So i love to dance its just something i picked up from high school. When i hit 21 i started going to club and havingfun dancing. The issue was i was beta as fuck and used to have huge AA so i would not approach anyone. That was a year ago. Today i came back from the club and 3 girls was trying to grind on me( seperate time) while i had my groove on. I just move away from them cause even if they were attractive i did not feel like grinding.i felt like dancing!!!. The funny thing is whenever i was near one of them girls they would slowly move to me. I ended up grinding on a totally unrelated girl. So the point im trying to make is do not try to get valadation from doing acts like kissing, grinding, sex. Have fun enjoy life, be confident, and talk to everyone. Women will follow and you will be happier for it