My goals are still approach one girl or say 4 times hi and smile. Was on my way to school. At the station was like ok I can approach but we had bad eye contact so I didn't. Looked for a spot next to a girl when I entered the train. I was ready and feeling good, but I just said hi, smiled and asked if I could sit next to her. Other than that didn't said anything. But it was a good warm up. Then I had to get into a bus. The girl which I couldn't approach the last time, day #7, took the same bus. Now I sat in front of her, read her body language a bit and I could notice that she wasn't ready for a conversation. Armed and feet crossed. And when I looked at her she didn't look back so I chose to do nothing. Then got a little bit uncomfortable so I tried to amuse myself. I had an engine driver who looked like adolf hitler, so I imagined him talking over the train and just pass all the people at the trainstation by while he sang along to rammstein 'ich will'. lol. I had to laugh and I could notice the girl in front of me started to relax again.Went to class and passed by the girl I met last week and said hi to her. Cool. Talked to the guys next to me and had some good conversations. It felt good. Then back home again. At the trainstation. Sat next to two girls. Was like oh double set. They were annoyed by some other people. So I asked them how long have the been here, it is annoying you know. Good conversation with them and talked to both of them. Could push it a little further but the goal was a short talk so I kept it at that. At my level an approach is enough first, then elaborate but not everything at the same time. But I kept on feeling better.The girl who sat at the bench next to me, dropped her ticket. I saw that and hurried to her, she smiled and said omg thank you. Didn't start a conversation. I could but at least I walked up to her. She had to leave quick. Next on the other bench a blonde girl sat and I had eye contact for a while. I was relaxed. I walked back to my bench and was like what the hell why dont I approach her, but this would be a real cold approach. I didn't but the good thing was I felt like doing it. Next time I will. Because I approached a couple on times to girls who sat next to me it startig to get easier. Again sat next to a girl. Didn't approach rigth away, but watched on my phone a bit and waited. Discoverd what works best for me. Just sit, think about approaching her, be certain that you will and from then on stop thinking. Normally I would get all in my head. But just wait and then I get the urge and do it. Dont get in your own way. She had weird boots so I asked are those for horse riding? She laughed and had a little chat with her. Then I left , shit I was on fire. And the thing is a week ago it seemed like such a big thing. But it's starts to get normal again. I was like cool let's get in the train. Do one more. So I looked for a girl to sit next to. I asked if I could sit next to her. She was busy with her laptop. On like day 3/4 I also tried to talk to a girl who was busy wit her laptop and I just couldn't. No I just asked. Had also a good conversation with her. Good report, but noticed that she was a bit frustrated, but she was nice to me though. She asked me questions and I asked her some. But I noticed that she was busy. So I didn't took it any further from there, she put her headphones on and started writing. For the rest of the ride I just get comfortable and feel good about the progress I made today. Nice.
Also got a date from a number I got a while ago for next week.
Learning points; Talk more and dont just asked and stop talking. Get momentum as fast as possible.
Get in a good mood(change your body ;) keep moving Know when to stop, read her body When approaching dont think but wait for a second and let yourself do it.
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