push and pull by telling her “well I feel bad for your BF.” She qualifies with “I don’t have a BF, I’m single. “ She added to the ex-gfs bit about “well the girl is probably trying to make your friend feel better, while she looks for other guys.” I replied: “You must have not had any boyfriends that are able to develop options before. You should improve your standards” [Her face lit up quite a bit here in suprise]. The conversation progresses some more, her friends [a guy, and a girl] were waiting on her on the other side of the patio. So, I wrap it up with: “Usually this is the time I would ask for your phone number, however I’ve met a lot of weird girls. [embellish some of the ‘weird girls/female stalkers’].” She qualifies [“I’m not weird like that”], and then I ask “well can I trust you?” After she does “I guess I can trust you, you seem like you might be fun to hang out with, what’s your number?” I pulled out my phone, she said “I know how to use a phone.” I texted her about 10 minutes later while she’s over with her friends “You can’t just give out your real phone number to someone you meet at a bar, that’s crazy.” [Thanks for the one that suggested that line after getting a number] Her response: “What do you mean… you think I gave you a fake number I’m not a scum bag lol..hahaha”

Granted there are gaps of the conversation that are left out, however those are pretty dry and uninteresting.

I’m looking for particular suggestions on:

  1. Should I turn her into a pivot/invite her out to the bar next Friday with the wing?
  2. Should I go for a Day 1? If so any suggestions on this? (should it be a call, or just a text [“what are you up to this week? Drinks?”])