Tonight... was pretty fucking amazing to say the least!

compared to my last night... http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2oygk1/fr_day_24_someone_please_shoot_me/

I went to another bar I frequent... This one, I'm a local celebrity at... Everyone there knows me, the bouncers, the owner, and people their love me... I bring the party everytime, the energy, and I make everyone smile...

It was dead at first, and I was just trying to mingle. I talked to some of the staff, and anyone I already knew. I tried to just chill out. Because I was having AA. Eventually everyone I knew started rolling in and the social proof was making me feel so much more comfortable. It's so much harder to pick up girls at bars you barely frequent because of lack of social proof. But the answer is simply to approach loads of Men, build your own popularity just by being nice an in a good mood no matter what, throwing value at everyone, and you will build mad social proof and have much less AA. You'll feel like you belong there. Eventually the bar got packed.

This bar had live band karaoke. I walked in and there were 5 women at this bar all night that I was very attracted to. There were HB9, HB10, 3 HB8s.

I approached EVERY LAST ONEADEM!

Shit was awesome!

I made sure to establish social proof here to the fucking max as always... Mind you, I have been going to this same bar for a long time now. It's not some magic pill. You have to go to the bars in your area and talk to people, ESPECIALLY MEN! You need to start forming your tribe. Your tribe, IMHO is the strongest asset you got. It will make you feel safer from Fear of Death. And when 80-100% of the Venue knows you're fucking name, and knows that you're just a really nice, fun, positive, loving, cool, respectful, honest person... You become the one of the most popular person in the place...

At this bar, I have nicknames like Superman, Mista Prista, Mr. Personality, The Motherfucking Rockstar.

Looking back, i can't fucking believe what I've done and how far I've come even since before this 100 day challenge... I used to be a fucking 0. Now I'm a fucking person.

The band knows me, all the people that go every week know me...

My jealous roomate had come out with his girlfriend who he likes to constantly brag about...

He got to have a taste, of the fucking amazing person that I am...

When I approached my roomate and his girlfriend, his girlfriend looked at me and said, "So you're like a celebrity here."

"Well... Sorta... I don't like to brag, but yes."

She laughed.

All night I was gaming all these fucking girls. And I was reading their body language as well as my own and how I was modifying it throughout the night.

These are the scenarios I observed...

HB10 came out with a guy she just started seeing. This guy is a friend of mine, I like him, he's a fun guy.

HB9 came out with a guy she may have been just fooling around with for just the night. I'll get into that later.

The HB8s came with girlfriends, looking to possibly flirt as evident by their provocative dresses.

I approached the HB8s, but something wasn't on with me. The night was still early...

I noticed, tonight, often, the women would initiate Kino with me... Like, all the time...

With the HB8s, I approached them, and I didn't initiate Kino or even be flirty in anyway. I was actually just trying to be chill and in a good mood. I didn't do any rapid escalation. I wanted to first understand their scenario. When I approached them I used a situational opener often. "Are you singing tonight?" It was a great way to break the ice at karaoke, and I often use this line. It takes the attention off the obvious that we're in a mating zone and sex is on everyone's mind, and it makes us conscious egotistical humans feel less tense....

So, it never really moved too far with 2 of the HB8s. They came with 2 guys. These guys, I was trying to read the situation. It seemed like 1 guy was tied to 1 girl the entire time, and they didn't switch... The guys would hang out together, the girls would hang out together, but the guys and girls would not change partners. And when they spoke to one another, their bodies were positioned really close, almost intimately close.

I approached one white freckly HB8 who I would've fucked the shit out of her mouth. Yes, I just said that. I used the situational opener, tried to break into conversation. But I never escalated. I asked her, "Who did you come here with?"

She pointed to some guy, and said, "My friend Darren!"

I didn't see any of them kiss every tonight... Maybe they really were just friends. Fuck.

I should've gone more intimate with them, but this whole "friend" thing is not clear to me as will be revealed in a later approach...

I approached the other asian HB8 and white blonde HB8 with situational openers... It didn't really go anywhere. And the conversation died. I just wanted to talk to them, and show them that I'm not a rapist, that I'm not a some guy trying to fuck them on the dance floor... And it was working for me...

The Asian HB8 after another approach I made later on, just commenting on the scene like, "Wow, you're friend is awesome!" I guess that's an opinion opener. When I did this, the Asian girl grabbed on to my arm and my lower back and got closer to me to hear what I was saying...

I suppose that was a good IOI, but I still wasn't sure what the deal was with those guys...

So nothing really developed with the HB8s. I threw value at them from the dance floor all night, and just tried being a fun dude.

I did actually pull the blonde HB8 onto the dancefloor for a good 5 seconds or so, then she fluttered away.

I noticed, that everyone is seeing my fucking approaches and fails... It definitely is humiliating. So I just sorta hold that in, and continue to smile only because I know that being unphased works and people around you will remain unphased as well by the fail. If you let it hurt you, people will see that in you. So choose to show people that you are in fact unphased. Don't be embarassed. You're fucking ballsy as hell.

So I continued to have fun each time I had a blow off.

HB10 is with her man ALL night. Making out and stuff, and who knows... Eventually they make it onto the dancefloor. I throw some value, she loves it, mirrors it back to me. It seems so easy when they're not bitches. I wasn't too challenged tonight.

I eventually start talking to her and I say something like this

"So who are you with tonight?"

"I'm with this guy."

"Oh, are you dating this guy?"

"I'm... sorta... like, you know, just sorta starting hanging out with him. It's only been a month"

"Ok, so you're seeing him."

"Yea, sorta."

"So, it would probably be very inappropriate of you to just go flirt with another guy then right?"

"Yea, it would probably not sound-"

"I mean you can't just be like 'I'll be right back' and then turn around to someone and start fucking them."

As I said that line, I positioned myself on her, like grinding on her. She was laughing her head off. I know, I'm insane. There's no other way to talk to these creatures.

I backed off, because I sorta know the guy too. But I still wanted to know if it could've been...

So I threw her value all night, and continued just dancing near her, giving her guy value as well, and being the party.

At the end of the night, as I was saying bye to her, I pull her close in and whisper into her ear, "Too bad you're not single."

She laughs and says, "Yea... Too bad."

That's the end of the HB10.

The HB9 has a fucking gorgeous face. Body is slightly curvy or heavy, but really, it was totally awesome. I thought she was fucking hot... My Roomate who was watching my game all night, when he brought up the part of this last girl I approached, he said that she was the prettiest girl at the bar except for the HB10 who was also totally into me and flirting with me and wanting me... He told me that I was stealing everyone's girlfriends unintentionally by just being nearby them hahahaha! Wow... I've become a chick magnet. Finally.

So this HB9, I've been throwing her value all night. Everytime I did that, she amplifies it back to me. I loved it! She was fucking awesome! Like she knew what she wanted! She was with this guy all night... But kept throwing value at me from a distance!

I'm starting to see Women Throwing Value at Me = Women are Attracted to Me... So i was in attraction. So next was to qualify them. I should work on how to do that.

So, I took some action, and I pulled her and her guy onto the dancefloor. She grabbed my hand and didn't hold his!

And she wouldn't let go! I was even trying to let go, because I was convinced they were dating or something.

So, eventually we let go together.

I kept throwing value at both of them. They stayed on the dance floor a lot.

Later on in the night, after i gave my stellar performances at Karaoke and gained the room's attention 100%, I just walked around giving everyone high fives, talking to everyone... I eventually make my way back to the HB9. Maybe I approached her, maybe she approached me. There were more than approaches with her, some ranging in small offers of value.

Everytime she threw value at me from the stage or from a distance, I stopped giving it to her because I was again certain that she was with this guy who she was already dancing with and getting close with...

Eventually she approached me.

"You know I'm just with my friend. He's like my best friend, I'm not dating him."

Holy shit. That reads to me as, "I want to fuck you."

I said, "Oh. Okay."

The guy returns. And I believe she told him what she just told me.

I said, "I don't want to step on anyones toes."

The guy and the girl said, "You're not stepping on anyones toes."

At some point the guy disappears for a good period of time. I approach her at this point immediately.

She opened to me instantly, and kino was initiated. My hand on her lower back, our other hands touching or moving in the air, while standing close to her body as if taking interest in her personal space. You're going to have to touch them at some point...

She is playing kino back with me. I grab her hand and say, "I really like your hands. Their so smooth and nice."

"Awwwww!!!! THANK YOU!"

I offered to read her palm.

She said Okay.

Here is where I did some dumb shit. While touching her hand, I tried to do some rapid escalation.

"I see a lot of money. I see a lot of health. Oh wait... What's this? I see a man. A very handsome man, standing right in front of you. And he wants to kiss you."

"Oh really?"

And I went in for the kiss. She pulled away, I held on for a little longer. I always hold on for just a little longer in case of the "I wanted him to not give up" thing happens. So I just kissed her on the cheek. Whatever. I didn't let this phase me. I read this as, "Slower please."

I backed up, and tried to continue flirting. She told me she was leaving, and also leaving the state on Saturday but that she'll be back in a week or 2.

I asked for her number in the most pussiest way.

"Ok, so can you give me your number so I can figure out a way to see you again sometime?"

I threw in words like "maybe" which made it more pussy sounding. But she still responded with, "Yes of course!"

I take out my phone. After some weird malfunction, she finally puts her number in. I remember her entering it in slowly... I wonder if she gave me a fake... After I got the number, i immeditely started planning the day of the date. Because she was leaving, it might be hard. I will try tomorrow. As she was leaving she said, "So i gave you my number already, so just text me, and it's definitely my real number. and we'll figure it out." She leaves smiling, hugging me. The guy gives me a big hug also...

I spoke to this guy alone and he also told me that "she's just his girl of or for the night."

I didn't K-close her. But I got her number. My roomate told me the entire night from his pov and started complimenting my skills, that I got all the hot girls to dance with me, and that I got the 2 hottest girls who came with guys to be all over me and mad into me... I don't even know how I did that exactly this time, and not the last times I was here...

Things I Did Well

  • I approached everyone.

  • I remained positive even when I didn't escalate properly.

  • I remained positive even when HB8s rejected me

  • I remained positive even though I knew I wouldn't get laid! :)

  • I had fun! :)

  • I got a number from a sexy girl! :)

  • All the hot chicks wanted me! :D

  • I was sober

  • I didn't just dance! I talked! I talked at the bar I used to always only dance at!

Things I did poorly

  • I was unfortunately not shit tested enough. I really need some women to take a big shit on me, so i could learn not to give a shit.

  • I didn't approach the HB8s properly. No Kino, no romance, no passion... Just dry... Get in there man!

  • I didn't talk enough

Things I want to improve on

  • Talking slower

  • Appoaching all women intimately

  • Reading people's situation better

  • Reading women's body language better

  • Escalate better

  • Qualifying